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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 2:50:41 PM

WickedsDesire

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Really? And you little slim show up on the message boards? Where people who are like you, just more humble, come to ask advice? ROFL. Go back to your home, in Transylvania; where you belong! seekingOwnertoo I didn't really understand any of that ROFL.
Personally I am whom I have always been.
I am okay with that I have never declared myself perfect nor used words to entice, and the stories I tell all based on actual reality. never forget I joined here at the beginning of time therefore i did not simply show up i have always been here, and there.

freedomdwarf1 answered this beautifully

But I will hark in Ops existence is based on fiction and bdsm videos, apparently, A bad caricature. That goes onto lay the blame on the doorstep of everyone else. It offers nothing, declares it is demand and then apportion blame elsewhere. His point women are rarer than men on all sites did not go unnoticed but as he offered nothing of himself then I wonder why he feels he can sit in judgement.

Is in mellow mood this eve, that will not last I suspect.

Sits Cinnamongirl67 on his knee are you okay tonight I have never seen you like this. i can loan you the tar and feathers or the mace and knobkerrie - but you must use them wisely and for the correct reasons, well 99% of the time :P

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 2:53:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: Cinnamongirl67
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No, you just didn't like the answer.

The OP has spent four years with an interest in BDSM and says he can't meet anyone except people via the internet. The answer to that is get the hell off of the internet and go meet people in real life. I looked at the OP's profile and got his state, but not a town. However, if he's seriously interested in meeting people, (and he even says we have no idea how much he just wants to sit and have coffee with a Domme) it's time to go out and meet people. Rather than just being on the internet, the guy needs to make the effort to go to coffees, meet and greets, munches, etc.

If this OP was female and the former "Doms" were all interested in nude pics or watching kinky acts on cam, people would be resoundingly telling the OP to stop doing that. If a female OP was talking all about how they were so connected to these guys online, people would be saying that obviously, they weren't into the OP. These things don't change just because a poster happens to be male or female. Is your honest assessment that these people truly cared emotionally for the OP? If it is, you're free to say so.

Instead, you decided to go with a personal attack. Go you.

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 3:02:52 PM

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We have all looked at Ops profile - it is the way of all regulars on here and I would expect nothing less of the regulars before they derived an answer.

If op was a female he would be beating them off with a stick, granted most would be time wasters and at it

Now he could be ill and housebound - if that is the case his profile requires a lot more effort....freedom already said that...If op put in that effort then he can sit in judgement...I am at ease with that

i have explained munches and clubs many times before and the demographics and whyso, and it is very unlikely he will meet a single women there. But he will meet the odd new friend and that is better than nothing at all.

Actually you stand a better chance of meeting a girl at a club than on here. The mathematics of that still sits with unease with me....many reasons.

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 3:09:16 PM

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Must admit, I didnt look at his profile, and I rarely do with anyone.

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 3:35:55 PM

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Nah, not a whore, but why do you think I would take it as an insult?
From you? my belief in your humanity towards anyone is non existent.

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 3:39:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
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We have all looked at Ops profile - it is the way of all regulars on here and I would expect nothing less of the regulars before they derived an answer.

If op was a female he would be beating them off with a stick, granted most would be time wasters and at it

Now he could be ill and housebound - if that is the case his profile requires a lot more effort....freedom already said that...If op put in that effort then he can sit in judgement...I am at ease with that

i have explained munches and clubs many times before and the demographics and whyso, and it is very unlikely he will meet a single women there. But he will meet the odd new friend and that is better than nothing at all.

Actually you stand a better chance of meeting a girl at a club than on here. The mathematics of that still sits with unease with me....many reasons.

Generally, if I look at an OP's profile, it is to find out the location. If they happen to live in a thriving kink community, absolutely, I'll suggest they go, rather than only attempting online to meet people. Sometimes, I get lucky and an OP is near a location where I've actually lived or been, and I can give a direct reference. If not, I can at least show a person how to find their local munch group. Even if he doesn't find a significant other by attending, why not have some fun in the meantime?

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 4:30:59 PM

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to cinnamongirl67 no LadyPact is a very knoleageable and protective Domme well known and loved by those that have gone out and met Her. if you cant be nice here just be quiet
to the op working out is always good check out your local groups meet with the local subs and owners and see what they like. go to some classes and learn some new things i went to the house of decorum and learned to do pedicures i taught massage. get out in the local community find events and learn and meet new folks. be respectfull they are pepole first

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RE: I just can't get it to happen. - 3/14/2016 6:37:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Really? And you little slim show up on the message boards? Where people who are like you, just more humble, come to ask advice? ROFL. Go back to your home, in Transylvania; where you belong! seekingOwnertoo I didn't really understand any of that ROFL.

Several things you said, slime:

1. personally I have never talked to one real domme on here

2. Your profile says: "Well, I am Count Nosferatu from Transylvania"

And now you add:

3. I joined here at the beginning of time

Well, personally, I have dated a number of Ladies who posted here on the boards; and a few more who never have posted here. I know a LOT about the subject and the Ladies!

Second, your profile says you are from Transylvania ... ROFL ... well, I do not need to say another word about your mental state, do I?

Third, I know for a fact, you did not frequent these boards in 2009 and 2010 ... so you have not been here forever; and certainly not since the beginning of time! ROFL

I am posting this, so some innocent person, trying to get some knowledgeable advice, does not take you seriously.

For you sir, ARE THE ULTIMATE FRAUD!

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