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Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in the se... - 4/30/2016 5:10:03 AM

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hello guys

We need to add more in the search because couples option it's so general it can be female/female or male/female or male/male
For peoples when want to serve a couple it will be hard to find what they want
for example i am straight and i want to server a f/f couple and when i search i get bored of only finding f/m couples ...

plz try to update the site with new thing...

RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 10:44:09 AM

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My searches return 60-90% who falls into categories of: pro dome, give me your cash, fake pro domes, hot lesbians and bisexuals (nearly every one of these is actually a man who have purloined some poor women’s pictures from online).
Search is basically pointless unless a verified option is added.

But there should be an option for couples profiles.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 11:51:01 AM

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Heh heh ... being a submissive male, adding one more filter wouldn't change a thing, given that my default search, as it is, finds zero people who meet even the simplest of pragmatic criteria.

Maybe for women, who need to weed far more than men do, adding additional filters will help; but for a submissive man like I am, filtering isn't the problem.

The type of women I/we want to please, simply don't exist.

EDIT: Had trouble with the photo url.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 1:50:09 PM

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@crumpets: That's 'cause you're not using the search function correctly. First off, you don't have a city defined, so within "X" mikes of "blank" will always yield nothing. Secondly, despite the fact it's there, it seems there is something quirky with using such a narrow search parameter of 10 miles. Put in your city, expand miles to at least 100 to get a result. I did get a result using 25 miles and leaving the "keywords/city" blank, but the results that came back were for people hundreds of miles away. And it seems that 100 miles is the minimum to yield results with "keywords/city" defined. The search feature simply isn't going to work the way you want it or expect it to work.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 2:13:26 PM

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Crumpets I expected more of you on this one...I expected you to utilise verified, then subsets after that, as opposed to utter malarkey.

I would go to the ends of the earth itself for equal and opposite counterpart. Sure would be great if she lived next door but even I realise that is most unlikely.
nothing or everything that is how I am designed..she would get all of I, a loon of handsome and soul in return.
Surely I can offer no less or no more

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 3:06:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
@crumpets: That's 'cause you're not using the search function correctly.

Heh heh ... thanks for that advice.
Certainly it seems odd that there is nobody that fits even the simplest of criteria within a reasonable radius.

However, I can raise the radius, but, to what?

What radius is reasonable?
A 10 mile radius already encompasses over 300 square miles.
A 25 mile radius would contain a whopping two thousand square miles!

Is it correct to have a thousand-mile radius, which some people must have, based on the ones who contact me?

I'm sure plenty of women here who seek someone local, likewise get pinged by people thousands of miles away.

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
First off, you don't have a city defined, so within "X" mikes of "blank" will always yield nothing.

Heh heh ... that's not how it works.

AFAIK, the distance search keys off of your zip code (at least for USA locations).

So, you could make your city Kumbahah, and it wouldn't result in different hits.

It's the ZIP CODE that matters for the distance search.
Here are the zip codes within a 10 mile radius for example:

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1 95159 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
2 95164 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
3 95173 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
4 95153 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
5 95156 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
6 95160 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
7 95157 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
8 95151 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
9 95154 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
10 95196 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
11 95170 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
12 95190 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
13 95152 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
14 95193 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
15 95155 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
16 95158 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
17 95172 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
18 95150 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
19 95161 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
20 95191 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
21 95194 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
22 95109 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.01 miles Driving Distance and Directions
23 95115 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.01 miles Driving Distance and Directions
24 95103 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.01 miles Driving Distance and Directions
25 95108 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.01 miles Driving Distance and Directions
26 95106 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.01 miles Driving Distance and Directions
27 95113 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.13 miles Driving Distance and Directions
28 95101 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.63 miles Driving Distance and Directions
29 95192 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.66 miles Driving Distance and Directions
30 95112 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.79 miles Driving Distance and Directions
31 95110 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 0.86 miles Driving Distance and Directions
32 95126 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 1.40 miles Driving Distance and Directions
33 95116 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 2.58 miles Driving Distance and Directions
34 95053 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 2.60 miles Driving Distance and Directions
35 95125 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 2.63 miles Driving Distance and Directions
36 95128 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 2.69 miles Driving Distance and Directions
37 95122 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 3.08 miles Driving Distance and Directions
38 95133 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 3.08 miles Driving Distance and Directions
39 95050 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 3.33 miles Driving Distance and Directions
40 95131 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 3.63 miles Driving Distance and Directions
41 95056 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 3.75 miles Driving Distance and Directions
42 95055 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 3.75 miles Driving Distance and Directions
43 95052 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 3.75 miles Driving Distance and Directions
44 95117 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 4.26 miles Driving Distance and Directions
45 95011 CAMPBELL SANTA CLARA CA US 4.48 miles Driving Distance and Directions
46 95009 CAMPBELL SANTA CLARA CA US 4.48 miles Driving Distance and Directions
47 95111 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.00 miles Driving Distance and Directions
48 95051 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 5.11 miles Driving Distance and Directions
49 95136 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.14 miles Driving Distance and Directions
50 95008 CAMPBELL SANTA CLARA CA US 5.20 miles Driving Distance and Directions
51 95121 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.23 miles Driving Distance and Directions
52 95118 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.51 miles Driving Distance and Directions
53 95054 SANTA CLARA SANTA CLARA CA US 5.62 miles Driving Distance and Directions
54 95124 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.77 miles Driving Distance and Directions
55 95130 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 5.78 miles Driving Distance and Directions
56 95127 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 6.14 miles Driving Distance and Directions
57 95132 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 6.24 miles Driving Distance and Directions
58 95129 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 6.27 miles Driving Distance and Directions
59 95036 MILPITAS SANTA CLARA CA US 6.45 miles Driving Distance and Directions
60 95148 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 6.74 miles Driving Distance and Directions
61 95134 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 6.81 miles Driving Distance and Directions
62 95035 MILPITAS SANTA CLARA CA US 7.34 miles Driving Distance and Directions
63 95123 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 7.49 miles Driving Distance and Directions
64 94086 SUNNYVALE SANTA CLARA CA US 7.56 miles Driving Distance and Directions
65 95015 CUPERTINO SANTA CLARA CA US 7.61 miles Driving Distance and Directions
66 94087 SUNNYVALE SANTA CLARA CA US 7.63 miles Driving Distance and Directions
67 94085 SUNNYVALE SANTA CLARA CA US 7.70 miles Driving Distance and Directions
68 94088 SUNNYVALE SANTA CLARA CA US 8.13 miles Driving Distance and Directions
69 95032 LOS GATOS SANTA CLARA CA US 8.27 miles Driving Distance and Directions
70 95071 SARATOGA SANTA CLARA CA US 8.61 miles Driving Distance and Directions
71 95031 LOS GATOS SANTA CLARA CA US 8.71 miles Driving Distance and Directions
72 95002 ALVISO SANTA CLARA CA US 9.03 miles Driving Distance and Directions
73 95030 LOS GATOS SANTA CLARA CA US 9.18 miles Driving Distance and Directions
74 94089 SUNNYVALE SANTA CLARA CA US 9.20 miles Driving Distance and Directions
75 95119 SAN JOSE SANTA CLARA CA US 9.38 miles Driving Distance and Directions

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
Secondly, despite the fact it's there, it seems there is something quirky with using such a narrow search parameter of 10 miles. Put in your city, expand miles to at least 100 to get a result.

As I noted, the city doesn't matter (the distance search keys off the zip code for Americans).
This is easy to prove.
1. Run a search & note the results.
2. Change the zip code in your profile (My Account)
3. Run the search again (notice different results).

While 100 mile radius settings would net more women, what good is netting women that I won't ever meet?

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
I did get a result using 25 miles and leaving the "keywords/city" blank, but the results that came back were for people hundreds of miles away. And it seems that 100 miles is the minimum to yield results with "keywords/city" defined. The search feature simply isn't going to work the way you want it or expect it to work.

As far as I can tell, the search feature uses a basic geolocation of the zip code center.

This isn't very fancy stuff.

The zip code geolocator isn't the problem.
The problem is paucity of real profiles within the stated area.

Bear in mind, I have on HIDE/BLOCK all the fake profiles (which is something like 8 or 9 out of 10 female profiles).

< Message edited by crumpets -- 4/30/2016 3:12:35 PM >

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 3:22:07 PM

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Crumpets I expected more of you on this one...I expected you to utilise verified, then subsets after that, as opposed to utter malarkey.

I'm having trouble understanding ... but I understood that you mentioned malarky.

1. My point was that additional filters are great if you NEED filters.
2. Women, for example, need filters.
3. My other point was that men, in general, don't NEED more filters (because of the paucity of women here).
4. I was pointing out that men, in general, cast a ridiculously wide net.

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
I would go to the ends of the earth itself for equal and opposite counterpart.

Really?
Then maybe I should forward to you some of the mail I get from women thousands of miles away.

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
Sure would be great if she lived next door but even I realise that is most unlikely.

Yup. You'd think kinky women would be in the same neighborhood.
But, for the most part, they don't exist.
At least when you remove the 8 or 9 out of 10 profiles which are men posing as women to get your money or their rocks off.

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire
nothing or everything that is how I am designed..she would get all of I, a loon of handsome and soul in return.
Surely I can offer no less or no more

I don't know if you're in Glasgow or in London, but here's a ten-mile radius of London's center.
You'd think there'd be a kinky woman or two that meets basic requirements in that area, wouldn't you?

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 3:23:44 PM

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Heh heh ... being a submissive male, adding one more filter wouldn't change a thing, given that my default search, as it is, finds zero people who meet even the simplest of pragmatic criteria.

I'm 190lbs in the pic in the Story of O dress. I'd be barely getting under 160lbs if I manage to get down to <20%* body fat. In order to get lower, I'd need to actually drop quite a bit of muscle mass, and even then it would take quite a bit of effort for me to drop below 150lbs, considering how active I am in my day to day life (it would basically require me to both diet myself down to <15%* body fat, AND stop working out altogether, and try to minimize my normal non-athletic day to day activities.)

You're putting your weight criteria too low.

Not that with a 10 mile search I think it'll matter that much, but just sayin'...

* For those who don't know what that means:

Description Female male
Athletes 14-20% 6-13%
Fitness 21-24% 14-17%
Acceptable 25-30% 18-25%
Obese 31%+ 26%+

http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/measure_up_body_fat.htm

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 3:37:59 PM

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*sighs*

I tried. You don't get it. I put in specific information knowing there were people matching the criteria. And confining it to 10 miles, I got nothing. Putting in 100 miles and I got two people matching my criteria. Even though those two people should have appeared within the 10 miles search, they did not show up when I restricted my search to 10 miles. They only appeared when I put in 100 miles, even though they aren't 100 miles away, they are within the same community, zip code, however you wish to define it. So...the search function doesn't work how you've tried to use it.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 3:39:18 PM

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ORIGINAL: crumpets

Heh heh ... being a submissive male, adding one more filter wouldn't change a thing, given that my default search, as it is, finds zero people who meet even the simplest of pragmatic criteria.

I'm 190lbs in the pic in the Story of O dress.

You're putting your weight criteria too low.

Not that with a 10 mile search I think it'll matter that much, but just sayin'...

Ooops. And you're hot! Really really hot. Tall too! Statuesque, in fact!

So I stand corrected.

However, as you aptly noted, the 160 pounds isn't really the limiting criteria anyway.
Here's a search with the weight set to the maximum that it can be set to, and with the radius set at 50 miles.

Notice it's still only one page of potential hits.
So, what would an additional FILTER do for me?

Since I consider myself pretty typical, my guess is that men, such as I am, don't need additional filters.
Women might need them, but not men.

Maybe I'm wrong, as I'm basing this assumption on my results as shown above and below.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 4:01:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
I tried. You don't get it. I put in specific information knowing there were people matching the criteria. And confining it to 10 miles, I got nothing. Putting in 100 miles and I got two people matching my criteria. Even though those two people should have appeared within the 10 miles search, they did not show up when I restricted my search to 10 miles.

Well, if you are intimating that the 10-mile search, in and of itself, is broken, I do agree with you that I didn't get that from your description.

I understand you now, that you think the 10-mile search is broken, and, well, even if it were, that's not my experience.
Look at the 100-mile search below, for example.

Even at 100 miles (which is astronomical if you consider that a relationship requires meeting at least weekly, if not more), the entire number of hits fits easily within one and a half pages. That's in toto.

So, my only point is why would I need an additional filter for, at the very most, one and a half pages of hits?

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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD
They only appeared when I put in 100 miles, even though they aren't 100 miles away, they are within the same community, zip code, however you wish to define it. So...the search function doesn't work how you've tried to use it.

I think the search function actually works.
I just think that there aren't many women here that fit the simplest of criteria, as defined in the search engine.
Now, I'm NOT complaining.
I'm not complaining in the least.

All I'm saying is that, for someone like I am, there is no need for ADDITIONAL search filters.

Why not?
Because, for submissive men, the number of Dominant women who fit the most basic of requirements is so low that there's no need for ANY additional filters.

The real need is for more Dominant women. :)

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 4:27:09 PM

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thrashes crumpets to its knees with a wheelie bin twere for the best *smiles

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 4/30/2016 8:59:02 PM

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

thrashes crumpets to its knees with a wheelie bin twere for the best *smiles

I am nothing if not logical.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 5/1/2016 10:54:38 AM

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OMG ! NO ONE GOT THE POINT OF THIS THREAD :(
This is for men seeking to serve female/female couples ...
how can i find them ?

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OMG ! NO ONE GOT THE POINT OF THIS THREAD :(

No, we actually completely get the point of this post....but you don't.

It's a free site.

The software is old and the organization has no money.

It's not going to change.

So, unless you're willing to pony up for the money to make the change, you'll have to suck it up.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 5/1/2016 1:25:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: zaba99

OMG ! NO ONE GOT THE POINT OF THIS THREAD :(
This is for men seeking to serve female/female couples ...
how can i find them ?

Get out of the house and meet them. If you're waiting for this site to help you find them you'll be waiting an awfully long time.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 5/1/2016 1:33:38 PM

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crumpets I know exactly what you are, why quote me on this one and you have a reasonable idea of what I am. Your an idealist and I am fine with that. Pity your numbers are few as the opposite of your kind seek to tar and feather you; to enable their existence (not noticed yet?) and their team shite existence who will back em up with kindred malarley? I just think you naive at times.

there are many perspectives

one cannot not choose from that apparent 100%
one can only chose from that 20% and that is an unbroken demographic..do you understand that yet? before I split them down to their fundamental components...and for the record the genuine women who are looking have it no easier on these places

The second I remove myself from here all the opposite of my kind
fet - the opposte of my kind foot me of there often and JB lets them

As for me i have been on here sine this sites existence, fetlife too (yup they ban me all the time for posing truisms) I have met none from both...i never once claimed to be perfet but those numbers do not stack up ave with team woe.
I would go to the ends of the earth itself not 10 miles
last person I met, not that i meet more than 1, max, per year was from Mexico city And she was worth every moment in time...and she captured a snowfalke..the stoy is long

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 5/2/2016 3:53:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
No, we actually completely get the point of this post....but you don't.
The software is old and the organization has no money.
It's not going to change.
So, unless you're willing to pony up for the money to make the change, you'll have to suck it up.

I vote this the best answer to the Op's question.

However, the most pragmatic answer is that even if the option existed, it would just make zero smaller.

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RE: Do you want the option of f/f m/m m/f option in th... - 5/3/2016 5:16:16 AM

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NO I ONLY PLAY WITH GIRLS. STUPID ?.
FROM A STUPID MAN..

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