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blinkingblythe -> Doing things the "old way". Thoughts? (2/28/2016 6:59:53 PM)
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I am transgender M to F, who would like to have another transgender woman as a dom, and one who is physicaly bigger and stronger than me. I want the relationship to be mostly like an old style one where one person is the authority in the relationship, where she (I'll call her my lady-husband) takes on a stronger, dominant role, physicaly, emotionaly and mentaly Here are a few thoughts about this:
I want her to have the final say in all decisions that are made
I mean, I would give input, but she would make the final descision
and I would obey her wishes
I was researching old wedding vows that were common, and these
often had a line which had the pastor ask "do you promise
to *obey* your husband" to which the bride replies "I do". I
think this is a very beautiful vow, at least for women seeking a
relationship that is more authoritarian than what is now common, and I want to promise that I would obey my lady-husband (of course, she wouldn't say that same vow, scince she is the authority in the
relationship)
Back in the feudal days in Europe, a peasant would often kneel
down infront of the king in order to make a very important deal,
say being allowed to farm land in exchange for going into battle
for the kingdom whenever there was a war to be fought. Then the
peasant and king would *lip kiss* each other to seal the deal! I
want to do the exact same thing with my lady-husband, with me kneeling of course. It's beautiful, honorable and frankly, I admire
alot of the old European traditions.
Whenever we take pictures together, we would be shown hugging and/or lip kissing eachother. My head would always under her chin,
or I would be shown locking up into her face.
I want her to hit me in the face if I do something bad, or I go
against her wishes for some reason and there is a negative outcome
as a result. No, I don't mean getting black eyes, that sort of thing,
but I want her to slap me around, and I want to feel pain from it.
Not "funishment" or that kind of thing, I mean these would
be punishments I would actualy WANT to avoid. Of course, we can do "funishments" too, but I also want her to care about me enough,
that she is willing to deal out real pain to discipline me whenever I
really need it.
Some other things:
I would love her to impose a dress code on me which means having to wear modest attire most of the time (collared long sleeve blouse
buttoned all the way up, floor length skirt), and relax it only when she
feels it is appropriate to do so.
I want her to control both our earnings, and to lock the accounts
so none of the money can be touched without her permission. To
me this shows that I fully trust her, and this is something I really
want to do.
She can lock or chain me up anytime she feels she needs to, and like the last item, this shows that I fully trust her and her judgement
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