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Playtime - 12/1/2015 3:03:59 PM   
MissPyro


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Just a bit of advice really.

I am staying in a nice hotel for 3 nights which my sub had paid for. We will be staying together for the duration. Apart from the usual ' games ' etc and sessions, has anyone any ideas what I / we can do together as Domme / sub ? There is only so long I can spank, humiliate etc him without it getting boring.

Any ideas gratefully received

Thank you for your time reading my first post !

Miss Pyro
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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 3:07:01 PM   
seekingreality


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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 3:10:57 PM   
LadyConstanze


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Status: offline 		You could do some subtle BDSM stuff, you know, he wears your pantyhose under his trousers, vibrator with a remote control, electric butt plug...

Apart from that, just behave like a normal couple as you don't want to make the other guests or staff uncomfy, but you could make him sleep on the floor, maybe with one arm handcuffed to the foot of the bed or something, he could always rub your feet, fetch you things...

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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 3:17:19 PM   
MissPyro


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Status: offline 		We have a great almost 'vanilla' relationship and really get along. So talking not a problem! Lol

I have already got him a remote butt plug which he is super excited about. Handcuffs might be an issue as I am in the uk and we are meeting up in Auckland ( he is flying in from Melbourne) so customs might be curious ! I will take plastic cable ties !

Miss Pyro

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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 3:23:55 PM   
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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 5:09:45 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissPyro

Hi all people

Just a bit of advice really.

I am staying in a nice hotel for 3 nights which my sub had paid for. We will be staying together for the duration. Apart from the usual ' games ' etc and sessions, has anyone any ideas what I / we can do together as Domme / sub ? There is only so long I can spank, humiliate etc him without it getting boring.

Any ideas gratefully received

Thank you for your time reading my first post !

Miss Pyro


You're a Domme (and a findomme to boot)....you're clearly enjoying someone's largess....for a purpose.

Do your job.

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RE: Playtime - 12/1/2015 6:26:49 PM   
littleclip


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Status: offline 		have him massage you starting at your feet another is he could help bath you shampoo your hair rinse condition ect and after dry you off dry your hair brush and braid it if you like give you a pedicure

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RE: Playtime - 12/3/2015 10:48:58 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		seekingreality what a really good answer *smiles*

I like getting my hair cut and massaged(scalp obviously) and my body and evil restless legs - so another good suggestion to whittle away the hours from littleclip

But if that does not seem Domely enough perhaps you could sell him into slavery for shoe money.

3 days it not a long time but it can be like an eternity if you fritter away tic toc correctly. And, given that you went to the bother (for whatever reasons) of an hotel it should be stretched till an eternity and a memory that will last forever.

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RE: Playtime - 12/13/2015 3:53:38 AM   
MissPyro


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Status: offline 		Thank you peeps ! Much appreciated

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RE: Playtime - 12/13/2015 8:59:39 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		Did y'all take a nap? Some of the suggestions on this thread would have bored me to death.

When I used to go and spend the weekend with tk at his apartment, we used to have to adjust play. There was no whip swinging or loud impact.

Clothespegs. You can do those anywhere.

Sensory dep. Five bucks worth of saran wrap and you've got it made.

Wax. You can do wax any place.

Simple bondage. Make him your own.

Needles. Yes, this requires some learning on your part. Still fun tough.



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RE: Playtime - 12/16/2015 4:11:22 PM   
MissPyro


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RE: Playtime - 12/16/2015 4:14:37 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Playtime - 12/16/2015 4:27:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Sorry. You folks across the pond call it cling wrap.




Cling film

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RE: Playtime - 12/16/2015 5:03:20 PM   
LadyPact


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RE: Playtime - 12/20/2015 10:35:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		Leather wrist and ankle cuffs with D rings travel well through airports and security screenings. 200 feet of rope can be purchased at any hardware store. In hotel rooms there are not many tie off points. But you can run the rope under the mattress so it is easy to tie the person down to the bed in a variety of positions. Spread eagle probably being the most common. Fun with ice cubes at this point is recommended

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RE: Playtime - 12/24/2015 4:16:10 AM   
MissPyro


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Status: offline 		Thank you wonderful people for advice and suggestions ! The room has a fridge freezer as well so I will be making an ice dildo with which to peg him with as well

Collar, cuffs and rope along with riding crop and duct tape are already on the list to pack.

Subbie has also booked me a hair and nails appt for the morning before we meet, along with a spa day.

Life is good

Merry Christmas to one and All

Xx

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