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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/22/2016 3:30:52 AM

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mine is 25 years older and we are still together, so I don't put too much into studies.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/29/2016 11:50:21 PM

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I'm 45 years old and will only consider an older man. Not MUCH older, cos...c'mon. But the fifties bracket would be perfect for me. Of course that makes it more difficult but what do we achieve with easy?

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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/30/2016 11:05:12 PM

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"It seems that many Master seem to like younger subs. I mean not all but many seem to do."
"...my question is it harder to find a Dom as you get older? Or am i mistaken.?"

In general, I think those that chase young skirts are "skin deep"kind of guys and you aren't missing much as you grow older. Don't get me wrong, for some people there are some emotionally appealing attributes about being young, but I don't think that's the rule of thumb.

For me age has never been a barrier or an enticement. It's all about someone's spirit. My ex is 14 years older than me. My slave is 10 years younger. In the past 10 years my partners/companions have been from 18 years old to 70 years old.

I don't think age is a big deal. However, if you think age is a big deal, then it probably will be.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/30/2016 11:52:59 PM

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I agree with RS on this.............compatibility on a number of inner levels is much more important than age or looks etc.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/31/2016 12:27:31 AM

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my ex sub was 8 years younger, my husband is 16 years older.
a submissive im talking to now is in his 30s, Im 54, but im not looking for another "soulmate".

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RE: Older, Younger? - 7/31/2016 1:34:08 PM

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My late dom was 11 years older than me - and the bastard died on me.
My sweetie is a year younger.

When I was looking after my dom died, I refused to look at any profiles of men more than 5 years older than me. I wanted to maximize the changes of him not dying before me again - and I still didn't have any trouble meeting men , especially given my advanced age

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I would hazard a guess that kinky women of any age wouldn't have any problem finding men.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/1/2016 5:54:58 AM

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My late dom was 11 years older than me - and the bastard died on me.
My sweetie is a year younger.

When I was looking after my dom died, I refused to look at any profiles of men more than 5 years older than me. I wanted to maximize the changes of him not dying before me again - and I still didn't have any trouble meeting men , especially given my advanced age .

I would hazard a guess that kinky women of any age wouldn't have any problem finding men.

The problem lies in finding DECENT men, same as genuine guys looking for decent girls, lol.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/2/2016 2:27:24 PM

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98% of the men I met up with were nice men. I had no problems with people being weird, stalkery or just odd.

I would hazard a guess that the fact that I wanted to meet up with them really quickly - like within a few weeks of starting to talk to them online - may have had something to do with it. If you aren't genuine, you wouldn't want real time, you would want phone or online so you could get your wank material without any commitment.

or maybe I was just lucky, but I think that I couldn't been THAT lucky.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/2/2016 3:30:19 PM

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I have met no one from here to gurgle my cock..because there is no-one to et y huge meat

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/11/2016 8:14:10 AM

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More like nobody that wants to be anywhere near someone who talks like that, lol.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/13/2016 3:14:29 PM

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i tend to not look at the age of an adult woman. if she is able to communicate her wants and needs that is enough for me when they are the same as mine.

if you found the one you want, keep him.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 8/17/2016 3:09:31 PM

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It seems that many Master seem to like younger subs. I mean not all but many seem to do.

Tragically, there exists an entire generation of millennial females raised on porn that seem to have Daddy fetishes.
What a fucking shame that is.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/15/2016 8:22:27 PM

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I am 17 years senior to my sub and it works well. However, i dont think you should look at the age gap or the individuals age. Just like there are different levels of subs, slaves and ... i feel you will be able to find another. However, this site is bad. Well bad for Doms. I have yet to find a true sub/slave. Each time i reach out to someone they send a message indicating they need money. About to shut my profile down and give up.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/15/2016 9:00:09 PM

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More like nobody that wants to be anywhere near someone who talks like that, lol.

I just found the hide feature!
Lol

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/15/2016 9:01:26 PM

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I am 17 years senior to my sub and it works well. However, i dont think you should look at the age gap or the individuals age. Just like there are different levels of subs, slaves and ... i feel you will be able to find another. However, this site is bad. Well bad for Doms. I have yet to find a true sub/slave. Each time i reach out to someone they send a message indicating they need money. About to shut my profile down and give up.

If you have a sub you enjoy already why not ask her to help you find another?

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/17/2016 9:59:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

for me it's not age, it's how many years of experience in BDSM, I would prefer at least 5 years experience, I'm getting too dang old to teach newbie Dominants. Right now I'm with an older Dominant, I almost left the relationship and thought if I did decide to do that would I keep looking for another one or just give up all together.

I couldn't be with a Dom that i had to teach.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/17/2016 7:11:14 PM

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I've been with women 25 years younger than me. My sub Tasha is four years younger. If all I was looking for was great sex and play, I'd shoot for a hot young thing. But at my age, conversation and place in life matters a lot.

That's it. We're coming for that One Twue Dom Union Card.
Can't have any "Twue Doms" espousing such emotional tripe.
Sheesh.
And we trusted you and all.
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I couldn't relate to a woman who hasn't had a career, cared for a home, etc. And when I refer to things like the Silent Majority, Roe vs Wade, trickle down economics, and the Marx Bros, Tasha knows what I'm talking about.

"Hey Nineteen
No we can't dance together
No we can't talk at all
Please take me along
When you slide on down

Hey Nineteen
That's 'Retha Franklin
She don't remember
The Queen of Soul
It's hard times befallen
The sole survivors
She thinks I'm crazy
But I'm just growing old

Hey Nineteen
No we got nothing in common
No we can't talk at all
Please take me along
When you slide on down

The Cuervo Gold
The fine Colombian
Make tonight a wonderful thing "

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/17/2016 10:22:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22
it was very difficult to look for a replacement - not because there were a lack of men interested, but because I wanted them to do everything just the way he did.

I think this is also gonna be my biggest challenge. Especially after I met my flawlessly perfect compatibility.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/18/2016 5:24:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub22
it was very difficult to look for a replacement - not because there were a lack of men interested, but because I wanted them to do everything just the way he did.

I think this is also gonna be my biggest challenge. Especially after I met my flawlessly perfect compatibility.

Have to give up that ideal of flawless perfect compatibility - it isn't fair on the men that may be in contention as replacement. I had to consciously not compare to my late Sir, because I knew they couldn't be the same. I had to accept that my Sir was dead and I wasn't going to be able to replace him - I had to look for the things that I liked in the men I dated, and build on that. I found a man that was nothing like my Sir ( sadistic, not dominant, low key, not a leader) but a hell of a man. Its been 7 years and I am a very happy masochist.

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RE: Older, Younger? - 9/19/2016 7:55:29 PM

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I've read lots of ads from young (20s) female subs looking for Doms ages 40+. How much "+"? Would late sixties be too much "+" for a 23 year old sub? Same question for those sweet young subs who seek a Dom who is "much older". Would 70 be too much "much older" for a gal in her mid 20s?
I have always been attracted to women in their mid twenties, ever since puberty. As I have aged, it seems my preference for young women hasn't.

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