Just a side thought. Although the expression doesn't apply to your example, in the BDSM community, whenever I hear someone say lets "try something different", in my mind I hear it as the vanilla equivalent of "hold my beer."
Yea, best not to say anything and let your kink do the talking. For me however, there is no alcohol.
You can be a murderous tyrant and the world will remember you fondly but fuck one horse and you will be a horse fucker for all eternity. Catherine the Great
Under capitalism, man exploits man. Under communism, it's just the opposite.
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