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Cell -> To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/25/2015 10:54:46 PM)

I tried to send you a reply but you just decided to have a go at me and then block me so I couldn't reply.
I don't want to shame you in anyway so I hope it isn't obvious what my message is talking about but I wanted you to be able to read it and hopefully see that you were mistaken.

RE: Your message
It was an honest question. I don't have anything to do with any other posters and I can honestly say that any attack or the like you seem to have read into my posts is in your head.

I didn't reply further to your last post as you seem to have said everything you were going to.

And while I've seen a lot of female posters on this site who seem to have nothing better to do than to pick at and imagine faults with anything male posters say. I can assure you, (and to reiterate) this was not the case with my posts.

I've been the target of trolling female posters trying to cut my balls off a fair bit myself, I don't think I'd ever stoop so low as to join in and I promise you, if I ever want to attack you I'd have no qualms about saying whatever I wanted directly, in no uncertain terms, so you can probably take what ever I post at face value.
Up to you.




LadyPact -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/25/2015 10:57:51 PM)

That's strange. One of the forum regulars?




stef -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/26/2015 1:56:56 AM)

Well, at least you got the last word in. [image]http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-rolleyes008.gif[/image]




Lucylastic -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/26/2015 8:55:24 AM)

wondering who it could possibly be....grins
I can think of only one reg who does that kind of stuff
if its the other person im thinking of...im surprised.
how enigmatic isnthat?




dreamlady -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/26/2015 8:52:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lucylastic
wondering who it could possibly be....grins
I can think of only one reg who does that kind of stuff
if its the other person im thinking of...im surprised.
how enigmatic isnthat?

I think you and I are thinking of the same regular, and HE routinely blocks and hides anybody who disagrees with anything he has to say, as well as any imagined slight.

OP, if it's who I think it is, this is that person's passive-aggressive way of handling things so that they can always feel they got the upper hand.

Just brush it off, it's not your personal problem or character-deficit issue.


DreamLady




Wayward5oul -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/26/2015 9:31:10 PM)

I'm so lost




dreamlady -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/26/2015 10:03:49 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

I'm so lost

You have c-mail. [;)]




Wayward5oul -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/27/2015 10:39:33 AM)

Thank you. Honestly, I should have been able to figure that one out myself.




WinsomeDefiance -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/27/2015 3:06:04 PM)

I agree with dreamlady, in regards to brushing it off and not letting it bother you.
I've no clue who you are referring to, nor am I concerned with whomever it might be.
I just wanted to send you some love and encouragement because I personally enjoy reading your posts.




GreedyTop -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/27/2015 10:28:59 PM)

Wow. I have been gone a while... *clueless* (but ok with that, I think...)




FelineRanger -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/28/2015 8:52:06 AM)

I have to ask why you even went to this length. Just a casual browse through profiles will reveal several people complaining about others who make unkind comments and then block so that no reply is possible. Further, without the context of previous messages or posts in forums, we have no way of knowing what provoked the other person's behavior. So what's the point to this outside of making a grand show of being the "better man?"




cloverodella -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/28/2015 9:34:09 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Cell

I've been the target of trolling female posters trying to cut my balls off


How exactly does that work?




Wayward5oul -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/28/2015 9:54:13 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FelineRanger

I have to ask why you even went to this length. Just a casual browse through profiles will reveal several people complaining about others who make unkind comments and then block so that no reply is possible. Further, without the context of previous messages or posts in forums, we have no way of knowing what provoked the other person's behavior. So what's the point to this outside of making a grand show of being the "better man?"

If it is someone who posts in these forums regularly, I can see the OP wanting to clear up any misunderstandings so that being blocked or hidden doesn't interfere with participation on the forums. If someone has someone else blocked or hidden, that prevents dialog between the two of them in threads. If there was a real conflict between the two of them, then that's probably a good thing. But if it is due to a misunderstanding, why not try to clear it up? And this would be the easiest place to do so.




Lucylastic -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/28/2015 10:01:02 AM)

WHen people email or message me,upset about a post(yeah it happens*shock*) I want to either apologise or explain where I may have been wrong, or right.
I have also posted public apologies, to get it across without naming names.
Its not about being "the best man" as Wayward said, its trying to clear up misunderstandings.




PeonForHer -> RE: To the person who decided to message and then block me... (12/28/2015 2:39:45 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Wayward5oul

I'm so lost


Likewise. Seems like rum behaviour to me: I can only guess that it is indeed about 'having the last word'.

I've only had that once and that was with a non-forum-user. She and I were having an agreeable-enough pm exchange, till she decided we should have a phone convo. During this it became clear that she was a 'bait 'n' switcher' and asked to know when I wanted to 'book a session'. When I told her that I didn't do that sort of thing she informed me that I 'shouldn't be using this site', and blocked me.

I've never in my life heard a woman's voice that was like hers: she made me think of Russell Crowe after he'd gargled a cup of gravel. Darth Vader's voice would have sounded warm, honeyed and bubbly next to it.

Christ. I pick so rarely, but always so badly.




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