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What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/16/2016 8:24:13 AM

serioussub24

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I've been on this site for a while...this is my second profile. I'm finding it very difficult to find a dominant on here who is serious. I'm not sure if my profile needs editing or if its just me. Would really appreciate if you can look at my profile and give me any tips.
Thank you

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RE: What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/16/2016 8:28:16 AM

TheRomanticDomme

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I'd say, don't put up anything about only giving it another month. It's not going to make anyone rush to prove to you how awesome they are. Also, I'd take down the bit about not wanting men over 35 and simply using the mail filters to weed out men who aren't in your age rage. Leave it up if you want, but at least take advantage of the mail control tools. Your profile over all seems fine, didn't strike me as amazing but I'm also not your target audience.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/16/2016 8:37:29 AM

mnottertail

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well, some things cant be fixed. You are 24, you are going to run thru a great deal of frogs.

Put up a nice vanilla face pic, if that scares you out of focus it a little or use some artistic subterfuge to cover it, say face planted in a bouquet of flowers. change your place to the bahamas its on the list, instead of the UK, at least the searches will be closer and more truthful, and keep the thing about the carrib is not an option.

look at your mail controls, you can put geezers like me to bulk, and all that rot.

But hey, like the real world except worse, because this is fundamentally a sex site, you are going to see peener pics, and get rude show us your tits messages. Do NOT reply, saying something like why are you doing this how do you think you are going to put your pony in my barn with that attitude.

DO NOT REPLY. PERIOD. BLOCK AND MOVE ON. You can also hover over the message, and get an idea of what you are getting into. you can delete unread, but that is sort of a red cape in front of a bull too. so, knowing its gonna be shit, race in without reading, block sender, delete.

Consider it dreary addressed to occupant mail, and shitcan it. Dont cop any attitude.

Now, quit fucking around and show us your tits. Prove you are a girl. I want to see your ass too.

LOL.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/16/2016 12:13:08 PM

StrongSpirit

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You are doing one major thing wrong, your location.

I would either:

a) Pick a country near where you are and state your actual location in your profile. Make it clear you are serious about moving. Give specifics.

b) Pick a city and country that you want to move to, and be serious about it. This will encourage people from that location to look you over. In your profile, tell the truth about your actual location, listing it, and explain the situation further. Give a time line about when you want to move and explain why.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/22/2016 4:47:35 PM

princess2016

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i need help my SIR and Mam have named me princess. i need help showing that i have compmetely surrendered myself that i am humble, that i can serve the house hold. i have been told to stop my selfish ways and thought. i want to stay with them but told i am not secure.i was told too look around see if i see aomebody who is better for me. SIR said i will work in His house hold if i get better and stop those ways. please help this kajira princess.

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RE: What am I doing wrong? Help please - 4/22/2016 7:50:24 PM

OsideGirl

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Your Dominants should be setting you up to succeed and helping you achieve the goals that have been set. So, judging by your post, they have failed you.

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