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YourSincereSlave -> RE: Sub space (9/11/2016 10:00:29 AM)
People forget those warnings sometimes. Like I had a transplant and they warned me about a ton of stuff... but not about water retention. When I realized my ball sack was the size and weight of a small watermelon (I may be exaggerating, but not much) I had a panic attack. Not cool. So yeah, people forget things. I'm glad this was brought up anyway, now I know about it and what to do when it happens too!

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Sub space (9/12/2016 6:57:30 PM)
Had a big drop Sunday morning after meeting my Daddy's new girl Saturday and playing. Immediately texted Daddy and he let me talk to him about it. Saw him today and we just had a day of vanilla to help me recenter. I did his dishes, sewed some tears on his work clothes, he took us to the gym, then he made us lunch and we napped. He did all this without me even telling him I needed it. It was amazing. I'm incredibly lucky.

LilJuly76 -> RE: Sub space (9/13/2016 2:52:02 AM)
yeah subspace is wonderful, especially when your mind is just loopy, you're not thinking about anything at that moment but the drop is just a bitch.

Quixy -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 9:05:54 PM)
So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before

WickedsDesire -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 9:17:20 PM)
I will wager you are no women like 99.99% of the women on here

tamaka -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 9:55:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before Think about special things you could do for Him. Maybe look up recipes for a special dinner you could make him or some surprise dessert (cookies, etc). Go to the store, buy the ingredients and make it for Him. Or some craft idea of something you could make Him. Doing something for Him can help ease you back when He isn't around to help talk you down.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 10:15:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before Go to the local humane society and hug puppies or pet kitties. Always cheers me up. I volunteer there when I can.

Dvr22999874 -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 10:27:42 PM)
I know this sounds weird but try hugging a large teddy bear or similar. A sub I know and enjoy does that when I am not around to help and she says that it works very well.

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 10:32:20 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dvr22999874 I know this sounds weird but try hugging a large teddy bear or similar. A sub I know and enjoy does that when I am not around to help and she says that it works very well. Yes! A lovey helps big time if she's into that. Some people think it's too weird, but I hug my husband's pillow like that too.

LadyPact -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 11:46:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LilJuly76 did you let the person you played with know? it's their responsibility. No, it's really not if you haven't negotiated such. You would never push that kind of thing off on a vanilla hook up. People would be up in arms if a top and a bottom got together for pick up play on Saturday and the person on the top side still expected the 's' to serve them on Tuesday. I can almost smell my own flesh roasting now...

WickedsDesire -> RE: Sub space (10/2/2016 11:57:06 PM)
Idiots, liars and cheats have spoken to the extent I am a singular exemption.. Behold the cacophony of mess for they are lifestyle and the many (odd 99.99% have fuk all reality save mad waffle ad screaming incoherence) and it would appear I am the solitary one, with an actual realty

WickedsDesire -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 1:15:51 AM)
horshamwhore an utter fake mess of man in need of a non-handsome lobotomy, per chance could you loan me a rusty corkscrew – which is why I favor a verification system and in the current mode 99% plus would fail. I have issued 5 exemptions..I expect the 5 you to lead But an odd thing occurred to someone like me of reality and substance. All above me tolerated this man pretending to be a women Why?

shiftyw -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 4:20:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before Go to the local humane society and hug puppies or pet kitties. Always cheers me up. I volunteer there when I can. If I did this during drop- I'd end up with fifty dogs.

shiftyw -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 4:24:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire horshamwhore an utter fake mess of man in need of a non-handsome lobotomy, per chance could you loan me a rusty corkscrew – which is why I favor a verification system and in the current mode 99% plus would fail. I have issued 5 exemptions..I expect the 5 you to lead But an odd thing occurred to someone like me of reality and substance. All above me tolerated this man pretending to be a women Why? And yet after all the bitching you've done in the past six months- you are here still. Why?

Greta75 -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 6:53:50 AM)
FR I just realise why I get so down and depressed everytime after my best sex gotta leave for his work travels. It never occur to me, but I just realise, I've always reached sub space with him. I would definitely describe it as an out of body experience, euphoric and floating sensation, like your spirit has left your body. And you are just lost in another dimension. Our sex is kinda vanilla, so I never really associate it that way. But never underestimate pro-long hours of forced orgasms. I always thought it felt like severe addiction to him and withdrawal symptoms, but if it releases morphine-like chemicals into you, then no wonder there are withdrawals. I don't know how he can after care though. As usually, he has to fly off. And how can I after care myself from the drop. I don't think eating chocolate, hugging inanimate objects help at all.

Quixy -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 9:11:33 AM)
I don't recall asking you to guess my gender. I don't recall it being a prerequisite to asking for help or advise. I don't have any interest in finding someone to play with, as it says on my profile. I am only looking for friends and advice. What is or is not in my underwear isnt your concern unless there is a chance of it interacting with whatever is or is not in your underwear, which I assure you, there is no danger of that. I have a daddy, I had playtime, found subspace, and dropped hard. The subject here was how to deal with drop, and I hit this drop pretty hard. To those with suggestions, thank you! I appreciate each of those suggestions. I did end up snuggling a teddy bear and crying myself to sleep. I feel better this mornimg. To the azzhat trying to determine what is under my skirt: IT. IS. NONE. OF. YOUR. DAMNED. BUSINESS!

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 9:47:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shiftyw quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before Go to the local humane society and hug puppies or pet kitties. Always cheers me up. I volunteer there when I can. If I did this during drop- I'd end up with fifty dogs. Lol. Yea, wouldn't be a good idea fur you then.....Hehe fur.......

Greatlilbabygirl -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 9:50:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy I don't recall asking you to guess my gender. I don't recall it being a prerequisite to asking for help or advise. I don't have any interest in finding someone to play with, as it says on my profile. I am only looking for friends and advice. What is or is not in my underwear isnt your concern unless there is a chance of it interacting with whatever is or is not in your underwear, which I assure you, there is no danger of that. I have a daddy, I had playtime, found subspace, and dropped hard. The subject here was how to deal with drop, and I hit this drop pretty hard. To those with suggestions, thank you! I appreciate each of those suggestions. I did end up snuggling a teddy bear and crying myself to sleep. I feel better this mornimg. To the azzhat trying to determine what I was born with and what is between my thighs: IT. IS. NONE. OF. YOUR. DAMNED. BUSINESS! Don't let WD rattle you. He does that to everyone. Not that it excuses his reprehensible and largely incoherent behavior, but just know you don't need to take it personally. He's a nutter.

Quixy -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 10:04:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy I don't recall asking you to guess my gender. I don't recall it being a prerequisite to asking for help or advise. I don't have any interest in finding someone to play with, as it says on my profile. I am only looking for friends and advice. What is or is not in my underwear isnt your concern unless there is a chance of it interacting with whatever is or is not in your underwear, which I assure you, there is no danger of that. I have a daddy, I had playtime, found subspace, and dropped hard. The subject here was how to deal with drop, and I hit this drop pretty hard. To those with suggestions, thank you! I appreciate each of those suggestions. I did end up snuggling a teddy bear and crying myself to sleep. I feel better this mornimg. To the azzhat trying to determine what I was born with and what is between my thighs: IT. IS. NONE. OF. YOUR. DAMNED. BUSINESS! Don't let WD rattle you. He does that to everyone. Not that it excuses his reprehensible and largely incoherent behavior, but just know you don't need to take it personally. He's a nutter. Oh. Ok. Thank you. So he's the "Don't feed the troll" warning. I'll bear that in mind. :)

LadyPact -> RE: Sub space (10/3/2016 11:04:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy So, what do you do when Daddy isn't around/ available when you drop? How can I shake this? I don't think I've ever dropped this hard before I'm on the other side of the slash, but I heard of this idea a few years back, and I thought it was the smartest idea for those who don't live with their Dominant, engage in pick up play, etc. Create your own Single Subs Survivor kit. It's just this box that you create with the things inside it that make YOU feel better when you are experiencing drop. Some examples of things that other people have put in theirs are things like chocolate, a certain kind of bubble bath, a small bottle of wine... I know one guy who specifically buys himself a gift certificate to his local pizza place so he can just order in and watch B-rated comedy movies. (Great guy. Lousy taste in movies.) You never know. It might work for you. ETA, since you said this, I'll run with it. quote: ORIGINAL: Quixy I don't recall asking you to guess my gender. I don't recall it being a prerequisite to asking for help or advise. I don't have any interest in finding someone to play with, as it says on my profile. I am only looking for friends and advice. What is or is not in my underwear isnt your concern unless there is a chance of it interacting with whatever is or is not in your underwear, which I assure you, there is no danger of that. I have a daddy, I had playtime, found subspace, and dropped hard. The subject here was how to deal with drop, and I hit this drop pretty hard. To those with suggestions, thank you! I appreciate each of those suggestions. I did end up snuggling a teddy bear and crying myself to sleep. I feel better this mornimg. To the azzhat trying to determine what is under my skirt: IT. IS. NONE. OF. YOUR. DAMNED. BUSINESS! Just in my experience, female bottoms are the ones more likely to have drop hit them two or three days later. Male bottoms, if they are the type of person to get drop at all, are the cliche of "right away or within a day" (within 24 hours of play).

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