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Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 11:45:01 AM

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Hello - I'm fairly new here and I met a guy on this site and he is big into hypnosis. I'm a little concerned because I don't know what to expect and I was wondering if anyone has ever done hypnosis and what is the reasoning for it?

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RE: Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 12:00:38 PM

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I do not understand hypnosis when it comes to WIITWD. To me it makes no sense.

To me, a dominant should inspire obedience. Hypnosis is not inspiration. It is a technique that makes people do things they would normally not wish to do and may not even remember doing. That just feels wrong to me.

I submit because I want to submit. It feels good to submit to him. I don't need hypnosis to do that.

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RE: Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 12:13:05 PM

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I'm a little concerned because I don't know what to expect

Really? That's your concern? You should be concerned that he's qualified. Amateur hypnotists can cause damage and not know how to minimize it. All it takes is brushing up against something that neither of you know is there.

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RE: Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 12:23:52 PM

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Just to clarify, as someone who is trained in hypnosis, you can't make someone do things they really don't want to do. Being in trance may lower your inhibitions (much like being tipsy) but if it's entirely against your personality and morals even hypnosis can't compel you to do "anything" the hypnotist tells you to. Having said that though, Oside is right and an amature can indeed cause a negative reaction and have no idea how to fix it. If you decide to go along with what this man wants, proceed with caution.

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RE: Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 3:02:27 PM

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Luckily, an intelligent amateur who acknowledges that they're an amateur is relatively safe. Removing stressors (even if they're just the results of suggestion) and comforting the troubled person should cover the vast majority of problems. The real danger is amateurs who don't know that they're amateurs, and press on when the subject is clearly uncomfortable that causes most of the damage.

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To me, a dominant should inspire obedience. Hypnosis is not inspiration. It is a technique that makes people do things they would normally not wish to do and may not even remember doing. That just feels wrong to me.

Long-term, hypnosis can only compel obedience if the sub has a very particular psychological makeup. Dependent personality disorder at a bare minimum. It's actually less effective than being an all-purpose dick and hoping that onlookers equate "dominant" with "asshole".

Short-term, a sub who believes that they're actually stuck to the wall or who feels a suggested slap can be fun in circumstances where real restraints or touches are inappropriate. Likewise the sub who believes they can only communicate in meows. It's a fun tool so long as everyone knows what they're doing. Not unlike most kink toys.

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RE: Hypnosis - 10/30/2015 9:05:49 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint
I do not understand hypnosis when it comes to WIITWD. To me it makes no sense.

To me, a dominant should inspire obedience. Hypnosis is not inspiration. It is a technique that makes people do things they would normally not wish to do and may not even remember doing. That just feels wrong to me.

I submit because I want to submit. It feels good to submit to him. I don't need hypnosis to do that.

Same here. I have a switch friend who gets into Erotic Hypno. This is what he told me.

He wants to be a slave. He thinks that being under the "power" and influence" of an Erotic Hypno Domme will dissolve his mental barriers to submission.
Frankly imo, if this cannot be consciously and willfully done, then he has no business letting anybody mess around in his head.
Nor would I personally put much stock in quick fixes. From the Dominant's perspective, why would I want a sub who has to be hypnotized into submission???

Like you peppermint, I am also of the opinion that submission needs to be inspired; submission to another should be embraced, not resisted. When encountering resistance, then it should be walked through with conscious, interactive communication.

You would go to a qualified, certified clinical hypnotherapist if you wished to get to the root of a problematic issue such as a phobia, or smoke cessation for example, which will only be effective if you are truly ready to break a bad habit pattern.
Behavior modification via hypnotherapy will work for some, but not for many, and certainly not for all of us.

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Edited to add: OP, a lot of this Hypno stuff is touted by Cyber Dominants. This Dom you met, is a Cyber-Dom, I take it. Don't expect any relationship you develop with him to ever go off-line; he may be married, just another one of these keyboard warriors who will try to *hypnotize* you to go on cam and strut your stuff for him. I would be very careful and wary of getting in over your head, and it's not a healthy place for you to be if you start handing off personal responsibility for your actions because you were "hypnotized" into doing it.

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/2/2015 8:17:24 AM

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Let me start with I'm a certified, currently practicing hypnotist.

You've said he's "big into hypnosis" but not what he desires to do with it.
People responding kind of assumed that wants to use it to help 'enslave you' and that may or may not be true....we don't know. You don't know. You need to ask him.

The next thing I'd suggest is that you learn about hypnosis on your own. Hopefully there are some classes in your areas with your local BDSM group or you can check around on Meetup.com for a hypnosis group. You could even lookup Hypnosis101 on youtube. And by learn about it I mean learn what it is, how it works, etc. Then you're in a better position to see if it's something you want to try.

Let's also not forget asking HIM to explain to you how hypnosis works. You'd be amazed how many people I work with who have experienced hypnosis with recreational hypnotists who were never given the slightest bit of information beyond "hey, wanna try this". And here's a hint, if he can't give you a good class on what it is and how it works ....not talking about a PhD lecture....just an explanation...then you probably shouldn't be doing it with him.

As far as using hypnosis for submission goes...unless that is YOUR kink, then I wouldn't advise going down that path until you're more educated personally. I'm a hypnotist..I have a sub...I don't use hypnosis to 'make' her submit. I use it to bind her to things, force or deny orgasms, increase and decrease body sensitivity, roleplay, guided imagery, and many many more things. I don't use it to garner or increase her submission. And neither should he.

Please feel free to contact me if you have more questions.

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/2/2015 7:31:32 PM

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I use the hypnography for weman for my wife works great to bring orgasam

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/20/2015 9:08:46 AM

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Look into my eyes and by default my very soul give me all your muffins did that work? If not I can send my carrier pigeon squadron posthaste to collect the delicious bounty.

What do I think of hypnosis I think it’s a load of olde codswallop (I just term/word it differently from Verbivore ). But placebos sometimes work. The human mind is a mysterious place and what was that quote from that film I see muffins, and that time I saw that UFO…hmm, and that time I had a premonition (don't get me started on that lot) there be no cake in my house by 2pm today.

Ah, well you have my opinion – why do people say they are into in any lifestyle there are many reasons I can’t be bothered typing out big sentences
1. They are creeps (imo)
2. Control
3. Having control taking away from you
4. Give me all your muffins – you under yet for I am getting peckish
5. An excuse for doing stuff, you secretly fantasize about
6. Willingly unwilling, or is it the other way about, unwillingly willing
7. Bewitch, hexed, spell bound, entranced, in a trance.
8. Being seemingly helpless no control
9. Power

And a great many more

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/20/2015 11:25:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: submissive1965

Hello - I'm fairly new here and I met a guy on this site and he is big into hypnosis. I'm a little concerned because I don't know what to expect and I was wondering if anyone has ever done hypnosis and what is the reasoning for it?

I would not be overally concerned about hypnosis. There are too many Hollywood myths about hypnotism. Contrary to popular belief, hypnotized people will not go out and do things against their will. Post hypnotic suggest can help you do things you want to do like quit smoking. But do not take my word on this. You can find many articles on the web about hypnosis for accredited institutions. As is the link below.

http://aaph.org/hypnosis-FAQ#Control

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/21/2015 1:36:03 PM

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What would a "dominant" need to use hypnosis for? To break you to quit smoking ciggs?

I mean... seriously, what's the angle?

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RE: Hypnosis - 12/21/2015 1:49:41 PM

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Need does not play into the equation. It is simply a fetish, albeit a more rare one, that some Dominants enjoy combining with BDSM. No different that the person who enjoys tying up their subs with silk scarves. It is a fetish they have learned to enjoy.

It is really nothing new. I have seen Dominants advertise their specialty in hypnosis for as long as I have been into the scene (80's).

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RE: Hypnosis - 1/29/2016 2:07:09 PM

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My Master has used it as a relaxation tool on me. He has also used it for kinky playtimes. We enjoy it. Before he had used it on me I had done some research and the consensus seems to be that no one can make you do anything under hypnosis that you really don't want to do...makes you think when you do something you never thought you would. But that can happen without hypnosis too...with the right person.

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RE: Hypnosis - 1/29/2016 2:21:52 PM

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My advice is to know the person super well before tinkering with that, if ever.
It can be very powerful.
it can be good or bad.
Sounds intriguing but think long and hard before you allow someone permission to mindbend.

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RE: Hypnosis - 1/30/2016 11:39:26 PM

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Perhaps mesmerizing would be a happy medium to try? Although it's not the same thing as hypnosis, it can get your feet wet. I look at it as a less "severe" form to induce relaxation for example ^_^ Of course, it all depends on what you're using it for and such. Best of luck!

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RE: Hypnosis - 2/15/2016 7:26:11 PM

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Seriously? Get some genuine education on it.

You'd be amazed at what is possible.

Just about anything you can in Kink you can also do with Hypnosis: binding, tickling, impact, roleplace
And there are a ton of things that aren't possible in reality that you can do through hypnosis.

It doesn't replace Dominance..and I don't use it to "control" anyone to obey me.
It's a tool in the toybag just like my paddles, violet wand and floggers.

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RE: Hypnosis - 2/15/2016 7:28:24 PM

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That was for WickedDesire and Janah

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RE: Hypnosis - 2/16/2016 9:53:22 AM

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