Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? Page: <<   < prev  3 4 5 [6] 7   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/10/2016 5:07:33 PM   
Greta75


Posts: 9968
Joined: 2/6/2011
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: KitsapReign
Women want their wedding ring - it's the symbol of their worth, how much they can whore themselves for.

False, I never had a wedding ring for my x-marriage, because I hate jewellery and didn't want any! I do not own a single piece of jewellery and tell all men to never give me jewellery as I do not like it and will not wear it. My x-husband knows that what I value most is his time for me, and not his material gifts.

quote:

Women want financial security. Men want financial security too, but they dont' go around picking their mates based on her income do they?

Where I come from, my job security becomes close to zero IF I choose to have a family. So it is important for the man to be financially secured when children comes into play, as I may not be able to find any decent paying job IF I chose to have a family. Most employers don't want women who got baggages of kids to take care of. Whereas, they prefer a man with family, because, they feel, usually children trouble, the woman will take care of it. And the man will be more focus on work, because of his family, whereas a woman will be more absent from work because of her family. Realities of life that women are disadvantaged in the job market because of children. Many women around here loses their job because they get pregnant. And job interviews always ask you if you are family planning, and trust me, if you say YES to that question. They will never hire you. If you say NO to that question, and you get pregnant. They fire you for giving false information.

quote:

They'd be fucking that really nice guy with the fat gut but the heart as big as the world. Nope, only if that guy with the fat gut and the big heart has a fat pocketbook to go with it.

Again you are 100% wrong! I have always fucked the nice fat guy with a gut. I love overweight men. I absolutely love them and it's a pre-requisite! Considering I married a man who made less money than me and turn down a rich kid's proposal, I don't think any of what you said is relevant. I chose based on nice overweight guy with a good heart. But I chose never to have kids with him, because I know he could never financially support our family. And I can't do well in my job if I gotta worry about kids too. And he would never want to be the house husband.


< Message edited by Greta75 -- 9/10/2016 5:13:57 PM >

(in reply to KitsapReign)
Profile   Post #: 101
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 9:35:35 AM   
Awareness


Posts: 3918
Joined: 9/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta


The hunter bring the food back to the tribe, which is women, children, other men, and other hunters, gatherers, producers, artisans etc., and they all eat. Interestingly, the majority of man's diet back then was not the product of hunting, but of gathering, which was produced primarily by women, being a task that can be performed around the challenges and restrictions presented by their children. It was not the nesters who flocked around the strong hunter, it was the other way around - the hunters offered themselves to the nesters, to become part of the tribe for the myriad advantages - yes, sex, but more importantly, varied diet, social interaction, the benefits of various skills cultivated in the tribe (if Tommy doesn't have to worry about hunting enough food everyday to survive, Tommy can spend his time learning medicine), including creating higher yields and efficiency in hunting (being able to preserve the uneaten parts of that deer you shot today means you can still have deer next week when you don't catch anything).
I find that FUCKING unlikely, given a bowhead whale can feed a tribe of Inuit for a year. Not to mention the skills needed for hunting were also those skills needed for protection because, strange as it may seem, the ancient world was something of a hostile place with predators in the form of animals and other tribes.

quote:


Women did not flock to the greatest hunters, they went to the men whose skill was the greatest contribution to the tribe, and each tribe at different times, have different priorities. Say the tribe's focus is expanding population. The most popular men would be those with a track record of producing multiple births. Or the tribe wants to up it's hunting power, so the women flock to the strongest, in order to produce strong children, who can then be trained to become strong and skilled hunters. If the tribe worships knowledge, it would be the cleverest or most learned men. And as a coincidental consequence of this focus, that wise man, strong man, fertile man, because society values him for his wisdom, strength or virility, therefore becomes "rich".

Nonsense. Utter fucking bilge. You're presupposing a level of consideration and hive-mind thinking in women's decisions about who they fuck which is completely untenable.

Mind you, I suppose it continues the delusion of women's choice in these matters, but it doesn't make it any less a bunch of utter horseshit. Women's attraction to men is based on evolutionary survival characteristics, because the women who didn't instinctively select for those characteristics had bloodlines which died out. Men select for fecundity and health which is why a well-proportioned female form and long hair are characteristics of attraction to this day. Women select - still - for survival characteristics. Social dominance and strength.

That's evolution in action, right there.

quote:


But I can see where one might think that it was the "rich" part that attracted the women; and to be fair, we are in an age where the societal focus had been on the "rich man" as opposed to the virile, wise or strong.
No. Rich men have the ability to provide and women will happily partake of that - although they will cheat with other men.

quote:

The reason this model no longer holds true is that our society has changed. We are so many in a tribe and the tribe's needs are so vast and many that we are no longer restricted by the urgent tribal needs to take on specific roles, hone certain skills, or produce young that hold specific genetic attributes with the same urgency and pressures as in the hunter-gatherer days.
Changing society doesn't change our instincts. While a small minority of people are focused laser-like on one particular attribute (your gold-diggers and your men looking for trophy wives) for the vast majority, attraction is not a choice. And our attraction isn't based on rational thought.

quote:


The question of whether male humans are better equipped to hunt is very much arguable.
No. It's not. Most men possess skills which the average woman does not. Mainly targeting, judging distances, velocities and the ability to rotate objects inside our head. It's why we can read a map without rotating it, why our ability to drive is much better than yours (women can't judge gaps in traffic to save their life) and why the primary focus of our recreational games and sports involves targeting. Golf, football, cricket, darts, fucking lawn bowls, hockey and so on.

There are outliers of course, but they're a vast minority. 99% of air-traffic controllers are men because we can think in 3D. Women not so much. 99% of translators are women, because women can talk and listen at the same time.

quote:


It does, in a large part, depend on what you are hunting, and yes, female hunters have a striking disadvantage in general by way of menstruation (smelling of blood), there is no credible means of generalising male humans as better equipped to hunt -- they are more commonly relegated to the role of hunting because traditionally society had always valued a woman's ability to procreate over any other of her abilities (tell me that's not true the next time you mom pesters you about giving her a grandson more than she does about your next career promotion heh).
It's not their only disadvantage. Aside from the aforementioned (targeting is usually kind of important when you hunt), it's their lack of strength and stamina. Driving a spear with sufficient speed into the body of an animal takes strength. Running after an animal until it dies of heat exhaustion requires stamina. Shutting the fuck up, while you wait the necessary hours for the optimal conditions requires the ability to shut the fuck up. Women simply don't possess these attributes.

_____________________________

Ever notice how fucking annoying most signatures are? - Yes, I do appreciate the irony.

(in reply to Alecta)
Profile   Post #: 102
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 11:10:23 AM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Numerans
You know, you do have a point there and I try to pick up those things anyway, but isn't there always a store open somewhere now if you have the munchies or want to stock up on some single item.



If you live in the city, yes. Not if you live out in the country several miles from town.

If you shop when you're hungry, without a list, you spend more and buy tons of junk food.

Most people get paid on Friday and shop in the day or two after. Because of that, stores mark down foods on Wednesday evening after 9:00 PM. And restock the shelves Thursday. If you shop Wednesday evening or Thursday morning the store is empty and you save money.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to Numerans)
Profile   Post #: 103
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 12:22:50 PM   
crazyml


Posts: 5568
Joined: 7/3/2007
Status: offline
Nifty explanation of why women, in certain geographies and contexts would have chosen partners in the stone age.

You're aware that some time has passed since then, I am sure?

_____________________________

Remember.... There's always somewhere on the planet where it's jackass o'clock.

(in reply to Awareness)
Profile   Post #: 104
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 2:03:15 PM   
Shandirra


Posts: 196
Joined: 11/28/2007
From: NYC
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml
Nifty explanation of why women, in certain geographies and contexts would have chosen partners in the stone age.
You're aware that some time has passed since then, I am sure?

Look who you're asking... Should be self evident.


_____________________________

Life shouldn't be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly shouting..."Wow! What a ride!

(in reply to crazyml)
Profile   Post #: 105
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 5:44:58 PM   
YourSincereSlave


Posts: 82
Joined: 7/29/2016
Status: offline
I love how this thread is full of opinions stated as facts.
Men and Women are very much alike in that regard. ;)

(in reply to Shandirra)
Profile   Post #: 106
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 5:53:42 PM   
dcnovice


Posts: 37282
Joined: 8/2/2006
Status: offline
FR

Apologies if someone's posted this before.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcpwuK1Fmxhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EcpwuK1Fmx4

_____________________________

No matter how cynical you become,
it's never enough to keep up.

JANE WAGNER, THE SEARCH FOR SIGNS OF
INTELLIGENT LIFE IN THE UNIVERSE

(in reply to YourSincereSlave)
Profile   Post #: 107
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 6:12:22 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
The link says 'this video is unavailable', dc ....

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to dcnovice)
Profile   Post #: 108
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 6:30:07 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline
I'd bet that it's a link to My Fair Lady, "Why can't a woman be more like a man?".
And it took me a while to pull that out.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 109
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 6:44:49 PM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
That was my guess too. I posted a link earlier.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to DesFIP)
Profile   Post #: 110
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 6:48:56 PM   
DesFIP


Posts: 25191
Joined: 11/25/2007
From: Apple County NY
Status: offline
Sorry, I must have missed it. But now I have it running in my head.

_____________________________

Slave to laundry

Cynical and proud of it!


(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 111
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/11/2016 7:19:40 PM   
Lucylastic


Posts: 40310
Status: offline
yes it is:)
here it is....only
with Mr Hyde White:)

_____________________________

(•_•)
<) )╯SUCH
/ \

\(•_•)
( (> A NASTY
/ \

(•_•)
<) )> WOMAN
/ \

Duchess Of Dissent
Dont Hate Love

(in reply to DesFIP)
Profile   Post #: 112
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/12/2016 1:38:06 AM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
Poor Professor Higgins.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to Lucylastic)
Profile   Post #: 113
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/12/2016 5:02:52 PM   
Awareness


Posts: 3918
Joined: 9/8/2010
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Nifty explanation of why women, in certain geographies and contexts would have chosen partners in the stone age.

You're aware that some time has passed since then, I am sure?
You're aware that those attributes which enable individuals to survive really haven't changed all that much, right?


_____________________________

Ever notice how fucking annoying most signatures are? - Yes, I do appreciate the irony.

(in reply to crazyml)
Profile   Post #: 114
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/13/2016 10:16:03 PM   
MistressAubreee


Posts: 29
Joined: 9/10/2016
Status: offline
Part of it comes down to biology. Men can theoretically "hit it and quit it". They don't have to carry a fetus in them for 9 months and then be "stuck" raising the child. This is why arguably men are built more on the premise of sex, rather than nurturing. I'm not trying to stereotype or anything,just stating biological reasons for it.

_____________________________

FinDom always looking for finsubs!
Fetlife: Mistressaubree
Twitter:: @Mistressaubree
Instagram: Mistressaubree
Facebook: Mistress Aubree

(in reply to ilovestarbucks)
Profile   Post #: 115
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/14/2016 11:55:23 PM   
crazyml


Posts: 5568
Joined: 7/3/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Awareness


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

Nifty explanation of why women, in certain geographies and contexts would have chosen partners in the stone age.

You're aware that some time has passed since then, I am sure?
You're aware that those attributes which enable individuals to survive really haven't changed all that much, right?



Well, Awareness, I'm certainly aware that some of the attributes that enabled people to survive in the stone age have some use today, however many don't, moreover some attributes that would have been regarded as significantly disadvantageous in the stone-age are either no longer relevant or, in some cases, positively beneficial.

Partner selection has as much to do with current context and learned behaviour as it does our stone age genes.





_____________________________

Remember.... There's always somewhere on the planet where it's jackass o'clock.

(in reply to Awareness)
Profile   Post #: 116
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/15/2016 12:07:57 AM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Poor Professor Higgins.

You just wait 'enry 'iggins, just you wait....

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to PeonForHer)
Profile   Post #: 117
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/15/2016 12:29:03 AM   
PeonForHer


Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline
I'm a good girl, I am ....

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com


(in reply to OsideGirl)
Profile   Post #: 118
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/19/2016 10:27:31 AM   
PaulWG


Posts: 12
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ilovestarbucks
It's 50% men and 50% women. But yet I don't see any women wanting random sex. Why not?


Well one reason is random sex is more dangerous for women. Guys are usually if not always much stronger than women so they are taking a risk by having sex with a random guy that they don't know very well at all. He could end up raping her, robbing her, and then killing her; throwing her body in a ditch if he wanted too. There is also a danger of std and pregnancy. Maybe a lot of women don't think it's worth it. Also a lot of guys don't know how to please a woman to orgasm so once they are done he is satisfied and she is just laying there covered in his cum or whatever with no orgasm at all from it. Maybe he got a bit too excited and came too fast or he just doesn't know what he's doing. After experiencing bad sex enough times women might start to think, "Why bother with these random guys. I'll just wait for someone I care about instead that way even if i don't get orgasm ill be happy just pleasing him." Women also get shamed by others for sleeping around. Even the guy who just fucked her might call her a slut when he talks about their night together with his friends. So women definitely have good reason for not rushing to have sex.


< Message edited by PaulWG -- 9/19/2016 10:36:45 AM >

(in reply to ilovestarbucks)
Profile   Post #: 119
RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? - 9/19/2016 10:36:59 AM   
OsideGirl


Posts: 14441
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline
You left out that we're just pickier....

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 9/19/2016 10:56:43 AM >


_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to PaulWG)
Profile   Post #: 120
Page:   <<   < prev  3 4 5 [6] 7   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Why Aren't Women More Like Men In This Respect? Page: <<   < prev  3 4 5 [6] 7   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.109