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How to join the Gorean community. - 9/6/2016 1:27:06 PM   
Lilybud


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The path I am wanting to walk is the one leading to becoming the slave of a Master. I know this will take a lot of time and learning. With this in mind, I was wondering what would be the best way to immerse myself more in the Gorean culture? Other than reading the books, I'm not quite sure where to start.

Any advice is much appreciated.
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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/6/2016 5:10:36 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Lilybud

The path I am wanting to walk is the one leading to becoming the slave of a Master. I know this will take a lot of time and learning. With this in mind, I was wondering what would be the best way to immerse myself more in the Gorean culture? Other than reading the books, I'm not quite sure where to start.

Any advice is much appreciated.


Start by thinking about what it really means to be a slave in this context. You would have nothing and own nothing. You give up all rights to have final say (or any say for that matter) over your life. You can do nothing without your Master's permission. You can have nothing without Your Master's permission and anything given (privileges) can be taken away at any time... Master doesn't have to have a reason. Anything that You have is turned over to him... car, computer, money, cellphone... Anything. That's just a start. Is that what You really want?


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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/7/2016 6:57:42 AM   
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Or... Simply find a healthy M/s relationship, and color your relationship with the trappings and protocols of the books. Both are equally valid.

If you want to know what the author thought about being Gorean in real life, find his book "imaginative sex", which was basically his companion book to the Gor series on how to employ the ideas of the books in your real sex life. You might find it quite tame tho.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/7/2016 11:07:08 AM   
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Get a brand on your bum and do some sort of dance wearing half a sheet at a munch?


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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/7/2016 12:54:42 PM   
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Get a brand on your bum and do some sort of dance wearing half a sheet at a munch?



No... the brand has to be on your upper thigh. Only players brand the bum. ; )

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/7/2016 12:55:37 PM   
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My bad. It's a while since I've read any of the books.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/7/2016 3:25:40 PM   
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Get a brand on your bum and do some sort of dance wearing half a sheet at a munch?



No... the brand has to be on your upper thigh. Only players brand the bum. ; )



Oh djeeze... if you're going to be an 'accurate by the books' nazi, then at least get your facts right.

The ass cheek is listed as one of the less common (but still not unusual) brandsites in the books, together with the lower left abdomen, the forearms, behind the ear, the left breast, and several other possible places.



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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/8/2016 3:29:28 AM   
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Get a brand on your bum and do some sort of dance wearing half a sheet at a munch?



LOL

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/12/2016 5:37:13 PM   
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Thank you for your responses.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/13/2016 3:09:45 PM   
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Greetings Lilybud....

The best way is to find an offline Gorean group in your area. While there are a few Goreans in the Seattle area, the actual groups with activity are in Vancouver or Victoria. The people I know of doing any training of kajira are either in Victoria or Vancouver as well. I know a slave on FL who does much of the training and knows the others who do.

Your profile reads like you are looking for a husband, as much or more than a Master. Finding Goreans, the real ones not the pretend ones, who both want a slave, especially only one slave and don't already have one are very few. Finding one in your area is usually pretty hard as well, wherever you are. Finding one that also wants a wife as well as a slave is even harder. As a general rule, the more limitations you have on who and what you are looking for the harder it is to find someone. Being able to move to be with someone makes it easier.

Other than that, read and keep reading the books. That will help you tell the fakes from the people who really live this. That means reading all of them, preferably in order. You will learn and understand more that way than just reading the "slave books" which most of the players usually recommend, if they say to read the books at all, to keep you from understanding the rest of what it can mean to be Gorean. You can also find someone in your area who does live this to advise you and answer questions as well. That really does help.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/13/2016 4:08:42 PM   
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I pray you find what your looking for.

I started with a self started Gorean couple (where the wife got her husband to act on the aspects of the M/s relationship of his books that appealed to her). After they were stationed overseas I quickly progressed to other areas of the bdsm lifestyle for many years rather then seek out another "Gorean" as many who I met who called themselves such had appeared to have missed the proverbial forest for a tree or two in Normans work.

I have been collared now by my Gorean Husband since 2006.

Imaginative sex as well as several areas in the Gor series where Norman explains how Goreans would act while on earth will serve you well. You will learn a great deal more however if you actively participate in your local bdsm community at munches and other gatherings as well instead of only seeking out "Goreans" for your information concerning bdsm lifestyles.

Always remember in your search that things must be consensual and sane. The Goreans in the books have their own laws, but this is after all Earth. You always will have the rights afforded by the law and can always end or leave any arrangement you have made as such.

Safety first...kink second will serve you well.







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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/13/2016 4:35:20 PM   
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Well Goreans don't marry their slaves.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/13/2016 4:59:56 PM   
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Guess what...some do lol

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/13/2016 10:29:03 PM   
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tamaka.....

I know a number of Goreans who have married their slaves. What is in the books is not always the same with what Goreans who live on Earth do. Do not confuse the two or the online players with those of us who are real.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/14/2016 8:26:21 AM   
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Well Goreans don't marry their slaves.


According to Norman, they do (might) when living on Earth...

Norman literally states several times that some men on Earth might keep their wives as slaves. He even goes into great detail on how such a slavery might be kept secret from the public, while being a full slavery "in the secrecy of his home".
He then goes on to allude that those men who do this are not cowards and weaklings like most men on Earth, but men Goreans might recognize as 'true' men.

Again... if you're going to comment on the 'one true way by the books' then at least get your fucking facts straight.

Try actually reading the books you're so zealously taking as gospel.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/14/2016 10:38:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka

Well Goreans don't marry their slaves.


According to Norman, they do (might) when living on Earth...

Norman literally states several times that some men on Earth might keep their wives as slaves. He even goes into great detail on how such a slavery might be kept secret from the public, while being a full slavery "in the secrecy of his home".
He then goes on to allude that those men who do this are not cowards and weaklings like most men on Earth, but men Goreans might recognize as 'true' men.

Again... if you're going to comment on the 'one true way by the books' then at least get your fucking facts straight.

Try actually reading the books you're so zealously taking as gospel.


Yes I read that. What was that secrecy part again. Geeze.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/14/2016 11:44:42 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka

Well Goreans don't marry their slaves.


According to Norman, they do (might) when living on Earth...

Norman literally states several times that some men on Earth might keep their wives as slaves. He even goes into great detail on how such a slavery might be kept secret from the public, while being a full slavery "in the secrecy of his home".
He then goes on to allude that those men who do this are not cowards and weaklings like most men on Earth, but men Goreans might recognize as 'true' men.

Again... if you're going to comment on the 'one true way by the books' then at least get your fucking facts straight.

Try actually reading the books you're so zealously taking as gospel.


Yes I read that. What was that secrecy part again. Geeze.


If you read that, there's no need for you to be propagating such nonsense as "Well Goreans don't marry their slaves." slave girl.

There is nothing that speaks against keeping a wive on Earth as a slave.
Your assertion that Gorean men don't marry slaves is a pure and utter fabrication.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/14/2016 12:16:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka


quote:

ORIGINAL: UllrsIshtar


quote:

ORIGINAL: tamaka

Well Goreans don't marry their slaves.


According to Norman, they do (might) when living on Earth...

Norman literally states several times that some men on Earth might keep their wives as slaves. He even goes into great detail on how such a slavery might be kept secret from the public, while being a full slavery "in the secrecy of his home".
He then goes on to allude that those men who do this are not cowards and weaklings like most men on Earth, but men Goreans might recognize as 'true' men.

Again... if you're going to comment on the 'one true way by the books' then at least get your fucking facts straight.

Try actually reading the books you're so zealously taking as gospel.


Yes I read that. What was that secrecy part again. Geeze.


If you read that, there's no need for you to be propagating such nonsense as "Well Goreans don't marry their slaves." slave girl.

There is nothing that speaks against keeping a wive on Earth as a slave.
Your assertion that Gorean men don't marry slaves is a pure and utter fabrication.


Yes You are right. Mistress.

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/14/2016 11:53:55 PM   
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Master Malkinius, I am curious if you have any further information regarding the groups of rl Goreans you mentioned?

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RE: How to join the Gorean community. - 9/15/2016 5:39:38 PM   
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wildrose....

Contact Victoria-HS for the Victoria Home Stone or KhaosWolfKat on FetLife. They can direct you further. Those are the two best contacts that I have.

Be well....

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