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PamperPansy -> Finding a Dom (5/4/2016 1:22:10 PM)

Hi everyone
I'm new here, so I hope you'll forgive any faux pas.

I live in downtown Chicago. I have had a couple real meetings with two Doms here. Only two. I find it hard to believe that in a city like this, there aren't more male Doms looking for male subs. Or, if not LOOKING, then at least would be willing to meet with a male sub once or twice.

But I'm not having much luck finding a willing male Dom who would take me on in a realtime space. If you look at my profile, you'll see that I'm into almost anything that is submissive. I know public humiliation is a tough one for most guys, and that's okay. I've had to resort to many different ways to humiliate MYSELF publicly.

How about it, guys? Any men willing to be my Dom in Chicago?

Ryan



OsideGirl -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/4/2016 1:55:07 PM)

I would suggest getting out and attending munches, discussion groups, demos, etc. (Most major cities have LGBT specific groups) Volunteer to help set up, maintain the snack tables, etc. It will give you face to face exposure, create a network and give you a place to check out someone's reputation.




ThatDizzyChick -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/4/2016 5:42:46 PM)

Yeah, what she said.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/5/2016 3:36:57 AM)

I'm going with OsideGirl on that one



WickedsDesire -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/10/2016 10:40:53 AM)

Most are married and cheats and liars here, and there, you will find the same proportion of that ilk attends munches and clubs.
...why would anyone assume, or state, anything different. granted I am fairly sure the blind can lead the blind or a sophist someone genuine.

Have you considered taking up knitting and leading the life of a hermit and gathering cats, because that is what you are worth to the great ,many on these places, or at those munches.

Still, it leaves a few eh.



LilJuly76 -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/10/2016 3:41:19 PM)

I attended a bunch of munches locally they were a mix of kinky and BDSM people, I didn't really run into any fakes, well with the exception of one person that has a bad rep in the community.



DannyIsNotWelcom -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/17/2016 4:19:01 PM)

I know public humiliation is a tough one for most guys, and that's okay. I've had to resort to many different ways to humiliate MYSELF publicly.


Maybe that's what they don't like, Ryan. Mine likes a tough and self-respecting guy (not to mention good looking, hehe) who doesn't take kindly to any attempt at public humiliation. When I'm allowed to go on my knees and kiss his feet that's something to be envied for.



dom333989 -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/30/2016 2:07:23 AM)

I want to be domd by áný group or couple þegar hvar desire to keep a male sub/slave
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LilJuly76 -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/30/2016 4:46:45 AM)

ah yes another one that has no clue. funny a slave using dom in his name.



debydeb -> RE: Finding a Dom (5/30/2016 9:53:47 AM)

attend your local munch and not rely on the internet to be your source to find people in your area.....



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