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Women don't work that way. They don't focus so much on the kink as much as the relationship they have with someone. You will find plenty of women who don't care for or don't like peeing on someone but would gladly do it for someone they loved.
Men can be told this over and over again until we are blue in the face, but most of them end up having to learn this the hard way, assuming that a select few ever do learn this.
We've all seen decades of this online. It's chronic. So much so that it cannot be wilful ignorance - surely these people have some sense of how women think and feel, and surely they KNOW when they watch porn it's not like real life. right? This baffles me.
It seems like kinky sub guys believe that women exist who, like them, seek to get their KINK met first and foremost, and the "who" is quite secondary. Like there's a hidden treasure trove of women out there waiting to find a guy, any guy, who will be game to allow her to pee on him.
It would be like a vanilla guy believing, searching, for a woman who wanted sex with any guy, just a hookup with zero discretion and zero chemistry required - basically, like a free escort or hooker, and all he has to do is say "I am available and I have a cock, who wants to fuck me?" and the emails will flow in. But men realize this as teenagers, as they talk to women, as they learn from peers, as they learn from their fathers, as they date. They learn that WOMEN do not view sensual, sexual intimacy in that way.
Why would kink be any different?
Based on sheer numbers alone -- considering the ads we see on here are ONLY a small fraction of the way many, many men think and feel women are, how could there be this large a disconnect? How can they NOT know? How can they not realize this "I am just looking for...." approach attracts women looking to make money?
And let's say for fun that his mailbox DID get full of women who were TOTALLY game for this piss-on-dude hookup -- but these women are completely on the fringe, unattractive and unhealthy on many levels or simply not a fit: A woman who is 85 - she is incontinent and would LOVE to pee on you - just meet her at the old folks home. A woman living in an alley with a crack addiction who has not bathed in 3 months and has no teeth - she has an intense piss fetish and WILL do it for free, just make sure you are careful when you wander down the alley. A woman who is a total lunatic - she's got mental illness and is unsafe. A woman who has your fetish but wants to take it way too far -- you meet her and she's game to piss on you, but she also wants to shit in your mouth, or piss in jars and make you sit and drink them all while she videotapes it, or she wants to do <insert horrific fetish in the guy's opinion> - then what?
What is the "best case scenario" for a guy with a "PEEONME" username -- a woman reaches out, she's HOT, she is ready to go, she doesn't want money, she just wants to hook up and piss on him and she gets off on it. This is as realistic as a lady wanting to have unplanned, unprotected, sight-unseen sexual intercourse with a stranger. Chemistry? Not needed.
Most of all, does a man care that the woman simply does not care at all who he is, what he represents, what his values are, what his personality is? Nope, just wants a guy to be pissed on.
Does a man who believes all this have that distorted and unrealistic view of women? Does he not have any sisters? Has he ever had a vanilla date? What is this man like outside of his ad on CM?
Seriously..I want to know. Have any femdoms ventured out to meet a guy like this and get into his head?
Akasha
PS: In answer to the OP - I am not into watersports, but I have pissed on guys to humiliate them in the shower because it was one of their kinks. The act did not turn me on. The fact that this act had a profound effect on him did make it amusing. But barely interesting enough to be worth the hassle as the act does not carry much fetish value for me -- bondage, on the other hand, does. STILL, I may wake up some days with an intense, relentless ACHE to engage in bondage with a brand new guy and it's so distracted I seriously could place an ad saying just that -- but geez, I have to be ATTRACTED to him or else it's not only not fun, it's a horrific turn off to consider it! So there's no "Quick Fix" ever. It always will take work. It takes chemistry. Sometimes a spark can happen because there's some instant mutual physical connection, but more often it takes getting to know a guy a bit and then the attraction and lust develops organically.
And hell - doesn't a guy WANT that? Doesn't he WANT her to want to piss on him because it turns her on because she is into him -- or does it just not matter, she wants to piss on anyone and - well, hell, yeah, you will do, I just won't look at your face and use a fake name and tell you to get out when I am done. Does that satisfy anything?
Who ARE these men??
< Message edited by AAkasha -- 3/31/2016 3:28:04 PM >
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