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Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/4/2016 2:37:31 PM

Pedrodelosec

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Hi everyone, this is my first post in the Collarspace forum so please try to not judge me too much ;-) ,

I am in a d&s sexual relationship with my girlfriend, and she is the dominant one.

One time she went crazy with her nails and scratched me until blood. During the action I loved it so we didn't care. But after we realised that there were going to be scars and even though they disapeared a little you still see them when i'm naked.

We would like to be able to do the same but without marking my body with scars, with only short-term marks.
Do you have ideas or tips of how to scratch someone without getting permanent marks (put cream before hand, an oil, put something on the nails, ... ?) ??
I am calling for your experience and your knowledge if you can help us or give us ideas about what to do.
I will of course let you know what we tried and put pictures if needed.

By the way : we are still looking for me to take a lot of pain during sex as I love it.

So to be clear I'm looking for help to find ways for her to bring me pain during sex but without permanent marking.

Thank you for reading everyone.

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/4/2016 4:22:44 PM

ThatDizzyChick

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Don't scratch so hard?

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/4/2016 6:54:06 PM

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Use Mederma cream to prevent scars and it will also eliminate existing scars.

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/5/2016 3:21:32 AM

Pedrodelosec

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Thank you DesFIP. I'll look into it.

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/5/2016 8:05:04 AM

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Nails don't normally go through the skin though. She may have had a sharp point. Make sure she's filed hers recently to avoid sharp edges.

Temporary welts are common but they'll go away in a few hours. If your skin is abnormally delicate, you may want to visit a dermatologist.

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/10/2016 3:30:25 PM

HappyMasterDom

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Cut her fingers off! My sense of humor. Seriously, start by cutting her nails. Instruct her not to do it again. If she does, then point out the blood and punish her appropriately.

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/10/2016 5:03:15 PM

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Cut her fingers off! My sense of humor. Seriously, start by cutting her nails. Instruct her not to do it again. If she does, then point out the blood and punish her appropriately.

So, your suggestion is that a submissive should give orders and punish their Dominant?

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RE: Pain and scars, how to not leave permanent ones ? - 6/11/2016 4:23:51 AM

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when I saw HappyMasterDom's reply the first thing that popped in my head is that he's mixed up on the roles of what a Dominant is and what a submissive is.

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