DaddySatyr
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Joined: 8/29/2011 From: Pittston, Pennsyltucky Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: xyzee I am trying to do this with Him and her ,,,I was only trying for him but now for me too. But the thought of sharing love makes me crazy. She tells me she is not in love with him but I think I know beter. I want if I am to satisfy him in anyway a fuck friend. he however feels differently... I don't want to throw my marrage away but I am sad I have some different ideas, based upon this post (You're giving information in bits and pieces). The part I highlighted in red tells me (I think) that you want to have some kind of a relationship with this girl, even if only a sexual one because you WANT her? If that's the case, then you're half-way to a workable solution. The part I highlighted in pink is probably the real bone of contention. Well, as long as he doesn't treat you any differently because of someone else, what's the issue? Unfortunately, I'm going back to: possessive. Possessiveness is not a good element for romantic relationships. I understand it happens and I am NOT putting you down for it, but please remember: possessiveness is a form of selfishness. So, you're in a bind. You need to sit down with yourself and really figure out what you can and cannot tolerate. Once you've done that, you need to sit down with your husband and tell him the conclusions to which you've come. Good luck. Michael
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A Stone in My Shoe Screen captures (and pissing on shadows) still RULE! Ya feel me? "For that which I love, I will do horrible things"
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