deadlyonear275 -> Question for female submissives about CS (8/4/2016 7:48:04 PM)
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So I was trying to get a feel for how successful Dominants are on CS in finding submissive and I ran into this blog: http://daddys-doll.blogspot.com/2015/03/single-for-day-finding-daddy-on.html. This was an interesting read. As a Dominant male on collarspace, and as a professional in real-life who deals a lot with numbers, it is pretty clear that if you are a genuine Dom seeking a submissive female, you are in for a rough ride (no pun intended). If every submissive female out there is being inundated with tons of "spam", then it is unlikely that they will ever find you. While this is not inspiring, it makes me feel less rejected because I can sympathize with the other side. I remember reading Jay Wiseman's book long ago stating that there are far more sub's than Dom's in the lifestyle; I guess things have …well…changed. I would prefer not to follow the herd by spamming every female in my geographic area and hope to actually get a response, that would make me part of the problem, and I also try to respect people’s time (yes I am a Dom and I respect subs, sorry if that sounds strange to some people). I am curious what do others think about this? I am also curious what female submissive have experienced on this site, and if any of them have actually made any progress on this site, or if they just get overwhelmed and well, leave. Thanks in advance for your feedback.
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