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Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 8:58:49 AM

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Admin used to have red bold warning label that warned people not to send other people money under any circumstances. Usually the scam involved a person met a dominant person and that dominant person said to deposit money into his/her paypal (or some other) account before meeting. The person would do that and the dominant person didn't show up. Sometimes that person would come to the forums and complain. The posters would respond, "Didn't you read the warning?"

Now the warning is gone and there is a group of women encouraging people to send money before meeting. They say it's "standard practice." These are prominent posters too. Some say that instead of depositing into his/her account, deposit it into a charity.

IT seems that the policy of "Don't send money under any circumstances" isn't there and now a group of women are encouraging people to send money before meeting.

"Most pro-dommes will require a deposit in a convenient and discreet method in order to schedule a session. It doesn't have to be paypal-in fact, most will not use paypal because of the company's stance on the adult industry."
"I require deposits before I meet with anyone."
"Someone on here once said, might have been xxx, that for her to talk to someone for a seshion then they want a small donation to a charity"

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 9:20:34 AM

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When you open an email, the warning is right there at top of the page in BOLD RED LETTERS. I'm not sure how you could miss it. Perhaps a trip to the optometrist is in order?

Personally, I think they should take it down. If you're stupid enough to send money to complete strangers, you get what you deserve.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 9:51:27 AM

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Admin used to have red bold warning label that warned people not to send other people money under any circumstances. Usually the scam involved a person met a dominant person and that dominant person said to deposit money into his/her paypal (or some other) account before meeting. The person would do that and the dominant person didn't show up. Sometimes that person would come to the forums and complain. The posters would respond, "Didn't you read the warning?"

Now the warning is gone and there is a group of women encouraging people to send money before meeting. They say it's "standard practice." These are prominent posters too. Some say that instead of depositing into his/her account, deposit it into a charity.

IT seems that the policy of "Don't send money under any circumstances" isn't there and now a group of women are encouraging people to send money before meeting.

"Most pro-dommes will require a deposit in a convenient and discreet method in order to schedule a session. It doesn't have to be paypal-in fact, most will not use paypal because of the company's stance on the adult industry."
"I require deposits before I meet with anyone."
"Someone on here once said, might have been xxx, that for her to talk to someone for a seshion then they want a small donation to a charity"

How many fake screen names do you have? You clearly need a better bobby.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 9:56:12 AM

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Admin used to have red bold warning label that warned people not to send other people money under any circumstances....
Now the warning is gone...

Forgot to add this but I checked this theory and guess what? That big red warning label is still there.

Since you keep missing it, I think you may be color blind and you should see a doctor about that. It's a serious condition and apparently is costing you a lot of money as well.

Good luck pumpkin!

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 10:12:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: stef

When you open an email, the warning is right there at top of the page in BOLD RED LETTERS. I'm not sure how you could miss it. Perhaps a trip to the optometrist is in order?

Personally, I think they should take it down. If you're stupid enough to send money to complete strangers, you get what you deserve.

Second that ^.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 10:23:41 AM

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How many fake screen names do you have? You clearly need a better bobby.

I was thinking the same thing.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 10:45:06 AM

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So, now you're 27, with a brand new, one paragraph profile, in order to re-post (what is basically) the same thread because you didn't like the answers that you got yesterday. Probably because the questions about your age and why is a Dom looking to hook up with a pro Domme weren't ones that you had good answers for.

If that is correct, and you have to create a profile that lies about your age (or gender, or any other thing) just to break the forum guidelines about multiple posts on the same topic, it might be time to consider that you are not mature enough to be engaging in BDSM, participating on adult forums, and the women who didn't meet up with you were probably lucky due to your lack of ethics.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 11:25:44 AM

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Admin used to have red bold warning label that warned people not to send other people money under any circumstances.

And they still do. Anything else?

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 11:32:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissKatya

How many fake screen names do you have? You clearly need a better bobby.

Startard doesn't need a hobby, he needs a life.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 12:55:54 PM

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this dude is too immature for BDSM, no Dominant would keep re posting the same question under different names.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 12:56:24 PM

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thats three names in as many days...maybe mom took his xbox away...

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 1:18:48 PM

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OsideGirl & LadyPact agrees, and wanders of to the fridge for some chilled Chardonnay and his smiting stick. Pauses a furither moment at MissKatya words and profile

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 1:27:24 PM

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Oh dear

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 2:10:13 PM

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Oh dear to what ThatDizzyChick

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 3:43:41 PM

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Crybaby Sock Puppet complaining about Pro DommesDommes. How many profiles have you created now?

Edited to add the scamming policy (which has not changed):
http://www.collarspace.com/personals/scammers.htm

Edited a 2nd time to prove OP cannot read:

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 4:23:34 PM

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I can tell you that some DO require a deposit before meeting or even camming because they've been stood up numerous times and being that it's a business and not their personal life, the deposit is like any other business....it keeps the business from wasting their work hours that they would lose from a no show.

So...either pay the deposit or find another who doesn't charge a deposit.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 4:32:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: DocStrange

(Except of course, if you're sending me cash...I'm a big fan of cash).

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 4:33:38 PM

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I can tell you that some DO require a deposit before meeting or even camming because they've been stood up numerous times and being that it's a business and not their personal life, the deposit is like any other business....it keeps the business from wasting their work hours that they would lose from a no show.

So...either pay the deposit or find another who doesn't charge a deposit.

We're not arguing that it doesn't happen. We're arguing that 1) he keeps getting scammed by the people he is sending money to, which means he's not really doing his due diligence and 2) if he's a Dom, why is he going to a Pro-Domme....unless his profiles are a lie?

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 4:48:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: mousekabob

I can tell you that some DO require a deposit before meeting or even camming because they've been stood up numerous times and being that it's a business and not their personal life, the deposit is like any other business....it keeps the business from wasting their work hours that they would lose from a no show.

So...either pay the deposit or find another who doesn't charge a deposit.

We're not arguing that it doesn't happen. We're arguing that 1) he keeps getting scammed by the people he is sending money to, which means he's not really doing his due diligence and 2) if he's a Dom, why is he going to a Pro-Domme....unless his profiles are a lie?

Oh I'm not arguing those points. Nicky hasn't learned a damned thing in all his years and it's funny as hell that he's now a Dom and still contacting prodommes. rofl.

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RE: Why The Change In Admin Policy? - 4/13/2016 8:24:17 PM

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Crybaby Sock Puppet complaining about Pro DommesDommes. How many profiles have you created now?

I've got three accounts. I create a profile with an older man so people will respect me. People don't seem to respect me.

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