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curious301 -> anal sex (12/2/2004 10:46:39 PM)
I've love anal sex and anal play, but it bothers me when its messy. (I hope you all know what I mean by that.....LOL) Is this a normal occurance and if yes, is there a way to avoid it. [:)]

harmony3709 -> RE: anal sex (12/2/2004 11:09:43 PM)
I can't speak to the "normal occurrence", although from posts I've seen on other sites regarding this topic, my guess would be yes, or at least a concern. I can only speak to my own experience, and that is that because it IS a concern of mine, I prefer to use enemas ahead of time. Since I had to do some research on that myself, I can't give you a specific link, but could give you more specific info that I learned, if you'd like to contact me through email on this site. I'm definitely not an expert, but would be happy to share what I have learned. harmony

Kinkypupper -> RE: anal sex (12/2/2004 11:23:26 PM)
Ever hear of an enema. just insure that the one partner on the receaving end has a good enema first and then a shower. Infact a "couple" shower first is a good idea..

ProScatman -> RE: anal sex (12/3/2004 4:23:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: curious301 I've love anal sex and anal play, but it bothers me when its messy. (I hope you all know what I mean by that.....LOL) Is this a normal occurance and if yes, is there a way to avoid it. [:)] I understand your concerns Too. Having a slave who is well versed in performing the "Hindlick Manuever"is a step in the right direction. Done right, this can be a very sensual, and binding experience for both slave and Domme! My last Domme expected me to perform it for her, and as a result we had a close, wonderful relationship. She had to move, and I still miss our time together.

proudsub -> RE: anal sex (12/3/2004 5:11:00 PM)
quote: I've love anal sex and anal play, but it bothers me when its messy. (I hope you all know what I mean by that.....LOL) Is this a normal occurance and if yes, is there a way to avoid it. Here are some threads on enemas and anal play: enema training... anal usage enema enema question

pandoravampire -> RE: anal sex (12/8/2004 7:37:14 AM)
I have just had two consecutive anal play sessions that have ended messily on my part. It had put me off somewhat, but went ahead with it for the 3rd time successfully yesterday. Im glad that was not messy, as this aspect ruins what is otherwise a really submissive type of session for me. I have not had a enema, as i do not own any equipment for this. To wander into a pharmacist and ask for such equipment, far surpasses that embarassment factor of buying condoms[:)] And yes, id rather it ended messily with someone who cares about my feelings and is respectful, than answer the stares of some vanilla pharmacist thanks. But im going to buy a hose attatchment for the tap instead, just not been able to locate one yet.

sandradee -> RE: anal sex (12/18/2004 2:00:15 PM)
i do anal often. never had a mess problem.

rubytuesday -> RE: anal sex (12/18/2004 8:24:41 PM)
I have to say Ive never had a "mess" problem either but then if I had it wouldnt bother me - love wet messy sex of any sort [;)] If it is a concern though you really should try some enema play first - might solve your problem and be fun ............... smiles ruby

FangsNfeet -> RE: anal sex (12/19/2004 1:03:36 AM)
no matter how it comes out of your arse, make sure you don't let it go into your vagina and mouth after words. You can get some fucked up shit that way. [:'(]

esclava -> RE: anal sex (12/22/2004 12:41:59 PM)
"messy" sex only happened to me once.... since then i always do an enema before hand :) but i guess that only helps when you KNOW you are going to have anal beforehand. My thought is that anyone entering that area has to expect the worse case scenario lol

INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: anal sex (12/22/2004 1:13:11 PM)
Do you know the difference between performing oral sex on a woman, and squealing on the Mafia?.......................... Once slip of the tongue, and you are in deep shit!

lilldarlin -> RE: anal sex (12/22/2004 9:42:55 PM)
Having a problem with requesting an enema should be able to be avoided fairly easy. Just go to a store that has a health care section......you know were the anti acids/ cough and cold stuff is and there should be disposable single use enemas there. The main brand I know of is called "Fleet". They cost about $1 a peice or close to it. Come to think of it I think I have even seen them in my local grocery store. Try those........they work real well for me. Just do it about an hour before you expect to be used anally so that it has a chance to do it's thing and clean you out well. It takes about that long for me to finish having to "go" if ya know what I mean. S Then......no mess!

Expmfyr -> RE: anal sex (12/24/2004 4:27:06 AM)
I'd say enema too, hmm. What an odd post. Just unscrew the shower head and use the shower hose, but be careful not to have it too hot or too high pressure. We don't have those enema kits in demark, as far as i know, but the shower thing is easier and quicker, and i do i when ever i have a shower... My girlfriend has a thing about anal, so she fists me quite often or uses whatever she can find, so being clean is good...

wallflower -> RE: anal sex (1/6/2005 8:09:54 PM)
" Just unscrew the shower head and use the shower hose..." i dont really understand how someone can use the shower as an enema...can anyone explain this to me in a little more detail? thanks

sub4hire -> RE: anal sex (1/6/2005 8:44:07 PM)
quote: i dont really understand how someone can use the shower as an enema...can anyone explain this to me in a little more detail? thanks I don't know how exp does it. However, I have a hand held shower head. Not that it matters. We went down to the local hardware store and bought a water diverter. Which basically is nothing more than a valve so you can have your water attached to two different things at once. The shower head and something else. We got a little valve to make it smaller. Attached a medical type hose to it. Basically something alone the lines of an oxygen tube size. Attack the enema nozzle. The only problem is you have to turn the water down low. Or else the force is not a good thing. My brain went dead on all the plumbing jargon there so I hope you could understand it.

stef -> RE: anal sex (1/6/2005 8:47:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: wallflower i dont really understand how someone can use the shower as an enema...can anyone explain this to me in a little more detail? You need to install a diverter and hose/nozzle assembly on your shower head. It has a variable valve that allows you to let in as little or as much water as you want into the hose/nozzle. A very popular unit is called the Shower Shot. You can plug that into your search engine of choice and find a retailer that carries it. There are several differently shaped nozzles available to meet your particular needs/preferences. Happy flushing! ~stef

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