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hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: Are there many who like to be used? (7/20/2006 10:01:38 AM)
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My personal perspective comes from being able to seperate sex/sexual activies/kink from Relationships.
In a Relationship - I both want and expect there to be a mutual caring and emotional sustaining. Play may or may not go on within that relationship. (Though for me personally, if it's a romantic relationship you can bet your bippy that play is going to be going on - otherwise it's doubtful that I will remain.)
In play/sex/sexual activies outside of a specifically romantic relationship (which, personally, I have no problem with - satisfying pure lust has it's own kind of fun that I'm not particularly willing to deny to myself) I find that I really could care less whether they "care" about me or not. Hell, it's just as likely that I don't give two hoots and a holler about THEM, outside of whether or not they're able to scratch my particular "itch" at that time, so why would it matter whether I'm more to them than scratching an itch? It would be rather hypocritical of me to expect them to "care deeply" or "love" me when I'm using them as much as they're using me. That goes for whether it's one on one or a gangbang (which can be amusing and fun with the right guys involved) or a full blown orgy.
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