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OsideGirl -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:10:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Yes, but that was not where he specified who the question was for, now was it. :) I was referring to this: quote: I didn't specify that it had to be their subs. When in fact he did say it.

ThatDizzyChick -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:25:31 PM)
OK whatever, I really don't care, I was really just trying to interject a bit of levity (I even included a laughy smiley at one point), but it seems that escaped you.

OsideGirl -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:36:55 PM)
I took that to mean that it was intended as good natured....which is how I took it.

submit2ufreely -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:49:03 PM)
Goddammit gotta get used to sharing a computer with somebody. [:@] ~Ishtar

LadyPact -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:50:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Yeah, "I can't come to the phone right now because I'm tied up and getting fucked up the ass with a really big Dildo. Leave a message. <beep>" It would go over great with Mom or the boss. If I were in that position, I'd blow the bucks on a burner phone. [;)] Back to the random task thing... I think it's one thing to want the tasks. It's another thing for the potential other person to get any kind of charge from seeing the tasks done. If the idea was tailored to a specific person reviewing the tasks, that's one thing. Just for 'any random person later' doesn't seem, to me, to work as well. I read the other thread and it was asking for ten things for the s-type to accomplish. Except, nobody knows if any of those ten things from the book are going to be major turn offs to the person who eventually sees it. Keep in mind, I come from the Ask A Mistress board, so I've spent years listening to what women say turns them off. Not interested in cross dressers, not interested in guys who like anal, not interested in guy's eating their own cum, not interested in most of the 'prove how submissive' the guy is via cam. (I'm not saying that nobody likes any of those particular kinks. I'm saying Dominant women have their own preferences in kinks and the "I'm doing it for you" doesn't match up when the kinks don't match.) It could be fun for certain s-types to have a book for certain things to try out if, on their own, they were running out of ideas to explore. However, if the idea is to engage with another person, it's that other person that needs to have the input. Otherwise, it's just masturbatory for the task completer and the book.

UllrsIshtar -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 7:51:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I understand that there are subs who crave such tasks Yeah. 99.9999999999999999999999% of these subs are males. Even if it's a female profile, they're males. If you want to set tasks that you have a good chance at getting completed, pick something where the other person can keep up the pretense that they're a female.

Wayward5oul -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 9:11:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThatDizzyChick Yes, but that was not where he specified who the question was for, now was it. :) Its called context, something that is picked up in reading comprehension. Or even better, its not just in the same post...its in the same freakin' sentence. The one you conveniently edited out to prove your point.

littleclip -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/2/2016 9:13:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Yeah, "I can't come to the phone right now because I'm tied up and getting fucked up the ass with a really big Dildo. Leave a message. <beep>" It would go over great with Mom or the boss. now if you have called id and you know its a some tele marketer or creditor then it would be a great i would love to be able to see their expressions

ClubErotica -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 1:39:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact That voice mail thing? I don't see that going over terribly well with friends, family, employers, or business associates. (Seriously, my female off-spring just called as I was typing that. LOL.) Yeah, "I can't come to the phone right now because I'm tied up and getting fucked up the ass with a really big Dildo. Leave a message. <beep>" It would go over great with Mom or the boss. That was an example off the top of my head right at that moment, wasnt set in stone.

ClubErotica -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 1:42:26 AM)
Listen lets stop getting bogged down here. I had a simple idea for a game, and asked for suggestions (of which I received many). Work In Progress http://sexandsubmission.weebly.com/

ClubErotica -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 2:19:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl Yeah, "I can't come to the phone right now because I'm tied up and getting fucked up the ass with a really big Dildo. Leave a message. <beep>" It would go over great with Mom or the boss. If I were in that position, I'd blow the bucks on a burner phone. [;)] Back to the random task thing... I think it's one thing to want the tasks. It's another thing for the potential other person to get any kind of charge from seeing the tasks done. If the idea was tailored to a specific person reviewing the tasks, that's one thing. Just for 'any random person later' doesn't seem, to me, to work as well. I read the other thread and it was asking for ten things for the s-type to accomplish. Except, nobody knows if any of those ten things from the book are going to be major turn offs to the person who eventually sees it. Keep in mind, I come from the Ask A Mistress board, so I've spent years listening to what women say turns them off. Not interested in cross dressers, not interested in guys who like anal, not interested in guy's eating their own cum, not interested in most of the 'prove how submissive' the guy is via cam. (I'm not saying that nobody likes any of those particular kinks. I'm saying Dominant women have their own preferences in kinks and the "I'm doing it for you" doesn't match up when the kinks don't match.) It could be fun for certain s-types to have a book for certain things to try out if, on their own, they were running out of ideas to explore. However, if the idea is to engage with another person, it's that other person that needs to have the input. Otherwise, it's just masturbatory for the task completer and the book. Thank you for an enlighten post. I asked the original question (in two forums, aimed at different audiences) because I wanted/needed to hear other peoples opinions. Your comment about coming from the Ask A Mistress forum was interesting, and will help me mold the game. Nothing is set in stone, I'm not only looking for answers, but also for the right questions to ask so that my game can appeal to others too. Your coment about what you're learnt what woman want was the most educational of all, and I thank you for that. Paul

OsideGirl -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 9:55:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I understand that there are subs who crave such tasks Yeah. 99.9999999999999999999999% of these subs are males. Even if it's a female profile, they're males. If you want to set tasks that you have a good chance at getting completed, pick something where the other person can keep up the pretense that they're a female. I think the only "task" that I was ever given that I actually got something out of was when my first Dominant told me to keep a journal. At that point we were long distance and it gave him an opportunity to see how I was feeling on a daily basis.

OsideGirl -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 10:27:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact That voice mail thing? I don't see that going over terribly well with friends, family, employers, or business associates. (Seriously, my female off-spring just called as I was typing that. LOL.) Yeah, "I can't come to the phone right now because I'm tied up and getting fucked up the ass with a really big Dildo. Leave a message. <beep>" It would go over great with Mom or the boss. That was an example off the top of my head right at that moment, wasnt set in stone. But, yet you posted that suggestion and the others on that website. I get that you're saying it was off the top of your head, but those suggestions (all three of them) show that you're not giving the ideas critical thought. You need to look at the suggestions from all angles, not just your dick. You need to have a RACK warning. As the author, you have to stop and ask yourself, "What could go wrong with this suggestion?" ie: Having someone that you don't know and never met having control of publishing photos and recordings of you online in an environment that they control could destroy your life. You need to be aware if the suggestions brings in people that haven't consented to being involved in your kink. You also need to remember that when you're reading the fantasies of others - that they're mostly exactly that - fantasies. You need to look at those ideas with a critical eye and always remember the adage "Just because you can, doesn't mean you should". So, now you're going to come back with some complaint because all of that isn't what you wanted to hear.

DesFIP -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (5/3/2016 5:21:02 PM)
Op, you don't get to control who comments on your post and how. You've whined on two threads now about this. And you might want to read the TOS. As posting what is effectively the same post in multiple fora is expressly forbidden. However, acting as your own domme, by giving yourself tasks designed to get your jollies off is relatively creative. Since God knows no woman will do this for you unless she's getting paid.

ClubErotica -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (6/12/2016 4:22:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl quote: ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar quote: ORIGINAL: ClubErotica I understand that there are subs who crave such tasks Yeah. 99.9999999999999999999999% of these subs are males. Even if it's a female profile, they're males. If you want to set tasks that you have a good chance at getting completed, pick something where the other person can keep up the pretense that they're a female. I think the only "task" that I was ever given that I actually got something out of was when my first Dominant told me to keep a journal. At that point we were long distance and it gave him an opportunity to see how I was feeling on a daily basis. Hey OsideGirl, I missed this post when I last scanned the forum, sorry about that. Getting the subs to keep a journal is an excellent idea, thank you for the idea. Paul

ClubErotica -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (6/12/2016 4:25:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Op, you don't get to control who comments on your post and how. You've whined on two threads now about this. And you might want to read the TOS. As posting what is effectively the same post in multiple fora is expressly forbidden. However, acting as your own domme, by giving yourself tasks designed to get your jollies off is relatively creative. Since God knows no woman will do this for you unless she's getting paid. Two similar threads, aimed at two different audiences! Not trying to be pedantic (or maybe I am)

vanessa024 -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (7/24/2016 8:27:26 AM)
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LilJuly76 -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (7/24/2016 8:40:31 AM)
chcik you're prostituting yourself on a board, how much danger do you want in your life?

OsideGirl -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (7/24/2016 10:33:56 AM)
Oh,good....now we have bots in the forums.

LilJuly76 -> RE: A question for Masters who provide subs with tasks to perform... (7/24/2016 10:53:54 AM)
and I spelled chick wrong, yeesh

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