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The act of begging - 12/3/2004 5:03:23 PM

willing2serve

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The act of begging…imo, there are 3 types of begging:

1) Acting and role playing..
This is the type that I don’t want to get involved with. I can't do it unless it feels 100% from the heart...and it always feels a little forced to me. Just not a true feeling. I believe I haven't been taken deep enough to reach a state to beg.

I’ve been given one point of view that you should role play begging to get the mind use to it....agree or disagree?

2) something so intolerably painful that you'll do absolutely anything

I truly want to know what begging feels like…I have a desire to feel the mind and body giving up a beg. I want to be taken to my physical limits and only stop when I beg "prettily” enough.

I wonder if not being allowed to use the bathroom…while the body is given liquids and the mind is given thoughts of releasing..would that cause a true beg?

3) Begging for something pleasureable.
I believe it would be more difficult to beg for something pleasurable, finding that one thing that I desire ..finding something that feels good enough, that drives me mad with pleasure .

Just taking the one word “beg”… I have so many thoughts and questions:

Can you know of any other types of begging?

Would begging be a part of humiliation or limit testing?

What words would actually come to mind in a true beg…in role playing …all I can think of saying is please please please…what would be the bodies release of words in a true beg?…

Is there a difference between begging and pleading? When I think of pleading…I think of negotiations…appealing to one’s senses…

With a submissive begging to you as a Dom...what effect does that have on you personally? Would it depend on the type of begging?

If begging is pleasurable to you, is it the act itself, or the words used?

What are your thoughts on begging?

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RE: The act of begging - 12/3/2004 5:15:03 PM

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You might enjoy this thread:

do you ever have to beg?

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RE: The act of begging - 12/3/2004 7:09:11 PM

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This is my first post - I've been quietly reading the past few days and getting to know all of you. This topic is interesting for me as begging has been a challenge. I am sorry that my profile is not complete - it's forthcoming - I'm new - it takes a minute to get this "just right" I am sure even this response will be "all over" so please forgive me if I do the wrong thing.

I've only stepped up to say that when you are truly READY to beg for what you really want - there will be nothing that will stop the words from uttering from your throat - you will not have to ask anyone "What to say or How" it will simply happen - it's hard - I know - I'm still waiting - for total - what? I don't want to say surrender - submission - I like to think that I am there but I suppose I've got a long way to go - smiling - I remember the first time I was asked to "beg" it was a requirement - since I'm a singer I went home and found the sexiest song I could "I wouldn't beg for water - it says though that I'd get down on my knees for you" since then - it's months later and OMG I have begged - you see - I have had the one thing I desire more than anything - with held - for months - because I will not beg - so it's a challenge - only once (in July) was I lucky enough to get a taste - it took months to get to that day - and now - months later - I still have not mastered it - I have to Learn to beg - I'm really interested to hear what everyone has to say here - begging is not easy and it is a hard lesson to learn - one I am learning the hard way.

"Challenge is a dragon with a gift in its mouth....Tame the dragon and the gift is yours"

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RE: The act of begging - 12/3/2004 7:30:27 PM

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Thank you, Surenderedall. I am flattered that you chose your first post to give us your thoughts on begging. I still await the day in anticipation of a beg whether from pleasure or pain. So often we think of feeling things we can touch, like ice, instruments, wax. I often think about feeling the intangible things like fear, begging, and tears. Again, thank you for your insight.

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RE: The act of begging - 12/3/2004 7:44:04 PM

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quote:

I have had the one thing I desire more than anything - with held - for months - because I will not beg -

Welcome to the forums. Care to share what that "one thing" is, inquiring minds want to know.

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RE: The act of begging - 12/4/2004 1:20:36 AM

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welcome to the forums and collarme.com surrenderedAll... Its a blessing to have You post. Angel so agrees with you. Begging isnt something that can be put into words until it happens... and omg, its such a release... to be comfortable enough to be allowed to express in words and emotions and physical forms what you beg for... it is akin to being bound(in a way)... it is a time when everything is taken from you and your allowed to be exactly who you are... its only my personal point of view, but it is freeing. Angel is allowed to show her submission, her complete surrender, her awe, her place, herself is open, with the striving to be all that I can for Him... to please Him, to honour Him, to show Him all I am for Him.
oh sweet willing2serve, Angel apologises for going on and on... lol...

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RE: The act of begging - 12/4/2004 5:39:54 AM

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Hi A/all

lol I was typing my first response and my 'puter froze.. not good aaarrrggg!!!

anyways

willing2serve.. good topic and welcome Surrenderall

Begging......... hmmmmmm<grinz> something I like to hear. There is the tradional for one that's whinny, then there the sultry one, the teary one

( I will have to coma back and edit this) something to do bye for now

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RE: The act of begging - 12/4/2004 8:46:12 AM

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My opinion is this:
one whom * chooses*
to be slave * chooses*
to give up ALL. hence
ANYTHING be it online
or real life must be
asked for or *BEGGED*
for. There is no special
circumstance in which
begging is to come about
or be utilized. It is a natural
responce to needs and
if one has given up their
all in slavery then all needs
must be asked for or begged
for and this is not simply a
act but a reaction to a slaves
total subjudicated need.
Those whom stated that
they cannot do this or
cannot do that is simply
making a submissives jesture
which shows that they give
up nothing that must be
begged for in the first place.
Why would anyone have
any need to be begged for
be it online or real life if
they have all they need
by their own actions instead
of giving up those actions
to another to direct?
Am I making any sence here? JMO