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The need for Master's approval. - 12/27/2015 4:30:58 PM   
louisboy


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Status: offline 		I was blessed by being Master Louis' property. I was his gay, 24/7, personal slave. I loved and worshiped him. He gave me very few orders. It was demanded of me that I anticipate his every need, and do whatever was required to fulfill that need. While he didn't acknowledge it, I knew that my slavery pleased him. There were times, like when his clothes for the day were laid out exactly as he liked, he seemed pleased.That made me very happy. I so wanted his approval. As a slave, I believe it's vitally important for a slave to feel that his Master, at some level, is please with his slavery. What do Master say?
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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 12/27/2015 7:09:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		I think any person in a healthy relationship wants their partner to be pleased with their actions. That isn't a D/s thing, it's a relationship thing.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 12/28/2015 1:27:09 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Positive feedback is always the best way to teach and maintain a harmonious relationship.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 12/30/2015 2:59:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

I think any person in a healthy relationship wants their partner to be pleased with their actions. That isn't a D/s thing, it's a relationship thing.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/6/2016 12:52:03 PM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		We all wished to be told:
You are the most beautiful person I have ever set eyes upon.
You are more wise than the oracle of oracle of delphi...who as most likely high of volcanic fumes where do i get me some of those
I like admire love cherish thee

I think its about worth- value, to summarise it a little better.
that with no value is simply worthless.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/6/2016 1:14:03 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		Apart from what Oside said....
The fact that the slave remains the slave instead of being constantly punished or kicked to the kerb should tell you that your master is at least to some degree, pleased.
If the slave cannot recognise that simple reciprocation, it's time to move on.


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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/7/2016 6:52:40 AM   
Cinnamongirl67


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Status: offline 		Everyone benefits from at least the occasional thank you or words of encouragement. At least everyone I know. Without them the task feels unappreciated. Ask for what you need.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/7/2016 7:03:18 AM   
freedomdwarf1


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Status: offline 		You don't always need words.
Quite often, a simple gesture speaks volumes.

A look at the right time, a simple squeeze of the hand, that gentle touch can mean more than hours of words.
Words are just words, and often empty or not sincere without the look or gesture/posture that goes with them.


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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/7/2016 7:19:44 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Status: offline 		A look at the right time, a simple squeeze of the hand, that gentle touch can mean more than hours fine words freedomdwarf1 but attention whores refuse to undestand them so there is a bity of a downside

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/7/2016 2:39:43 PM   
Cinnamongirl67


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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

You don't always need words.
Quite often, a simple gesture speaks volumes.

A look at the right time, a simple squeeze of the hand, that gentle touch can mean more than hours of words.
Words are just words, and often empty or not sincere without the look or gesture/posture that goes with them.


I think your right on this, actions do speak louder then words. Next time Master doesn't appreciate your work, give him a firm smack on the cheek. This may provide a wake up call. Ah hahaha. ( entry provided only for humor, probably not the best approach)

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/9/2016 9:06:57 PM   
Blackmanslave


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Status: offline 		i long for a Master's approval. It is how i was raised and continued in my adult life. A slave to men. I need that structure and discipline to exist in my life. To know that i have pleased Master is all that matters.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/11/2016 4:06:24 PM   
SlavePusskins


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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/12/2016 12:49:19 PM   
theHouseofAvalon


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I so wanted his approval. As a slave, I believe it's vitally important for a slave to feel that his Master, at some level, is please with his slavery. What do Master say?


I say you are right, it is vitally important to slave and submissive alike. Over time I realized praise is important so she knows I am pleased and does not have to guess.

He should be pleased with your OP. It touches on a misunderstanding new Doms including me missed in the early part of their "career", somehow it takes a good submissive time to teach us this fact and that fact is submissives live for praise, it is "vitally" important to their id, their sense of well being and builds their confidence in themselves, something that is vital to their positive view of themselves.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/12/2016 12:57:56 PM   
theHouseofAvalon


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Status: offline 		Just in case one has not noticed. Submissive women (and men, I suppose) are in fact very different from the vanilla girlfriend or wife. In some ways they are high maintenance regarding their feelings of worth and the deep depths of depression they can suffer should they think they are not worthy of ones attention and praise. Praise and structure are something they must have to move in positive directions with their feelings, their life in general and their love for you in particular.

"Love"? you bet. The OP expresses love for his One. He is not unique in that need or that feeling or that outlook towards his One.

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RE: The need for Master's approval. - 1/12/2016 1:04:11 PM   
theHouseofAvalon


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Status: offline 		...another side of this. When she hears your laugh while you make another mark on her bottom or feels you gently bring a palm full of water up to her lips while she is bound and helpless, she senses this is praise and you will then find her expressing her joy at this in ways that will amaze you. Praise is vital.

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