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Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 4:14:44 AM   
stephanie98


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Please help. Yes am a closeted sissy, have many outfits, bought online, but wanting the humiliation of real life shopping. For my first outing(the perfect scenario), this sissy wants to be led into a lingerie selection dressed as a man and led in by a female. looking to be fitted for a bra(by sales staff) and would like to bring my breast forms with me for the fitting and to be fitted for other items as well. Then made to model the look for them. Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,
Thank you,
stephanie
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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 4:24:53 AM   
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Stephanie, how do you *feel* about people coming into your workplace, with their self-centered bullsh^t to mess up your day?



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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 5:29:31 AM   
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Status: offline 		Stephanie, LadyPact kinda explained why you might be having trouble finding someone to help you out.

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 5:38:32 AM   
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Status: offline 		Stephanie, the sales clerk in the store hasn't given consent to be part of your kink scenario. You should never force your kink on anyone who has not consented to be part of your fetish.

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 8:53:16 AM   
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Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,



Because it's fucking rude. You're forcing some minimum wage, most likely young woman to deal with your kink and participate in your humiliation without her consent. Use your fucking head instead of your dick to think these things out.


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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 9:05:19 AM   
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Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,


. Use your fucking head instead of your dick to think these things out.


I thought the dick was the fucking head!

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 9:30:20 AM   
WickedsDesire


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Society rejects you. You are deemed in-between, the in-between. Is that fair or correct - that would take me a chapter to answer.

At best go shopping with a friend, someone from a club or munch

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 9:30:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stephanie98

Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,


. Use your fucking head instead of your dick to think these things out.


I thought the dick was the fucking head!

not always..... NSFW prepare for shock! lol , not for the weak hearted, but makes me laugh every time, sorry I am in a sick mood today.
http://www.xvideos.com/video456161/worlds_biggest_vagina_where_guy_insert_his_head



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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/29/2016 9:44:00 AM   
WickedsDesire


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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/31/2016 3:25:20 AM   
iwearpanties


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I fully agree with all the replies / responses. Sadly some will never get it you can't push on to others what you want ! This is the biggest reason why so many of us get rejected here when someone comes in with there fantasy thrills then gets upset doesn't return when there told the proper way and the most sensible ways to go about this !

Thank you all for being here . I have been quite for many years only posting once every so often since I saw a post long ago where CDs/ crossers where kinda told in some nice way most here are not into them ! But I look in form time time then I see a post like this and it's sends us rite back to back of the line


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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 8/31/2016 6:38:32 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: stephanie98

Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,



Because it's fucking rude. You're forcing some minimum wage, most likely young woman to deal with your kink and participate in your humiliation without her consent. Use your fucking head instead of your dick to think these things out.


Even worse than that, a few of the chains will fire staff they catch selling to crossdressers. I really don't think you'd want that on your conscience, Stephanie.

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/1/2016 3:48:12 AM   
Shandirra


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Status: offline 		@OP - If I caught you imposing your fetish upon unsuspecting individuals in public, I'd call security and have your dumb ass thrown out. Life is NOT about satisfying your fantasy at the expense of others. Grow the fuck up, stop thinking with your dick and leave fetish play to home or at an appropriate club with likewise consenting adults.

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I really don't think you'd want that on your conscience, Stephanie.

You are of course assuming this dipshit has a conscience...


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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/1/2016 4:31:10 AM   
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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/1/2016 10:33:10 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: WhoreMods


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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: stephanie98

Make my purchase and leave. Am having trouble trying to find someone to help out with this,



Because it's fucking rude. You're forcing some minimum wage, most likely young woman to deal with your kink and participate in your humiliation without her consent. Use your fucking head instead of your dick to think these things out.


Even worse than that, a few of the chains will fire staff they catch selling to crossdressers. I really don't think you'd want that on your conscience, Stephanie.

I have a friend that owns a bridal shop.

They are more than happy to schedule an after hours appointment for crossdressers with a particular salesperson who is tolerant ...if they call ahead.

But, they do NOT take it kindly when someone shows up, upsets the staff and the other customers. And trust me, the women who work there don't think it's fun when a crossdresser shows up. It leaves them embarrassed, uncomfortable and humiliated.

But CDs like the OP are more fixated on their dicks than being a good human being.

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/9/2016 1:15:13 AM   
LadyDemura


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Even worse than that, a few of the chains will fire staff they catch selling to crossdressers. I really don't think you'd want that on your conscience, Stephanie.


I find that highly unlikely, and probably would open them up to lawsuits if they didn't make the sale, in the more liberal states. The line between crossdresser and transgender is sometimes a bit blurry.

I say go for it, but don't expect someone here to come with...I might, but I dislike that you think this should be a humiliating experience. I just do things like this because men's clothing is ugly, as is everything about masculinity. Why society thinks it's nothing short of disgusting I will never understand...

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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/9/2016 3:08:05 AM   
Shandirra


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I find that highly unlikely, and probably would open them up to lawsuits if they didn't make the sale, in the more liberal states.

Obviously, you've never been inside one of these establishments. They'd lose a lot more business if they allowed cross dressers or transgender individuals to practice their fetish inside.

Now, an adult supply shop with a lingerie section? A lot more likely to be receptive to special snowflakes out for a thrill. It takes a certain tolerance to work in that industry and they'll have thicker skins to deal with the fallout.

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I say go for it...


@OP - Don't follow this advice. Just. Don't. do. it. EVER.


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RE: Closeted sissy needs help/advice 1st time shopping - 9/9/2016 11:46:34 AM   
OsideGirl


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I find that highly unlikely, and probably would open them up to lawsuits if they didn't make the sale, in the more liberal states.
Not everyone is in the States.

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I say go for it


Yeah, don't "go for it". Making people participate your kink without their permission is just wrong.


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