What turns a Dom on about enema?

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Brenda2480 -> What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/21/2016 9:03:05 PM)
I'm asking because my Daddy wants to play with enemas and I'm scared, kind of grossed out, and I don't see the sexiness in it. It helps when he explains why it turns him on, but he can't explain it to me. He says "it just does". I need more than that in order to push myself to do this for Him. Can anyone explain? Or try? What are the benefits to the sub? The Dom? What makes this sexy?

DarkSteven -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/21/2016 11:41:47 PM)
1. He's taking ownership of your ass. The more you give to him, the more in control he feels. 2. If he likes anal, this makes it cleaner. 3. He can vary the flow speed, how much water goes in you, how long it stays, etc. It will make you feel uncomfortable. He has control of you in a new way.

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 3:39:11 AM)
what DarkSteven said. also want to ask why in the heck didn't you negotiate up front? Set your hard limits, talk, talk, talk, can't stress this enough. The trouble is submissives rarely talk about what they want in a D/s relationship, they are so eager to have someone tell them what to do that they'll jump right into a relationship blindly.

DesFIP -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 1:40:14 PM)
Not really fair. If this never occurred to her then of course she wouldn't have hard limited it. His fault for not telling her about it since he knew he found it hot.

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 2:28:39 PM)
that's where the talk comes in on both pats. when I negotiate whoever I'm negotiating with we talk on both parts and ask questions.

WickedsDesire -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 2:41:52 PM)
Nothing. Incidentally OP is a man - why encourage it.

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 2:48:18 PM)
profile says female, confused

WickedsDesire -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 3:02:27 PM)
*LilJuly76* Man typing is easily recognizable I am no fan of fallacy, sophism (modern definition) and no cake...other than that I have no issues with anyone else. please note sophism includes bad stereotypes

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 3:08:27 PM)
oh man, a man pretending to be a female? wait that happened to me once, when I finally met the person, poured his drink on his head for pretending to be a female online to meet me.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 4:17:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire Nothing. Incidentally OP is a man - why encourage it. How can you tell?

WickedsDesire -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 4:27:20 PM)
Words and profile - they are the same or similar variants. Pay greater attention as to how man or women use words. Incidentally the last women I "checked" on here tonight with about 2000 posts is also a guy, with three stolen pictures - the brazen cheek of that hussy. plying its trade in the search of hot bitches...i feel sorry for its 5 friends not that any of them are any better. what do you want me to do about Just pay better attention scatters himself in rose petals and giggles seriously what do you want me to do about it? on here or that other place. incidentally what's a good name for a site :P

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/22/2016 7:58:05 PM)
Ok, I just read the profile and I agree with you. Women don't usually refer to a woman as a "female"; a whole lot of men do that (at least on the profile side). Now watch him change the wording [:D]

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/23/2016 4:04:40 AM)
why can't people be straight up? I just don't understand it.

Kana -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/25/2016 5:04:21 PM)
Hmm, things to like about enemas: -That its degrading; -That it hurts; -That it leave the slave utterly exposed; -That it forces the slave to shit out the fluid in front of the Dominant; -That one can use differing ingredients to provide a different experience...and if one is so inclined, the slave doesn't know what its getting until it does; -One word-Cramps; -That afterwords things are nice and clean for me to sodomize to my hearts desire

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/26/2016 8:36:46 AM)
oh man I get enough cramps when it's my time of the month, yeah I'll stay away from enemas.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (3/26/2016 8:46:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 oh man I get enough cramps when it's my time of the month, yeah I'll stay away from enemas. They're very different cramps. Menstruation cramps are more front and center, and sharp and stabbing. Enema cramps are more all over, and dull and aching. Not saying you'd like them any better, but they are very very different. [;)]

sunshinemiss -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (4/3/2016 10:50:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 what DarkSteven said. also want to ask why in the heck didn't you negotiate up front? Set your hard limits, talk, talk, talk, can't stress this enough. The trouble is submissives rarely talk about what they want in a D/s relationship, they are so eager to have someone tell them what to do that they'll jump right into a relationship blindly. Hello July, I think this is an interesting idea except for one tiny little flaw... Life is fluid. Things change. Desires and interests change. Folks don't always know what they want... or what's available to them. Golly... where would the fun and joy of life be if we knew and never experimented, never considered new things, never attempted? Whatever happened to - ok, let's try... yeah, I really didn't like it. I'm glad I experienced it, but no thanks. You know I used to run. I never really liked it, but I did it because I had a goal of running a 10K. I did the run, and you know what? I"m glad I tried it. I'm glad I worked hard on overcoming a mental block I had about running, but if I never run another step again, I'd be totally ok with that. Biking on the other hand... tried it, fell completely in love with it. I now add bike rides wherever I go on vacation. Because you see, that is what life is about for me - trying new things and then deciding if I like them or not. And you know what? One time I went to a Vulture Refuge. It was there, I was there... why not? And I fell in LOVE with vultures! Who knew?! They are so cool! How dreadful if I had thought... oh nope. Can't like them! I decided awhile ago that I liked hummingbirds. Nope nope nope. Can't like something new because I didn't already decide to like it. Poppycock. If anyone expected me to know what I wanted for the rest of my life - sexually or otherwise - I'm afraid I'd have to disappoint that person. I think back on the thrilling and frightening things I've done ... that have ended with scrapes or thrills or heartache or sobbing or fireworks, or petting a cheetah! - and I sure am glad that I needn't know if I'm gonna like it right away. Deadly dull, that. Best, sunshine

LilJuly76 -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (4/4/2016 3:49:55 AM)
it's funny, in 2009 I was involved with that could have been a fatal car accident, I decided to enjoy my life more and enjoy my submissive self more and even try new foods I would never have tried before but some things in the BDSM realm kink of spook me out, however I said the same thing about fireplay until I was told to do it and wham instant fearspace!

SimranTemptress -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (4/10/2016 4:44:31 PM)
Shit happens lol.

Eleftherios -> RE: What turns a Dom on about enema? (4/22/2016 11:13:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire Words and profile - they are the same or similar variants. Pay greater attention as to how man or women use words. Incidentally the last women I "checked" on here tonight with about 2000 posts is also a guy, with three stolen pictures - the brazen cheek of that hussy. plying its trade in the search of hot bitches...i feel sorry for its 5 friends not that any of them are any better. ,,,(laughing) as one revelation exposes another...WAM!!! lol...ama(u)zing...and the encouragement continues...pfff pfff...is this on...testing, testing pfff pfff!

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