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binap -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (4/10/2016 5:32:42 AM)
For me it is the demonstration of the reality that I am not only submissive to my dominant's desires, but a lesser being. It sends me to sub space or really into what I believe is happiness because humiliation strips away any false pretenses. It is me being what the universe intended me to be.

Gunshow -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (10/19/2016 6:10:22 PM)
For me, it's about being so enthralled and intoxicated by the dominant that I will force myself to do or accept things that I wouldn't normally. I think it's useful to contrast humiliation with physical pain. Perhaps humiliation is the "main" form of mental pain? I'm not sure why, but while I can accept physical pain as a part of submission, particularly when applied as discipline, my kink is for a beautiful woman to make me her puppet for amusement and pleasure. Humiliation is a great way to demonstrate that level of control.

Alecta -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (10/19/2016 6:22:00 PM)
Often when the word "humiliation" is used what is actually referred to is "something that's not socially acceptable but/and arousing", kind of like the Japanese porn trope of the girl being embarrassed that she's aroused.

YourSincereSlave -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (10/21/2016 2:40:47 PM)
for me it's a form of play. I find it very exciting to be mocked and embarrassed by someone I'm attracted too (and only that type of person). I have no idea why.I mean I was bullied as a kid and certainly did not like it, but I have resolved to not try too hard to understand the why's and focus on the how's and on enjoying it. If I had to guess, I would think about the influence of Japanese porn, which is much more about embarrassment than about genitals, and which is the first porn I actually got into. The humiliation by a dominant partner also emphasizes who's in control, so there is that, too.

heavyblinker -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (10/29/2016 9:38:30 AM)
I honestly don't know how I feel about this. It's sort of something where I feel totally unsexy because I'm too full of shame to feel worthy of anyone, but mistress knows how it affects me and it keeps me under her control, which I guess is good for her, and it's nice to feel wanted. But honestly in terms of it being something I actively enjoy I would say not in the moment as much as when I think about it afterwards and realize how it affects me psychologically... but even then it can be an uneasy feeling. A turn on in some ways, but I guess it depends on how you handle it.

Diffident -> RE: Humiliation and degradation (10/29/2016 3:16:54 PM)
Verbal humiliation and degradation is usually a complete turn off for me. Maybe it's because I am a bit shy and insecure? I would certainly believe deep down that it is a reflection of the D-type's real opinion no matter what they said about it afterwards, especially if it touched upon an area where I am already lacking in confidence. Regardless of their orientation I don't understand why would anyone bother with someone who they don't like or respect and who doesn't also like and respect them. I would much rather be worthy of someone's attention than not worthy. Some previous posters have talked about submissive acts as humiliation. I have never seen it that way, but would guess that it would probably depend on the context and how it was done, and maybe others would prefer them done that way. Making doing things that you would not want your friends to know that you've done feel normal and natural is part of the skillset of a skillful Dominant. I don't believe in Forced-anything: it often seems to just be a way for the s-type to not take ownership of the things that they have done or that they want to do.

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