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Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 1:58:25 PM

CinD

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Recently I had a professional photography take some photographs where I looked amazing perfect lighting the works. Then he took pictures Of a bdsm natures where I'm tied up and giving him head. I'm torn whether to post those on here or Fet as I feel it makes me look like I'm owned or do Doms find girls in photos like that a little to real? What's your honest opinion when you see that type of photography? Would you date that girl? Thanks

RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 2:07:40 PM

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Too real. I don't mind the tied up part, but the head part is too much. Never agree to on-camera sex with a photographer unless he's your partner or he's paying you REALLY REALLY well.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 2:14:43 PM

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It's funny that those are your concerns.

When you post pictures of a sexual act, they are out there for the whole world to see (and steal).

You're also telling people how to treat you. If you're just here to get laid - then the photos are great. If you're here looking for a relationship, you're going to find that you get treated as booty call because of the photos. Leave a little to the imagination.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 3:25:15 PM

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the fact she gave a photographer some head tells me a lot of what she thinks BDSM is

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 4:03:53 PM

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the fact she gave a photographer some head tells me a lot of what she thinks BDSM is

How so?

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 4:16:15 PM

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just sex

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 5:05:57 PM

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Why is the board always slut shaming? Let the slut flag fly!!

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 5:17:25 PM

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just sex

You can't give head and understand BDSM?

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 6:10:50 PM

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just sex

You can't give head and understand BDSM?

Hahaha, for real. That's just ridiculous.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 6:34:33 PM

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Actually I like giving head but that's not the question. I wanted to know what Men think when they see that in a girls profile.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 7:33:34 PM

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Actually I like giving head but that's not the question. I wanted to know what Men think when they see that in a girls profile.

They think, this chick gives head.
Men aren't that complicated

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 8:02:53 PM

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What's your honest opinion when you see that type of photography? Would you date that girl? Thanks

I should first mention that as a switch, I cannot speak for male doms.

You are 48, within our age demographics, and even if men are not all that complicated, most within our age group would not hesitate to "date" you in the hopes of getting a blowjob, since that is what you would be giving out as your personal ad to fuel their hook-up fantasies.

Point is, men are men, and IMO if you present yourself like a sex object, then that is how you are going to get treated.

(By the same token, guys who lead with their kinky sex/fetish foot first are normally viewed as *do-me* subs by femdoms, and do not get taken seriously much, including those who parade their dickpics around.
The difference is, those kinds of simpleminded guys only want to get their foot in the door and usually do not care whether they get used and then discarded like a piece of trash afterwards -- some of them get off on the thought of being treated badly by women.)

You might just as well sign up on that FWB fuckfinder vanilla sex site, in that case. You do not need a dominant male/daddydom or BDSM Top to not take you seriously as steady gf relationship material -- most any shallow dude will do.

If that is what you want, then you go, girl ....

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 9:15:53 PM

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My first impression when I see professionally done photos (regardless of what you're actually doing in them) is that the profile is either:

A) Nigerian Scammer #861824345 (vaguely porny photos or just professional looking photos)

or

B) Dude pretending to be a woman #2106348 (any pro photo of a sex act)

Second impressions can certainly overcome first impressions, but you only get one chance to make a first impression.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 8/31/2016 9:34:34 PM

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I seriously doubt that your definition of "professional photographer" would match up with mine.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/1/2016 3:05:18 AM

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you say it better for sure

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/4/2016 12:20:14 PM

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From my perspective, I'd find it pretty off-putting, and it would spoil an otherwise pretty nifty profile.

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/5/2016 3:47:50 AM

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Awww, ML, be easy.
I think she needs to send us copies first so we can vet the shot and independently confirm if its post worthy or not.

Oh, and she should be sure to include name, address, contact details and bank account data on the back of said shots...you know, just in case :-)

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/5/2016 4:59:34 AM

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My first impression when I see professionally done photos (regardless of what you're actually doing in them) is that the profile is either:

A) Nigerian Scammer #861824345 (vaguely porny photos or just professional looking photos)

or

B) Dude pretending to be a woman #2106348 (any pro photo of a sex act)

Second impressions can certainly overcome first impressions, but you only get one chance to make a first impression.

That is definitely an issue with some of the profiles on here, sadly. Some people can't even be bothered to strip the watermarkls from the photos they've pinched from Suicide Girls and Blueblood...

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/5/2016 5:44:27 AM

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You see Kana, that is why you're Kana and I'm ML... you think these things through

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RE: Should I post a pic - 9/5/2016 8:24:33 AM

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Recently I had a professional photography take some photographs where I looked amazing perfect lighting the works. Then he took pictures Of a bdsm natures where I'm tied up and giving him head. I'm torn whether to post those on here or Fet as I feel it makes me look like I'm owned or do Doms find girls in photos like that a little to real? What's your honest opinion when you see that type of photography? Would you date that girl? Thanks

Women who post profile pictures of themselves giving head look crass and desperate. Whenever I see that, I think she's a desperate slut who is in no way worthy of any investment of time or emotional energy.

If you want to get fucked, then post them. If you want a more meaningful interaction then burn them.

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