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Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 12:02:27 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

I'm certainly glad the long term folk can tell the bad seeds, this imperial dude, I have no clue his method to his madness but he needs some mental help.


Here's a different point of view (mine). I think it is possible that ImperialPath is someone having a very bad time in his life, maybe lashing out some, but not the evil asshole people think he is. I also quite liked Arturas, whose posts I often found tongue-in-cheek and made with a twinkle in his eye, though the vast majority here took everything he said as literal. He often made me laugh.

Arturas is ImperialPath, judging from the fact that the latter posted a profile picture of the former on his profile.

Arturas, I hope all is soon better for you.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 4:34:29 PM)

putting the net aside since you mentioned that some are ostracized within the community I knew of one that was ostracized in my local BDSM community because he was married, using submissives without telling them he was married to get what he wanted because he wasn't happy with his wife.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 4:35:34 PM)

maybe he is having a bad time in his life but why the need for more than one profile?



Sahar4Blacks -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 4:37:07 PM)

Marriage counseling works.



Spiritedsub2 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 5:49:13 PM)


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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

maybe he is having a bad time in his life but why the need for more than one profile?


Maybe the reception people get under one profile moves them to create another/others. Multiple profiles is hardly an uncommon feature with members here and on the other side.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 6:11:25 PM)

oh ok, haven't been here long enough to figure out who has more than one profile



LadyPact -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/2/2016 10:53:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


quote:

ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

I'm certainly glad the long term folk can tell the bad seeds, this imperial dude, I have no clue his method to his madness but he needs some mental help.


Here's a different point of view (mine). I think it is possible that ImperialPath is someone having a very bad time in his life, maybe lashing out some, but not the evil asshole people think he is. I also quite liked Arturas, whose posts I often found tongue-in-cheek and made with a twinkle in his eye, though the vast majority here took everything he said as literal. He often made me laugh.

Arturas is ImperialPath, judging from the fact that the latter posted a profile picture of the former on his profile.

Arturas, I hope all is soon better for you.

Well, I went and looked again. The person who was trying to lecture me on "honor" is no longer 34 and is now 99. I was unable to see more than the main pic, so I won't say anything about the female photos on the profile. I never thought Artie was Middle Eastern or any of that other stuff.

Just to be clear, it was not my intention to imply that Artie was a bad seed. Pompous ass? Yes. Dishonest? Yes. Intentionally out to harm people? No.

I will say this. On principle alone, I don't have to like Artie to stand on his side for a legitimate reason to take on a new profile name. If he's been stalked, harassed, outed, somebody trying to use his kinks against him in his vanilla life, somebody trying to screw with his UM's custody matters, threaten him in some way... Any of that stuff? I don't have to like him to know that shouldn't be happening.

However, if he IS the stalker, harasser, outer, consent violator, threaten-er, or any of that crap? I'm pretty sure we'll have a problem.

Oh, and if it IS Artie, I'm till up for that single tail challenge. Bring your cup.




stef -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/3/2016 12:15:53 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Oh, and if it IS Artie, I'm till up for that single tail challenge. Bring your cup.

Never happen. Tits McGor is all talk.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/3/2016 4:46:38 AM)

and that's why some people online are dangerous, I have known a submissive that called me, was from texas, we were online friends, met on fet. She also met up with a "Dominant" in her area that when the story did finally came out after she reported it to the cops, he did have multiple profiles to snag submissives so he could hurt them and I don't mean in a masochistic way either. A lot of submissives won't make reports when this kind of stuff happens.

anyway, she met up with him, believing he was the real deal and she would have the best session in her life, took him back to her house, he raped and beat the crap out of her, left her feet and hands tied, she got her hands untied and managed to use her cel to call me. Since I live elsewhere, thankfully I knew of a Dominant in the area not that far from where she lived. Got him to go over there, take her to the hospital, she didn't originally want to file a report but both of us convinced her she needed to do so. I guess that's why I'm kind of Leary when people have more than one profile at a time.



LadyPact -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/3/2016 8:00:30 AM)

I'm really sorry that happened to your friend. I'm sorry that so many of us know somebody that as happened to, or they have a stalker, or the things that seem to be so frequent these days. It's kind of a mess out there. That's a whole other thread.

I don't know. I tend to think when somebody's been on the receiving end of something like that, there's a difference in what we've seen on this thread. It's less 'oh, continuing to try to get the woman to talk' is just a man being a man or the famous telemarketer theory (which, for those who didn't get that is the "two no's and a go" method, rather than one no is sufficient) when people have that stuff happen, they tend to go the other way. Case in point, if a person's been outed themselves or had somebody close to them be outed, they tend to be the last people interested in blackmail kink, because it hits pretty close and that means it's not fun.

Also, I tend to think that folks who start a new profile to get away from something bad that happened *to* them, they tend to tell somebody. (No, to the OP, that doesn't necessarily mean me.) Often, it's so people will know that they specifically aren't being shady because we know some of what happens on the other side of this.

It would actually weird me out a little if A****** just went for a screen name change (two, if you count HoA) just because people don't like his opinions. The one thing I've never said about the man was that he lacked the courage of his convictions. That's a dude who could be sixteen kinds of wrong but if he thought he was right, he'd stand by it.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/3/2016 8:49:08 AM)

in the case of this thread specifically I tend to think a man being a man. I don't think he likes when women say no to his advances so he keeps asking the same kind of questions over and over in hopes to get an answer he likes.

I put my example to show why I'm Leary of multiple profiles by the same person, I'm very cautious when people contact me especially if they said they are from where I live. I made past mistakes with meeting a-hole people so I try not to do that again.

I been outed by a vanilla who happened to know a kink that knew me. she ended up telling my family and employer. as a result I don't trust a lot of people and other than work I try to stay clear of the vanilla world in general.




mousekabob -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/4/2016 6:36:32 PM)

OMG! I knew the op sounded familiar but couldn't place my finger!

This has now become an awesome thread! ROFL.

I needed a good drama filled thread to make me laugh. Haven't had one of these around here for awhile. [:D]



LilJuly76 -> RE: Link for submissive women to follow if they would like to respond to this question. (4/5/2016 3:55:29 AM)

it's odd he hasn't said anything again now that the regulars figured out who he is



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