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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/9/2016 8:01:10 PM

Alecta

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Aw, you were supposed to say yes, damnit, that would have scared them all away

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/9/2016 8:08:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

Not IP tracking, no.

But think about this -
A new person comes to the forums with a very individual problem.
Not unique, but certainly a very individual set of circumstances.
She argues the toss with everyone for about 300 posts.
She stops responding on that other thread and opens another.
Basically the same thing but phrased slightly differently.
200 posts later, she disappears.
Suddenly, the old profile vanishes and we have a brand new poster with a virtually identical profile and responding in pretty much the same way with the same sort of phrases with an identical scenario.

Think about it. Seriously give it some thought.
What's the chances of that hapening with two completely different people??
It's beyond coincidence and someone called her out on it.
So now she's wanting to back out again.

Not the same person?? I very much doubt it.
It's the same person pretending to be someone else.

Can I ask how the profiles were the same? I never got to see the OP'S.
And I don't appreciate getting the piss taken out on me for something someone else did. I just found this site yesterday and thought it'd be a good place to learn some stuffs and make friends. I just want to get along. :( What do I need to do? I'm not the OP, I promise. I'd like to have a positive experience here
Thanky Thanks! I apologize if I did anything wrong
I'm still learning

Edit: oopsie typo

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/9/2016 8:23:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

It is fruitful here to say that I respect Oside a great deal.

Thank you for that. It made me smile.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 5:13:20 AM

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it's her isn't it? I was thinking it was her when I looked at her profile, the same age, both supposed little's, both have daddy's, both have a similar circumstance, this one signed up yesterday and the other one disappears? she must be learning from WD.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 5:20:13 AM

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I asked her two things but she didn't even answer them.

1. Hubby gave you the ok to explore BDSM, but did he say "yes dear by all means sleep with other people?" (I believe he might have gave her the ok to explore BDSM but I don't think he would give her the ok to sleep with other people)

2. What is BDSM?

the fact she ignored both these questions, the second I always ask Dominants or people that say they are Dominant that contact me online, what is BDSM, she didn't bother replying so it says to me she knows dick shit, she knows she wants a guy or a woman to tell her what to do in bed, that's what she wants and to me that's cheating on your husband but what the heck do I know? my parents cheated on each other, the four years they were married.

and now she invents a new name to boot, wonder how many she'll keep coming up with.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 5:23:36 AM

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I'm with the others, I do believe you are the OP, you both seem to be in a V relationship as well.

*also you asked how the OP's and yours profile is the same:

1. both 33
2. both married
3. both husbands say you can explore BDSM
4. both sleeping with other people besides your hubby
5. both in V situations
6. she already met the other submissive and hates her, you apparently are meeting the other submissive so we will see if you still hate her.
7. you are both littles
9. you both have daddy's

now we will see if you come back and act like how you did before, or is your other persona going to act like a grown up, in which case I will call you sybil.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 6:55:43 AM

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Weird.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 6:57:09 AM

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And my husband and I do bdsm together as well. I'm a switch with him. Hehe. Did the OP switch with her hubby, because that would just be too freaky deaky

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 7:00:29 AM

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And I didn't intend on getting involved in someone else's drama, I don't like drama. So again I apologize. I'm still confused and now a bit freaked out. Yikes!

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 7:56:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aquanerd1983

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ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

It was at the start of her first thread.

I'm damned glad she doesn't live anywhere near me!
I'd be going round ALL the local munches and clubs and forewarning everyone.

You wouldn't be able to recognize me.
I'm a good obedient baby girl in public

My head and heart get me all emotional sometimes. But I don't embarrass Daddy in public

no you embarrass him here , i guess that is ok huh?

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 8:00:17 PM

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hm maybe she is rare one? she might be a DID "Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID) Multiple Personality Disorder

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 8:12:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aquanerd1983

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ORIGINAL: LilJuly76

holy crap, I think I missed the comment about her "daddy"not being into BDSM, well that would explain a lot if he's not Dominant, he's not into BDSM, she is like I told her using BDSM as a tool to get kinky sex. I have came across a lot of men that do the same thing that she is doing. And I sincerely hope within the local BDSM community that she gets a bad rap, then maybe she'll finally learn not to misuse something she knows nothing about.

You are so easily confused
My husband isn't into BDSM
Daddy and I are active in the local community and members of our dungeon.
Again, you make silly statements and have trouble with reading comprehension.

i just read back to this post and something puzzles me about it, you claim you and your daddy are active in your local dungeon, i would like to know what dungeon you speak of and the members you know in it? I am sure there is someone here who knows that dungeon and if so perhaps they can vouge for you

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 8:57:45 PM

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Mark your calendars, folks.

Not only did LP figure out something on the internet, she is ALSO choosing not to be a dick about it.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/10/2016 10:09:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Mark your calendars, folks.

Not only did LP figure out something on the internet, she is ALSO choosing not to be a dick about it.

um LP did i miss something?

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/11/2016 3:17:45 AM

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I think what LP means is she figured out the OP and Greatlilbabygirl are one in the same. I was getting suspicious when this one popped up, I looked at her profile and had the same earmarks as the OP, plus the OP seems to be gone. and LP says she is going to be gracious about the multiple identities. I'm holding my tongue for now with both identities.

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/11/2016 11:10:13 AM

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ah i thought maybe she was going on the possible tangent that i might be the OP as well . i was going to to her in private message no i am not i do have 2 other accounts that i closed down because of one reason or another they did not properly asses who i am in general and they made more issues then positive ones they were Corinthians 1:1:7 and Lookin4Lace in case any are concerned with them

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/11/2016 11:21:33 AM

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I'm still waiting for greatlilbabygirl to come back to see the show

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RE: Accepting the other woman when you don't like her - 9/11/2016 3:45:14 PM

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