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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 9:37:12 AM

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My concern with this thread is not with the OP and their knowledge level , they( you) are asking all the right questions and thats a good thing.
My question / concern is for the submissive in this relationship, How does she know what she wants, if you both are in this isolated small community- guess what its not so isolated and small and my guess is there are a lot more then just the two of you there, its just a little harder to find then looking on the surface.
Anyway my concern and issue here is what does the submissive partner want. and how do they know they want what you are giving.
A masochist they may not be. One who is kinky and wants to do "dirty" things perhaps. I think you both are trying to find out whoand what you both are and want and that indeed is a GOOD thing. but please do not use anything on her that you do not KNOW about and have tried on yourself to some extent to see the reaction of that toy. One of the worst things you can do is to do something with them and have a violently negative result that will harm both of you.

Some of the most kinky toys imaginable can be found in the kitchen, heck there are 101 things you can do with one toothpick.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 6:35:32 PM

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Hello,

This board is so full of knowledge, that to look at a topic this important - you may be selling your self and your sub short by only reading this thread. I would suggest you BOTH look at whatever topic together by checking the archives...for example if you want to look at hot wax just go to the archives and type in hot wax. This way you can both learn, grow, and DISCUSS whatever topic interests the both of you.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 6:52:44 PM

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(smile) great answers!! I think he is very fortunate that you were here for his questions.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 6:56:50 PM

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Cin,

It was not my intent to negate your thoughtful comments, I hope it was not taken that way.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 7:13:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: SweetSerendipity

Cin,

It was not my intent to negate your thoughtful comments, I hope it was not taken that way.

(smile) I dont want to get caught in a loop here, but please dont think it was your post that prompted mine. I read the OP and and my mind went blank as to what to say to him. cin just knew what to say and gave me one of those forehead slapping "of course" moments.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/22/2006 7:20:54 PM

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ROFL...love that totally unreal statement about how conservative you think where you come from is....georgia has one huge lifestyle community...there are munch groups everywhere...and some great stores to shop in and yup..you got it..dungeons to play in...there is a bdsm mentoring group in the north georgia area..you can sign up with them..and be assigned a mentor to help you learn what you are doing ...
sitting at your computer asking for people to tell you things to do and free places to read stuff stuff isnt going to teach you anything....you need to learn from real people..and there are tons of bdsm'ers in this state.
but personally i think you sound too naive to actually be of legal age..and its entirely possible that the roommates are parents...

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/23/2006 4:10:23 AM

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Nalta,

As MistressKoda said, there are a great many BDSM groups in Georgia who would be more than willing to help you. Some may require that you be 21, any age requirement will be in their by-laws.

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RE: a brand new pain lover......my massacist (help) - 7/23/2006 8:38:38 PM

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well.......if you say so then I suppose it cant hurt to at least look. I'll try to find one. and a bit of an update. turns out the girl I'm talking about dosent like pain, I tried a few of the ideas and she didnt like it. turns out she likes the humiliation (sp) aspect alot more. (thank god)

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