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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/23/2015 11:47:23 AM

sweetieDA

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a) why is she letting him buy and sell her? Doesn't she have her own money to pay for transport? If no - then she will be completely financially dependent on you, which is a drag. Date women who work.

b) so what if he won't release her - she has the legal right to just leave. If she won't, I suspect it isn't him forcing her to stay, but her trying to make money off you.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/23/2015 12:11:47 PM

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a) why is she letting him buy and sell her? Doesn't she have her own money to pay for transport? If no - then she will be completely financially dependent on you, which is a drag. Date women who work.

b) so what if he won't release her - she has the legal right to just leave. If she won't, I suspect it isn't him forcing her to stay, but her trying to make money off you.

It's a scam FFS!!!

There's just one hairy-chested HNG typing this in his mom's basement.
There's no 'her' at all.
You send the money, 'she' mysteriously disappears off the radar never to be seen again.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/24/2015 10:03:34 PM

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I have never done this and would like to explore slavery. I keep getting approached by Masters who say, you will drink my piss and everything I want. Are there Masters on here that will start a little slower and expand limits HELP

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/24/2015 10:35:07 PM

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I have never done this and would like to explore slavery. I keep getting approached by Masters who say, you will drink my piss and everything I want. Are there Masters on here that will start a little slower and expand limits HELP

All I can say is that if they don't and demand shit right away... run the fuck away. Any relationship, whether vanilla or BDSM related is built on a foundation of trust. Listen to your "spidey senses", they usually will not lie to you.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/24/2015 10:54:06 PM

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"You will drink my piss, and everything I want."
Hmmmmm.... I wonder how often that pick up line works?

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/24/2015 11:34:24 PM

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I'm on diuretics. you'd be drinkin alotta pee. So called "Masters" like that are idiots. Run dear child .. run for the hills

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/25/2015 1:03:06 AM

Aibo

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This sound fishy.
So I agree with some previous posters on that.

@meslave1974: If a guy don't have the common sense to start things easy with someone who is new to this - he's not worth to bother with.
Then again you list as gay, and the gay sm world is rough territory as far as I know.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/25/2015 2:07:11 AM

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I have a local sub that I'm very interested in. She is currently serving another Dom. She wants to leave him because they are not a good match. He has no use for her, and he has told me this directly. But,... He wants her to pay him back the four hundred and $50 that it took to bring her from Indiana to New York. He won't release her unless she gets the money to him. So naturally she has asked me for the money. I told her I would never pay another dime for his sub. And that's the truth never never never. So my question is if you pay for a sub to come to your location you're putting out the money on the chance, I'll say it again chance, that things will work out between you. If they don't work out between you and your son that's the chance that you took. It's like gambling in my opinion. You might win you might lose. But to force your sub whom you don't want anymore, to pay you back the expense you laid out to get her to you just seem so long. It sounds petty.

Your opinions please?

DomAndre

Man, you have that she's local. If so, then tell her to collect all that she can carry, meet at some well known public place and pick her up.

If this isn't a scam, she should agree, if she doesn't...it's a scam.

Next question.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/25/2015 2:18:10 AM

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I have never done this and would like to explore slavery. I keep getting approached by Masters who say, you will drink my piss and everything I want. Are there Masters on here that will start a little slower and expand limits HELP

Someone might let you know what they would expect from you IF you were their slave...this doesn't mean that you're under any obligation to become their slave. It's okay to say no thanks.

Someone who pushes your submissive buttons (often by talking about your kinks/fetishes) can send you into "sub frenzy". Feel free to Google that term. Anyway, if you feel your ability to say no has been compromised, back away from the computer for a few days and "walk it off". Some people can be pushed into "sub spacing" even just from conversation, and have gone through "sub drop" hell all on their own. These intense feelings to not prove that you have found the perfect person to serve, it can also mean that you are between partners and are too hungry for some power exchange.

There are a lot of good BDSM groups in Ohio. I sent you a private message with info for one that has an early December meetup (in a restaurant). It's for newbies and it's free (except for what you choose to buy to eat/drink in the restaurant). I can look up ones all over Ohio and send you the link, and maybe some of you can laugh over your iced tea about the crazy things people demand of new people over the internet.

My advice...slow down. Make friends with a lot of other kinky people. Watch. Listen. Learn. Read some non-fantasy, non-porn, BDSM educational books, find your local BDSM munch groups, see if there are any dungeons in your area and sign up for newbie educational classes. Find people to hang out with whose company you enjoy. Date people, find out who they are as a person and eventually you will find out if they are someone you would even want to serve. Spend time being a submissive before looking to be someone's slave.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 11/26/2015 4:21:52 AM

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I'm The Dude.
Give Me the money-I'll handle the drop off.
They'll love getting a suitcase full of old undies...

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 12/1/2015 1:31:19 PM

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Thought I answered this one. *must be going more senile- o dear oh me*

Has been said by many others a common scam
Other common scams are I need money for a brain transplant.
I am stuck in penge and the natives plan on boiling me for soup purposes or is it stew!. I’d get the next flight out but I lost my passport and be looking for a witless cretin to wire dosh
Call some weirdo number at £50 muffin /per nano second.
Click my cam link if you want to see more pictures of me.
Anyone who requires cash wired..this is the 21st century we all have untraceable carrier pigeons
You have one billion gold bars in the Nigerian lottery – to access the loot please wire cash.
You have inherited 250 000 dollars.

Sad thing is some people do.

I myself are a destitute hobo with a fondness for cheap bedwetting chardonnay and my cat bills i require cash...oh that reminds me i saw on insta my cats needs a $1000 operation....and they typically befriend all of us with cats on our profiles...scamming bampots preying on human emotion.

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RE: for all experienced Doms to answer. - 12/3/2015 6:04:51 AM

Aibo

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I need money for a brain transplant.

Brain transplant, you are lucky to have a whole brain to start with.
Me? I just got one single functioning braincell so I am too envious to send you any money. :P

The one about soup or stew was a good one.

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