ExiledTyrant
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First of all, Primal Play is edge play. It's not fluffy play I'm gunna safeword if it get's too intense. It is always INTENSE.
Here's some quick rules to follow:
1. Do not ever Primal Play with someone you do not know.
2. RACK: Risk Aware Consensual Kink works, SSC does not.
3. If anyone invites you to Primal Play and doesn't make you aware of the risk and plays their "pro" or "experienced card" they are a fucktard and you will go to the hospital.
4. If anyone discusses a "Primal Scene" with you, they are a fucktard and you have no business messing with them. Primal is instinctual, organic, and evolves as you go. Observers call it a scene, but you are not participating in a script, it is unfolding.
Playing with a Primal individual is about escalation. It takes time, familiarity, experience, and a lot of self awareness to Primal play. If you wish to engage in Primal Play do so using RACK. Before you go looking for a Primal Predator/prey, here is what you need to know:
1. What your Primal likes are; biting, scratching/clawing, manhandled, tackling, take down, punching, kicking, etc... know what you like and stick to your list. Your primal partner should be eager to facilitate your likes/needs and no more or no less. If they cannot/will not, move on.
2. Primal Play is edge play. If you have a medical condition before you play, make your partner aware so the play can be tailored to suit your needs. If you do not have a medical condition before you start, you will after. Primal Play will always leave you with contusions and abrasions. Sometimes it'll land you in the ER with a broken limb because shit happens. It is edge play after all.
3. Start with one (1) like/want on your list and play with it. Biting, how hard, where, when, learn how you liked to be bitten or bite and find equilibrium with your partner. Primal is not a lucid state, it is animalistic, nevertheless when you slowly escalate you will intuitively bite, grapple, kick, punch, claw, at an acceptable level for your partner.
Primal Play becomes a dance, you start off learning each other with "non-resistance". All the things you and your partner want to experience in Primal Play should be done with total non-resistance first... just lean into it so you will feel the brunt of the "act".
Passive resistance: This is the next step in escalation. You do not fight your partner off but you don't go all rag doll on them either. This is the part where you lean away from what they are doing and you both can find the level of strength/force that will be exerted.
Active resistance: This is where the snuggle with a struggle comes in. The Predator "wants" to do X, it is your job to not "allow" X. Using Active Resistance you will use your gravity and leverage to resist "the act". This is where you really figure out why it is edge play. Someone is going to get hurt, but since you are doing this in a lucid state it'll be a sprain at worse, but you'll understand how it could've been a break.
Hunt: This is the level you are trying to achieve. This is the animalistic level of Primal Play. The Predator is after X, and the prey is going to make the Predator earn the hell out of it. If you have gradually escalated your Primal play the only thing that will need to heal is bruises and abrasions... maybe some pride, but if you dive in too fast, it'll be the ER 6-8 weeks and the cast comes off.
A Hunt is the "scene" that you wish to experience. Only the destination is written, the journey is the mystery. If your "Hunt" destination is till someone gets fucked, the Hunt goes on until that destination is reached. If it is a time limit, the hunt goes on till the time runs out. If it is to capture... blah blah blah tra la la...
Primal Play shouldn't be confused with Rough Play. Primal is unleashing the animal that is just under your skin. Jekyll is dead and Mr. Hyde is large and in charge. Hence the need for escalation and training your limits together. You're in an animalistic state, but through training you can snap out of it and deal with any crises that occurs.
Primal Predators are predators/hunters. They are not carrion eaters. They do not want you to roll over and play dead, they want to take from you what they want, and they want to earn that shit.
As a Primal Predator I can, am, and will hurt you. However, I follow all the above steps so I do not damage you.
Jus sayin
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