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fiftyshadesbabe -> How do I find a professional dominant? (2/18/2016 10:58:28 AM)

I'm seeking a real experience but I'd like to be safe about it. .how can I find a professional dominant?



LadyPact -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (2/19/2016 1:36:42 AM)

L.A. is full of professional Dominants. If you're not connected with the kink community at all, I'd probably suggest Backpage. However, I'm going to say that you're willing to pay for something you can get for free.

Go to The Lair. Speak with Kane. He could help you set the whole thing up without you having to spend your cash.



WickedsDesire -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (2/20/2016 11:50:54 AM)

You are referring to a man I suspect. The voices in my head inform me they were a rare breed and have retired, long ago, to their muffin farm I will wager and wade knee deep in cats - who have taken over his insta page, long, long ago.

I would imagine self proclaimed experienced dominant man to be fairly common and they have many tells into hexing you into the ways of utter malarkey.
eg.
You will fall to your knees and offer me slavery from moment of time one.
I will cavity stretch you with a Sherman tank and finish you off with a sound thrashing with pots and pans and the kitchen sink before selling you into slavery so they can buy their actual partners a pair of red sparkly shoes.

Choose wisely is my best advice for now.



KillYourTV -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (3/6/2016 1:17:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

You are referring to a man I suspect. The voices in my head inform me they were a rare breed and have retired, long ago, to their muffin farm I will wager and wade knee deep in cats - who have taken over his insta page, long, long ago.

I would imagine self proclaimed experienced dominant man to be fairly common and they have many tells into hexing you into the ways of utter malarkey.
eg.
You will fall to your knees and offer me slavery from moment of time one.
I will cavity stretch you with a Sherman tank and finish you off with a sound thrashing with pots and pans and the kitchen sink before selling you into slavery so they can buy their actual partners a pair of red sparkly shoes.

Choose wisely is my best advice for now.



This. Is. Really. Extremely. Funny. ^^^^^

But to the original poster: Why are you looking for a professional? I would say it would be better with someone you get to know, form a relationship with over time, and trust completely. That's just me though. That sounds "safer' to me as well. What exactly do you mean by real experience? Just my thoughts.



ExiledTyrant -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (3/6/2016 1:34:24 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: KillYourTV


quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

You are referring to a man I suspect. The voices in my head inform me they were a rare breed and have retired, long ago, to their muffin farm I will wager and wade knee deep in cats - who have taken over his insta page, long, long ago.

I would imagine self proclaimed experienced dominant man to be fairly common and they have many tells into hexing you into the ways of utter malarkey.
eg.
You will fall to your knees and offer me slavery from moment of time one.
I will cavity stretch you with a Sherman tank and finish you off with a sound thrashing with pots and pans and the kitchen sink before selling you into slavery so they can buy their actual partners a pair of red sparkly shoes.

Choose wisely is my best advice for now.



This. Is. Really. Extremely. Funny. ^^^^^





According to my Captain Crunch decoder ring it's a very interesting recipe for dip.

Jus sayin



UllrsIshtar -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (3/6/2016 3:20:23 PM)

You're going to have a hard time finding a professional male Top.

There's plenty of female pros, because they have a market in male subs who are willing to pay for their services, but the only market a pro male would have is other men.

Women don't tend to pay for kink. Doing so is even more rare then women using gigolos.

If you're okay with using a female Top, you shouldn't have any issue finding one. Just google 'Professional Dominatrix/Pro-Domme" in your area, and you should find at least a few.

If you're intent on having an experience with a male Top, I'd be extremely weary of anybody willing to charge you for it. Most of the dependable experienced male Tops in the community play with women for free. I'd be anticipating one willing to take cash for it to likely be a poser.

Instead I'd follow LadyPact's advice, and go to your local club, and speak with the management/leadership there. They should be able to point you in the right direction and reference a male Top who might be interested in doing the same things you want to do.
If you're shy about going to a club by yourself, just find your local club on Fetlife, and mail your community leader there.



crumpets -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (3/6/2016 10:08:49 PM)

FR....
I'm always leery of one-hit OP wonders, but, I'll take the bait and mention that at the local professional houses here, they have men, as I recall who scene for something like $150 an hour (or whatever the going rate is for men).

I looked and it seems the one-hit-wonder OP is in socal, but here in nocal, the two local pro places I know of are
  • Backdrop +1-650-965-4499
  • The Gates +1-510-261-7243




    • Greta75 -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (3/7/2016 3:01:49 AM)

    Thanks to 50shades, men can actually now advertise their paid services to provide a safe 50 shades experience for the female :)

    Just re-enact the whole scenes in that movie!





    Sahar4Blacks -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (4/2/2016 3:20:22 PM)

    How I wish there were references for things like this.



    DesFIP -> RE: How do I find a professional dominant? (4/2/2016 6:53:42 PM)

    If you aren't looking for sex, then why not see a domme?

    Join your local community and ask around.

    Or join fet life and ask in groups for people in your area.



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