The best way is to find an offline Gorean group in your area. While there are a few Goreans in the Seattle area, the actual groups with activity are in Vancouver or Victoria. The people I know of doing any training of kajira are either in Victoria or Vancouver as well. I know a slave on FL who does much of the training and knows the others who do.
Your profile reads like you are looking for a husband, as much or more than a Master. Finding Goreans, the real ones not the pretend ones, who both want a slave, especially only one slave and don't already have one are very few. Finding one in your area is usually pretty hard as well, wherever you are. Finding one that also wants a wife as well as a slave is even harder. As a general rule, the more limitations you have on who and what you are looking for the harder it is to find someone. Being able to move to be with someone makes it easier.
Other than that, read and keep reading the books. That will help you tell the fakes from the people who really live this. That means reading all of them, preferably in order. You will learn and understand more that way than just reading the "slave books" which most of the players usually recommend, if they say to read the books at all, to keep you from understanding the rest of what it can mean to be Gorean. You can also find someone in your area who does live this to advise you and answer questions as well. That really does help.
Malkinius of Chicago
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