NookieNotes
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First, none of the first post really matters to me. One of my main kinks is behavior modification, and I have previously-given and ongoing consent to do whatever the fuck I want to my Pet. He also trusts me to do what's best for BOTH of us. So, I would say: Do things with people you trust. quote:
ORIGINAL: kkaliforniaa Your dog analogy wouldn't be any different than if you had a cat, then changed where the litter box was. A properly trained cat wouldn't continue "going" where the litter box used to be, rather they would find where it is now [*excluding cats in new homes].. Actually, you have that wrong. Going into sand-like materials and covering it up is a part of the cat's nature. So, litterboxes and using them are aligned with the nature of the cat, so the cat naturally WANTS to use that option in most cases. Chasing squirrels is a dog's nature. NOT chasing squirrels is counter to that nature, so it is something that has to be regularly reinforced. Your logic is not sound. They are not the same thing. quote:
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consensual can sometimes be tricky No it's not. Agreed. Your example is consent, and perhaps the person who does things "to be liked" should stop putting their expectations on people. quote:
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact Fast reply. If I were a female submissive, I think I'd be insulted with this post. The "oh, I consented, but I had sex in hopes the person would like me" stuff should make self respecting f /s-type folks sick. Or anyone who CARES about consent. Does a TOP want that shit? No. Just No. Enthusiastic consent is required. VERY enthusiastic, for me. quote:
ORIGINAL: kaleidoscopekink im curious about those who keep insisting "consent" is simple/"not rocket science" etc esp as it is even becoming seen as far more complex in the "vanilla" world so that many colleges & universities in the usa are struggling with policies/classes/etc to ensure folks are on the same page. hell, even legally speaking there's been plenty of blurred lines! again, im not saying All newbies (or abuse survivors) are challenged by this; however blanketly denying it might be a nuanced topic seems to do very little to help anyone & potentially more than a bit to harm some. It is simple for us. "Do you want this?" "Ohhh yes." "How much do you want this?" "So much." "Tell me. Make me believe it." *begging and pleading commences* Yup. Consent is simple. Especially when you only want enthusiastic consent.
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