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AtUrCervix -> RE: Male subs: Self deprecation is annoying (1/15/2016 6:56:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: AAkasha



First, let me just ask if any other femdoms find self deprecating behavior from sub men to be at all endearing? I am not talking about the very occasional "poking fun at oneself," but comments made frequently that are like less offensive versions of "I am a lowly worm."

Things like:

"But I probably don't know what I am talking about it."
"But my opinion doesn't matter."
"I'm nothing compared to you in this aspect."

This also isn't humility, which I find to be more subtle. These are deliberate "digs" at oneself, brought up during non-playtime, with a sheepish look or pause of anticipation. I sometimes feel like this is either self-flagellation of ego, or a subtle enjoyment at acknowledging perceived or imagine "female superiority" (even when the sub says he is not a female supremacist - head scratcher!)

Akasha


Yeah, that's bullshit but.....you have to understand that...removing the sub aspect....us men (Dom or sub) really do think you chics are amazing and....when you put all that makeup on, heels and shit....it's kinda tough to compete so.....accept it (on some level).




dcnovice -> RE: Male subs: Self deprecation is annoying (1/15/2016 9:15:13 PM)

FR

This thread brought to mind an exchange from a while back.

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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

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I understand that subs are the krill of the D/s ocean.


Bear in mind, of course, that the entire marine ecosystem would collapse without krill. [:)]


http://www.collarchat.com/m_1413478/mpage_1/key_krill/tm.htm#1417094




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