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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/13/2016 10:58:33 AM

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but it isn't naïve to think highly-touted dating sites are scams.

I have always just assumed that any pay site was.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/13/2016 11:42:23 AM

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but it isn't naïve to think highly-touted dating sites are scams.

I have always just assumed that any pay site was.

Bingo

I just did a random search earlier on sites that have people from my city, came across one and you can easily tell just by looking at the front page is a scam without seeing an area to sign up and pay for it.

thin beautiful 18-25 year old busty women, have a one line sentence under their name that indicates something sexual. Kinda hard not to pick these sites out.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/13/2016 11:48:14 AM

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If my male off-spring (who is your age, btw) were dumb enough to 'fall for it,' I would consider myself a failure as a parent.

You wouldn't have to. It is generally accepted that parents have at most 30% influence on their children.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/15/2016 2:07:36 PM

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I have never viewed FL as a "Dating site."

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 3:21:37 PM

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FetLife is NOT a date site. You are naive and should find a keeper. You clearly should not be left alone too long. smh
NO ..... I am NOT available for the job.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 3:30:00 PM

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what surprised me the most is why almost none on this forum are verified and sitting in judgement

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 3:48:06 PM

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Oh my goodness. I go away for a year....come back....and the same song is in the radio.

Btw. Hi y'all!!

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 4:32:26 PM

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Oh my goodness. I go away for a year....come back....and the same song is in the radio.

Btw. Hi y'all!!

Welcome back. Nice to see you again.

The song has been pretty much the same for several years. Occasionally there is some brilliance so I stick around.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 5:34:21 PM

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There is only I genuine and single here
let me cite an exampleThatDizzyChick a deranged woof woof who has dropped a sprog 4 monhs ago...it chose them

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/17/2016 5:39:59 PM

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Oh dear, somebody is still upset.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/20/2016 12:41:26 AM

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 5/21/2016 7:39:28 AM

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someone must be desperate to actually pay for a bdsm site when there are free one's ..... try this site or fetlife ,.... gees

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/13/2016 7:02:32 PM

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LadyPact - wtf is your problem? Do you get off on insulting every poster here? I'm guessing you do, because the logic you used to admonish the OP is absolutely pathetic.

"Dude, just because you were dumb enough to fall for a scam, please don't insult the intelligence of other people by thinking you have to warn them."

Scamming someone is fraud - promising something that is not delivered. Do you realize that fraud is a crime for a reason? There can be extremely sophisticated scams - such as the famous pyramid scheme. Or Trump U - another famous scam/fraud that was sophisticated. Are the victims to blame here, or is the person running the scam / doing the defrauding? In case you thought for even one second that the victim was to blame, DON'T. There is a limit to personal responsibility - such as when someone cannot make an informed decision due to the actions of the scammer. That's why pyramid schemes work - the new investors cannot always know that they are not going to get the return on investment that they put in. The only reason people do not fall for them as often is precisely the same reason that you are insulting the OP - because they have been EDUCATED about it!

Seriously, learn a little bit about ethics and morality, maybe some critical thinking skills. That way you won't feel the need to insult every poster.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/13/2016 7:24:24 PM

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oh dear....
As you seem not to have attended this side very much over the last four years, may I suggest that you go back to some of the Ops other posts and realise that this poster is not"new" at being scammed, in fact he has a bit of an addiction to it, and under several different sock names as well.
This does not go down well with a lot of "regular" posters.
Especially when a lot of male rants are about "scammers"

You seem to have a bit of a bee in your bonnet.
Chill calm down...
mkay?

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/13/2016 7:26:21 PM

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If the WROP is so immature that he keeps getting taken, then Lady Pact was dead on in her comments. Time the 20 yr old grew up and stopped thinking with his little head and let his brain to the thinking.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/13/2016 7:33:38 PM

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LadyPact - wtf is your problem? Do you get off on insulting every poster here? I'm guessing you do, because the logic you used to admonish the OP is absolutely pathetic.

"Dude, just because you were dumb enough to fall for a scam, please don't insult the intelligence of other people by thinking you have to warn them."

Scamming someone is fraud - promising something that is not delivered. Do you realize that fraud is a crime for a reason? There can be extremely sophisticated scams - such as the famous pyramid scheme. Or Trump U - another famous scam/fraud that was sophisticated. Are the victims to blame here, or is the person running the scam / doing the defrauding? In case you thought for even one second that the victim was to blame, DON'T. There is a limit to personal responsibility - such as when someone cannot make an informed decision due to the actions of the scammer. That's why pyramid schemes work - the new investors cannot always know that they are not going to get the return on investment that they put in. The only reason people do not fall for them as often is precisely the same reason that you are insulting the OP - because they have been EDUCATED about it!

Seriously, learn a little bit about ethics and morality, maybe some critical thinking skills. That way you won't feel the need to insult every poster.

Well it appears we have yet another fear mongering moron. Or maybe its the same old sock puppet? Who knows? If you are stupid enough to fall for the scams, then just sell your computer so you cannot get scammed again.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/14/2016 5:11:49 PM

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Oh dear me. The oblivious is strong in this one Obi-Wan.

Lol...sometimes you're funny.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/14/2016 6:55:21 PM

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LadyPact - wtf is your problem? Do you get off on insulting every poster here? I'm guessing you do, because the logic you used to admonish the OP is absolutely pathetic.

Nah. Just the ones who just don't show any logic whatsoever when it comes to money in exchange for BDSM. This is a repeated issue with this particular individual (check his posting history) as he's started several threads about sending money to people because he refuses to take the advice he's been given about how to find and arrange a session with a reputable pro. Posters have detailed to him how to find his local community, passed along info on BDSM clubs in his area, and every other possible bit of good advice. At some point, a person is just choosing to continue to be foolish.

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Scamming someone is fraud - promising something that is not delivered. Do you realize that fraud is a crime for a reason? There can be extremely sophisticated scams - such as the famous pyramid scheme. Or Trump U - another famous scam/fraud that was sophisticated. Are the victims to blame here, or is the person running the scam / doing the defrauding? In case you thought for even one second that the victim was to blame, DON'T. There is a limit to personal responsibility - such as when someone cannot make an informed decision due to the actions of the scammer. That's why pyramid schemes work - the new investors cannot always know that they are not going to get the return on investment that they put in. The only reason people do not fall for them as often is precisely the same reason that you are insulting the OP - because they have been EDUCATED about it!

Do you know what header is at the top of every email that a person opens here? It's this:

DO NOT SEND MONEY TO OTHER USERS FOR ANY REASON!
Read about Common Scams and Online Safety Information

That means the site, itself, already warns you not to do this. It's in big, red letters with a clickable link to common scams. There is language in ToS to discourage people from doing it. If nothing else, I just typed words into google (common scams on the internet BDSM) and got pages of results. There are tons of threads here about how to find a reputable pro. There is a reputable pro in the OP's neighborhood who regularly posts about classes that she does in Upcoming Events from which the OP could network. All of this information has been available to the OP all along. It's really not like this information is not out there.

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Seriously, learn a little bit about ethics and morality, maybe some critical thinking skills. That way you won't feel the need to insult every poster.

Has nothing to do with ethics and morality when a person refuses to use the information at their disposal. If you tell somebody some version of "don't do that" at least a half a dozen times, at what point does their responsibility come into it? The OP has a track record of not using his own common sense or doing any research, even when it's been handed to him.

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 7/14/2016 9:20:12 PM

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RE: NEW BDSM Scam! BEWARE! - 9/19/2016 6:45:10 PM

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I don't think I've ever fell for any scam trying to take my money. There are tons of bots and even real people here who try to get you to subscribe to websites with the promise that they will come to you and become your master. idk for me it's just so obvious what they're doing. So I always drop them right when they start asking me for money. I guess some people are just too trusting of others. I'm talking to a scammer right now as I write this post. She is asking me to create some slave profile for her. I know exactly what she is going to write next. She will likely post the link to some website and then tell me I need to subscribe to it there but in order to create my profile I will have to pay the monthly fee. Then she will try to tempt me by saying once you do this you will belong to me and we can start our sessions together. They all say about the same things tbh.

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here's some bits from my conversation with her. tbh I knew she was a scammer from the very beginning because I always do a reverse image search on profile pictures and hers was from some online cam girl.

mistress:
* so do you seek real time person my slave?

i reply.

mistress:
* are you interested to meet and have a sex with me?

she said this completely out of no where and it shocks me a bit. i didn't say anything sex related at all to her before this.
I agree to have sex with her even though i know she's a scammer. im just playing along for fun to see what she says next.

* but first you need to undergo my online training before meeting. Can you do that for me my dear slave? It will last for a week just to make sure you are serious with this before meeting.
* for us to start you must create your slave profile first to be officially owned by me .so i can send u further instructions of ur slave profile ok?

i go silent for a few mintues

mistress:
are you willing to create your slave profile?

i troll her a little bit since she mentioned sex earlier to me.
me: "We can have sex after I create it?"

mistress:
after you task.. i want to test your obedient and loyalty before we talk about our meeting. are you willing to prove your self to me?

me:
Yes mistress. I am ready <3. What do you need me to do for you?

mistress:
So here's the instructions My Future Slave. .

mistress: Click this URL >> "random url here"

( She used one of those link shortner urls so I cant see where it leads to just by scrolling over it with my mouse. I didn't have the guts to click on it. I don't want to get hacked or something. )

Mistress: and create your slave profile there, After making the Profile, just tell me your username there so i can check how good you are in creating your slave profile ok?
Tell your Mistress when your Done.

after 23 minutes of silence from me she sends me another message saying

Mistress: inform me the moment that you are done okay?

I haven't decided yet whether ill tell her im not going to do it or ill just keep her waiting on me; wondering what i'm gong to do.

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And now a completely different girl just sent me this message,

" I want you to make and dedicate a Slave Profile to me, for you to prove me that you are real, serious and sincere to serve me, as your Mistress.

I want that Slave Profile to take place on my Chosen Legit page for Mistress'es and Slave like you and me. "

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I can list so many times I've gotten messages like this. They all say about the same thing. Asking me to create some profile with promise of a reward (i.e. becoming my mistress, promise of sex, etc) after I subscribe to the website by spending real money.

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