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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 6:04:38 PM   
LadyPact


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I never said anyone had to agree with or do anything I said... But to start calling people names for voicing their opinion is suppression of freedom of speech. That's what pissed me off. I don't know he's been here x amount of time I'm new here. I still think it was handled wrong and calling people sock or whatever doesn't really help your point it only opens up the possibility of a negative response which I see some of you seem to enjoy. You complain about people complaining that puts you in the same category as them if not worse. I believe you call them socks... Run out of arguing material? Let's criticize his spelling lol! Like I give a rats ass about spelling that's what I have a secretary for.

The sock thing is entirely another issue. Currently, there are some very malicious folks who are taking advantage of the 'permission to have multiple accounts' rule to do some things that I haven't seen the likes of in years. Stuff that goes into the territory of actual threats and areas that I don't even care to repeat. Some things are getting pretty darn bad.

On most occasions, (and I am the first to admit I'm not perfect) I tend to treat people with common courtesy. I do not mind being civil on most occasions.



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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 6:05:08 PM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		Yeah I could give a shit less about someone like that. Feel free to block me then I won't have to read all these selfish replies like *****Ah ah! That's not allowed. Be nice or be moderated!***** for example. All I did was agree with someone and voiced my opinion and I never mentioned anyone in specific. Naturally people that feel guilty due to my statement feel the need to defend them selves with derogatory comments aimed at me directly. That was no surprise to me at all so why are you surprised when I react the way I did? Fuck her and her opinion I never asked for it. Just like I never asked to be spanked by her. She's dillusional and thinks everything is about her. We're back to double standards now... Seems to be popping up on all threads.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 6:22:48 PM   
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Yeah I could give a shit less about someone like that. Feel free to block me then I won't have to read all these selfish replies like *****Ah ah! That's not allowed. Be nice or be moderated!***** for example. All I did was agree with someone and voiced my opinion and I never mentioned anyone in specific. Naturally people that feel guilty due to my statement feel the need to defend them selves with derogatory comments aimed at me directly. That was no surprise to me at all so why are you surprised when I react the way I did? Fuck her and her opinion I never asked for it. Just like I never asked to be spanked by her. She's dillusional and thinks everything is about her. We're back to double standards now... Seems to be popping up on all threads.



I am so happy that I took you off the block for a moment (no worries it will be brief), nice that you do talk about double standards, why don't you go back and check who started with the name calling? You might find out it was you.

As for your superior intelligence (I leave your bragging about how fluent you are in English and German - since you can't spell in ANY language, yeah yeah I know, you're on a mobile and a German one at that yet you claim to be in Texas...), let me explain to you how posting on a public forum works, since you obviously don't quite "get it". Btw to "be spanked" was a metaphor, because you obviously are a sucker for public humiliation.
I assume you have to resort to name calling whenever you run out of ideas, seems to happen fairly frequently, you being such a smart guy (as you tried to tell us) and all.

You post something, you don't get to pick who is allowed to reply, you also don't get to tell others that they have to agree with you. You put it out there for the world to see. You can't take the heat, don't go into the kitchen, little boy.

As for **** me, no thanks, I wish to remain disease free, apart from the fact that I prefer real men, not spare parts or sorry excuses.

Oh and thanks for thinking I'm a Brit, English is my 3rd language.

You also might want to familiarize yourself with the rules of the forum, a smart guy like you shouldn't have trouble finding them...

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 8:03:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Cuckingcurious

I never said anyone had to agree with or do anything I said... But to start calling people names for voicing their opinion is suppression of freedom of speech. That's what pissed me off. I don't know he's been here x amount of time I'm new here. I still think it was handled wrong and calling people sock or whatever doesn't really help your point it only opens up the possibility of a negative response which I see some of you seem to enjoy. You complain about people complaining that puts you in the same category as them if not worse. I believe you call them socks... Run out of arguing material? Let's criticize his spelling lol! Like I give a rats ass about spelling that's what I have a secretary for.



Violation of "free speech"? On a private message board?

If you are so superior in your intelligence, why can't you grasp the meaning of "freedom of speech" - a concept third graders learn?

Can't wait to hear this one.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 8:31:45 PM   
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But to start calling people names for voicing their opinion is suppression of freedom of speech.

No, actually it would be freedom of speech to call someone names for voicing their opinion.

And again, freedom of speech doesn't apply on a private website.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:17:57 PM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		Yeah in an attempt to silence that person...
Private website that's open to anyone to join... Sounds like a public place to me....

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:23:59 PM   
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Like I give a rats ass about spelling that's what I have a secretary for.




I guess when ur secretary starts typing ur replies on here we'll give u props for being smart enough to have someone grammatically smarter than u type ur lame arguments for u.

(exercising My freedom of speech AND using a spellchecker!....just say'n)

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:44:10 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a question. I have heard this mentioned a few times but it baffles me..............How DOES somebody threaten somebody they don't know, have never met and have no idea where they live ? It seems very strange to me. almost zen in it's weirdness *smile*.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:45:56 PM   
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Status: offline 		I come to this forum to see what people are posting about (being a leather orientated lifestyle dyke its very different topics verses my world). I find it amusing when I see the male tops answering the questions posted here (rarely see the Females posting in there forum). I have read a couple of post I personally found interesting & intelligent topics posted and respond to. Additionally I do find the male sub grievances about their approaches towards Females amusing, along with the responses. It's a mixed bag

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:47:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		I meant........how do they make threats on-line, of course. My apologies. I realise I was a little vague about that.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 10:56:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

I have a question. I have heard this mentioned a few times but it baffles me..............How DOES somebody threaten somebody they don't know, have never met and have no idea where they live ? It seems very strange to me. almost zen in it's weirdness *smile*.



I believe the term you're looking for is,.... "empty threat" or phrase, "...all bark and no bite."

(and since you're replying to Me ) I don't think I threatened anyone did I?

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 11:26:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have no idea friend..........Please believe me, I wasn't having a back-handed shot at you or anybody else in particular..............I just noticed it in somebody's response to somebody else. But I have seen it a few times on here and I wonder how anybody can feel threatened by some keyboard cowboy they will never meet ? There are plenty on here I would like to meet in a dark alley sometime but it's not going to happen, so what is the point of the threat and what form does it usually take ?

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/16/2015 11:59:20 PM   
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I have a question. I have heard this mentioned a few times but it baffles me..............How DOES somebody threaten somebody they don't know, have never met and have no idea where they live ? It seems very strange to me. almost zen in it's weirdness *smile*.

Oh, geez. This could take a bit.

First, it might be an incorrect assumption that all of the above apply. Even if a person just knows the other person's scene/screen name, there are a lot of ways to find that person in real life.

If you teach and/or do demos for kink groups, the organizer is going to have your scene name out there when they announce the event. As the presenter, most people want you to RSVP if the event is listed on Fet. I stopped teaching there for a while for precisely this reason.

Any events that you attend away from home. I did a trip in August of last year back down to GA where I had lived for a while. A person, literally, joined that local Fetlife group to say he would be following me there and a few other choice things.

Improperly trained folks who are volunteering for major events, clubs, and cons. There has been a huge shift in the USA about preregistering for big events. Especially if something has been labeled "sex-positive" (meaning they allow sexual contact during the event) there is an issue with 'pay at the door' set ups. (Comes too close to the 'pay to have sex' type laws here.) Mix in you have to give your proof of legal age and that means people do have your real time info.

Oddly enough, my husband's job. People who have similar careers can log on the military site and know my general location. That means even though I've moved, my general area is known.

Public records. My husband's ex-wife, whom he been divorced from for over fifteen years at the time, was called once. Thankfully, she had the good sense to contact us after that happened.

I could spend half of the night giving other examples that have happened to me, personally. You would be absolutely astounded at the lengths some mentally unstable, obsessed people will do.



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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 12:08:20 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks Lady Pact............I never took very well to threats. I usually waited until the person making the threat had said their piece and then I invoked the 'Do unto others' rule. That was face to face though, not from behind a keyboard. It was just that bit about people making threats online always had me smiling to myself. Thanks again though.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 12:28:26 AM   
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Thanks Lady Pact............I never took very well to threats. I usually waited until the person making the threat had said their piece and then I invoked the 'Do unto others' rule. That was face to face though, not from behind a keyboard. It was just that bit about people making threats online always had me smiling to myself. Thanks again though.

You are quite welcome.

Part of the problem is, you can't predict who is just a keyboard warrior and those who will do real life. Real life doesn't necessarily equate to the person finding their target in the physical sense. The mess that some people can make with even just a few phone calls that have to be 'fixed' can be mind boggling.

On several occasions, there has been a person travel greater distances than that of your entire country, just to try to find me at a public place. Really, really does happen.



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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 4:38:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874

I have a question. I have heard this mentioned a few times but it baffles me..............How DOES somebody threaten somebody they don't know, have never met and have no idea where they live ? It seems very strange to me. almost zen in it's weirdness *smile*.



I believe the term you're looking for is,.... "empty threat" or phrase, "...all bark and no bite."

(and since you're replying to Me ) I don't think I threatened anyone did I?



I think he used FR

There are a number of ways to find out, unfortunately, I rather not get into detail here to give some people ideas, learned that when I was stalked. For example if you take pics with a mobile and you post them anywhere, usually the mobile gathers the location info unless you switch it off specifically, somebody who knows what to look for can easily find it... eMail addresses, etc.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 6:58:16 AM   
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Since "u"want to be the grammar and spelling police's little bitch I urge you to actually use "ur" spell checker before trying to correct someone! "Ur" argument is mute. Just saying "u" know.
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Like I give a rats ass about spelling that's what I have a secretary for.




I guess when ur secretary starts typing ur replies on here we'll give u props for being smart enough to have someone grammatically smarter than u type ur lame arguments for u.

(exercising My freedom of speech AND using a spellchecker!....just say'n)

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 7:09:14 AM   
Cuckingcurious


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Status: offline 		Lady whatever, you continually mention my spelling but let me ask you this.. What good does spelling do when you have absolutely no reading comprehension. I never said my phone is a German phone I said I text on it in both languages sometimes a third. Any phones spellchecker will remember words regardless if correct or incorrect. Someone being so damn smart should know that. And no I did not call anyone in specific any sort of name till you obviously took it personally because you can't read! I was voicing my opinion about bitchy so called dommes in general and out you popped calling me sock and what ever else. I'm not gonna take that from you!

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 7:16:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thank you lady pact for your very reasonable response, I'm glad to see not everyone is crazy here.

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RE: Ask a Mistress....because..... - 12/17/2015 7:49:34 AM   
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Lady whatever, you continually mention my spelling but let me ask you this.. What good does spelling do when you have absolutely no reading comprehension.

Because the spelling, and the grammar, can change the whole meaning of a sentence or paragraph.
Spelling and grammar are important if you want to make yourself understood correctly within the written medium.
A badly placed or missing piece of punctuation or a wrong homonym could even reverse the meaning of what you wrote.

So.... something badly written could mean the reader is unable (or unwilling) to comprehend your composition.
Ergo: your complaint of people having no reading comprehension could equally reflect on your own lack of communication skills.

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