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LaTigresse -> RE: Mentors (7/22/2006 12:48:17 PM)
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Obviously we have another multiple personality poster but I will answer it for the hell of it anyway.
The "poor" behaviour in question might be looked at in a different light. I must say that I could be accused of such. Here is the reason why. I do not very often get alot of free, uninterupted computer time where I can focus completely on the issue at hand. It is very easy for me to bop in and out of my email or collarme while I am at work, read a few posts on the message boards, read a few emails, answer a few stupid ones quickly and then I usually get interupted by the phone, someone coming into the shop for help or one of the guys coming up to ask me a question. Even here at home there are times like now that I am distracted by things beyond my control.
For the replies that I feel require my full attention and some thought I often wait until I A.) know exactly WHAT I want to say and B.) I know I will not get interupted and therefor my train of thought interupted. All too often I have whipped off a quick email without doing those two things and hitting the send too quickly. Only to find later that I was misinterperated, feelings were hurt, and I have to try and explain what I REALLY meant.
I am not saying that this is the reason in this case but I just thought I would toss that out there as food for thought. It is really easy to assume why a person is acting the way they are but unless you come right out and ask them, it will just be an assumption and in my experience, probably wrong.
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