I think this thread is pointless. The OP never got back on the site the day she posted it.
Anyone else in a similar situation, get out. It won't change, he will keep lying, and you deserve better
I agree with what Greatlilbabygirl stated; . In my own observation through life, the wicked don't change and if you give them the opportunity they will do worse to you. A person can makes mistakes but something premeditated like what this man has done means he has it in him to do worse to his women and does not care how they suffer cos of it. Also that there are children involved shows complete disregard for the welfare of the children who'se mother is packing up to move with him to wherever with her children - possibly moving further away from her current support networks , changing schools, GP etc and other things that could affect the childhood experiences of this children. We don't know if the woman with the children would even given up work to move with this man. Not a good situ and the man is remorseless.
I also agree with what DarkSteven has said i.e "if he gets away with this, he'll lose respect for you and lie all he wants. "
Maybe the OP left cos she does knows what is the best thing for her to do i.e disclose the truth to her fellow Poly sister + the mother with the children and leave the bad situation cos I'm surprised that she has allowed herself to be intimidated into having to to do "different tasks to complete to regain his trust and show my devotion. ". Devotion to a liar and a cheat that has no respect of proper care for any of the other people involved or the other 3rd parties's children - a bad and sad joke . Hopefully she has wised up. I have empathy with the vanilla mother and her children especially . A bad move could affect the remaining part of their childhood and even set them up to go into adult life on a negative path. The man indeed is quite self- centered and short sighted etc
Sorry if my font editing comes out wrong. I'm new to using the text editing here and may often get it wrong etc. Was trying to use italics and bold for the quotes.
I hope you are all starting what will be a pleasant weekend for you :)
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