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what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 7:55:31 AM

maidEtoserve

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Hello all, very respectfully Mistresses & Masters

about some 9 or 10 years ago, i was owned as a slave by a Mistress.
After two years of relationship (on four), She had Her Name tattooed in
the skin of one of my butt. i've never had any news at all from Her since.

What should i do ? have it erased or keep it !
Personnally, i still mentally feel owned by Her and it dosen't botter me
at all.. On the contrary, i feel proud of it.

But what if i meet another Mistress and that She gets to see it ?

i've already been called "a second hand"... Thank You.

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 8:49:28 AM

stef

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Since it doesn't bother you and you feel proud of it, why are you even asking? Keep it and when you meet another mistress, you can have this discussion with her.

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 11:46:32 AM

jamesthehumanrug

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YOU ARE ALWAYS RATED BY TOPS IF YOU HAVE BEEN USED ,AND especially if ,you were not used BY THEM ;THE WORST ONE IS ;"YOU GOT A LOT OF MILES ON YOU ",BUT ,THE BUTT- SIGNITURE YOU GOT IS SOMETHING TO BE PROUD OF; EVEN THO 2 YEARS IS A NEW RELATIONSHIP ;YOU MAY SAY you were abandoned ,BY the side of the road ,after 'SHE' left her conquering mark ,ON YOU ,and ,you are willing to COVER it over ,for the pattern the new misstress demands; "like a brand new slave"; but, i would'nt say much except ,when anyone asks ;say,OH , that was a top ,or a misstress ,and ,everyone will understand why you don't have to cover it ,unless you get "special- orders" ;
it's ,not the old girlfriend name stuff ,SO, now you wanna' get married AND, CROSS IT OUT;it's completely different ,and, a chain of command you learn eventually. I WOULDNT GET THE BOOT TATTOO ON THE FACE UNLESS IT WAS OVER 12 YEARS INTO THE RELATIONSHIP ;or WHAT WILL PEOPLE THINK!

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 12:14:06 PM

TSnGG2dressuup

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Dear MaidE,

Perhaps you and your Mistress had some other symbol that was meaningful in your relationship you can use as a cover for the name Tattoo? New people are funny about seeing an old Lovers name imprinted on Our bodies... I know, I made the same decision and got screwed. I thought I would be with that person the rest of my life, and He was just playing games. Now I have someone new and we came to the mutual decision to cover the name on my body with a Butterfly tattoo. It had significance to my new life, my new relationship and also to the person and name underneath. I feel I am still respecting the spirit and person I was originally marked for, without disrespecting the new people in my life. Its also representative of "moving on" and a new birth, new beginning. And it was always my Butterfly I loved anyway. I am very comfortable with this now. I hope this helps.

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 3:24:35 PM

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I have to question the irresponsibility of your previous Mistress. you have done nothing wrong . I don't know the whole story of course.

If you are a free slave spirit now; your next Mistress will make decisions and actions as what to do.
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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 3:31:44 PM

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be proud of your past service...nothing is sexier then a slave proud of being a slave.

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/20/2006 4:15:08 PM

LadyHugs

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Dear maidEtoserve, Ladies and Gentlemen,

Second hand slaves aren't so bad if gently worn. As the old saying goes, another person's trash is another's treasure. This holds true, as I witness such on the Antiques Road Show.

I am not into tattoos and brandings myself but, if the relationship lasts longer than five years, I will consider it. But, for such a long time in the scene, I have seen as soon as someone is branded, cut and or tattooed the relationship crumbles and the slave has a body mark that can be a problem. So, I personally like having a design that can be seen neutral. I don't want to have my name to remind another Mistress or Master I was there before them. I like to give that clean break to slaves, as to have a fresh beginning as to start a new.

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RE: what to do with my skin branding tattoo - 7/21/2006 6:04:59 AM

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although I have branded a few slaves in the past, today I would not brand my name. Life happens and people change. Relationships should be flexiable and love should never go away.

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