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HonorInSlavery -> question about contract provision (8/17/2016 8:25:14 AM)

Hi all and Dommes,

Very brief contract provision question.

In my contract with my Mistress, is a provision under the category of Mistress's rules of discipline, the first bullet point states, "slave will not invite or accept any act of discipline from anyone but Mistress. Any such attempts shall be brought to the attention of Mistress quickly as possible"

The follow on bullet, "in this area slave has Mistress expressed permission to resist such attempts by any at hand."

Could a Domme or experienced sub enlighten me as to the purpose of these 2 statements? By my own understanding i view this as no1, i am responsible to seek out another dominants discipline of me by getting satisfaction out of discipline in general, so i am naughty and break the rules on purpose. Discipline or punishment isn't my thing, i get much more satisfaction out of obedience and pleasing my Mistress, so i won't be going out to who're myself for discipline. The only other thing i can figure is that if i am lent to another Domme at a party, she doesn't have the right to discipline me if i inadvertently do something wrong or don't understand. i think it is probably also useful to prevent abuse at the hands of a Dominant who does not own me.

These 2 provisions i have seen standard in both my Mistress contract with me and a few sample contracts online.

Could anyone elaborate?
HIS



OsideGirl -> RE: question about contract provision (8/17/2016 8:31:29 AM)

I take that as:

1) You don't play with other people unless she says so

and

2) If someone else tries to pull the "I'm a Dom/me, you're a sub" card, you're expected to walk away and tell her about it.

You'd have to talk her about whether she means actual discipline or "funishment".



HonorInSlavery -> RE: question about contract provision (8/17/2016 8:47:03 AM)

Thanks.
2 quick grammatical corrections from my paragraph above...
A) slave has Mistress expressed permission to resist any such attempts by any means at hand
B) interpretation of the first rule, I said I am to seek out another Domme 's discipline, I meant to say I AM NOT to seek out.



HonorInSlavery -> RE: question about contract provision (8/17/2016 8:49:51 AM)

Thanks again Osi for the quick response, good to talk



Kana -> RE: question about contract provision (8/17/2016 3:06:32 PM)


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ORIGINAL: HonorInSlavery

Hi all and Dommes,

Very brief contract provision question.

In my contract with my Mistress, is a provision under the category of Mistress's rules of discipline, the first bullet point states, "slave will not invite or accept any act of discipline from anyone but Mistress. Any such attempts shall be brought to the attention of Mistress quickly as possible"

The follow on bullet, "in this area slave has Mistress expressed permission to resist such attempts by any at hand."

Could a Domme or experienced sub enlighten me as to the purpose of these 2 statements? By my own understanding i view this as no1, i am responsible to seek out another dominants discipline of me by getting satisfaction out of discipline in general, so i am naughty and break the rules on purpose. Discipline or punishment isn't my thing, i get much more satisfaction out of obedience and pleasing my Mistress, so i won't be going out to who're myself for discipline. The only other thing i can figure is that if i am lent to another Domme at a party, she doesn't have the right to discipline me if i inadvertently do something wrong or don't understand. i think it is probably also useful to prevent abuse at the hands of a Dominant who does not own me.

These 2 provisions i have seen standard in both my Mistress contract with me and a few sample contracts online.

Could anyone elaborate?
HIS

Yeah. Ask Her.
She knows exactly what she meant.
No one else does.
So seek clarity-go to the source.



YourSincereSlave -> RE: question about contract provision (9/9/2016 7:22:38 AM)

Yep, seems pretty clear.
Don't play with anyone else, and let her know if someone wants to play with you.
And if someone is REALLY insistent about playing with you, you'Re allowed "any means necessary" to get them off your back.
Of course, if someone was REALLY insistent about dominating someone else, it would be harassment so...


EDIT: What Kana said.



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