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subguyhelp -> Curious if a DOM wants me to beg for his love (1/24/2016 3:31:08 PM)
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Hi all. Thank you in advance for your help and sorry in advance for the long post.
I have a question for DOM gay men. I started chatting with a DOM guy about 5 months ago. We were both looking for a serious relationship. I've never been in a DOM / SUB relationship before, but I know I'm a sub. I was honest about my inexperience which didn't seem like a big issue because overall everything seemed pretty good, considering how hard it is to find serious dom guys looking for LTR.
We don't live in the same city or state, but I'm not too far and I started the process of relocating. He lives in NYC so somewhere I've always wanted to live, but not the easiest place to just get up and move to. Anyway, we've keep in very close contact and message each other everyday. For the past almost 5 months I've gotten a text or something from him everyday. The relationship we were building was an average gay relationship in the streets, but dom/sub behind close doors (me drinking his piss, ass up when he comes home, sex on command, all his cooking, etc. etc.) We'd talked about finding ways to be his sub in public without anyone knowing, if we were ever at a bar, he'd take empty bottles and fill with his piss. But this was all talk, we weren't living near each other so nothing could ever really get put into motion until moving.
The times we've met have been great, but I haven't been open to everything, which I told him would take some time and training once we were living in the same city. He seemed ok with that.
But our text conversations turned to just basic normal chat, I could tell he was loosing interest, although our last text conversation was about how he'd want me packing his stuff as he was going out of town for work.
That was two weeks ago and I haven't chatted with him since. It seems strange that after 5 months of constant chatting, texting, skyping, he'd just drop me with no message or anything. I've texted him but no reply.
I suppose it's obvious and I'm 90% sure it's just over, but I thought I'd post here to see if I have any chance.
I guess my question is, if I sent some text like, "I really need you, I can't imagine not being able to serve you, etc. etc." could that potentially be well received? My brain says no way, even though it is how I feel. I would never send something like that to a non-dom guy, but I'm thinking maybe there's a chance he wants me to sort of beg like that. I know it depends on the guy.
I can see that he's already back on grindr. Although curiously, there's nothing there about him being a DOM like when I first contacted him.
I guess this is just my last dict, sorry effort to try and win his attention back, and probably just here to confirm it's over. I came last night for the first time in three months as he told me I couldn't cum without him, so my heads in a depressed state. I don't think he thought I was serious, I don't know.
Thanks for reading and letting me vent.
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