LadyPact
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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl I can understand that. I felt some of that today I could see Daddy getting upset and his body language was very closed off as I was talking with him. But I made sure my posture was relaxed and submissive, I even got lower than him and kept my eyes lowered as I spoke to show him I wasn't trying to control him or manipulate the situation, just come to him with honesty and a heartfelt request. I believe my consciousness of non verbal cues and communication helped the conversation go as well as it could and still maintained my submissive place in the process. In the end words mean little without actions to back them up. He's feeling unsure because of my request but I will show him with my actions he had nothing to worry about. Here's where I see my view as being different as some others on the board. First shot, I'll give you free. You might even get the second. If it's the third or more conversation that we've had to have because you're jealous, scared, want to attempt to control whether I see additional people or not, or any of the other stuff, I'm probably getting annoyed. This puts me in a bad position because I don't really want to say that I don't want to hear your concerns, but if I have to hear what is basically the same concern over, and over, and over, and over... I'm not going to put up with the incessant whining forever. You chose to be in a relationship with a poly person. If you can not handle that choice, I'll be more than happy to remind you of where the door is, and it works just as well for you to walk out of it the same way you came in. Should you choose to stay, that's great, but it will be with the acceptance that I am poly and that is not going to change. You also won't really get input on: Who else I date. What I do with them. Where we go. Pissing contests about how I spend more time with them rather than you. Etc, etc, etc.
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The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie. Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread
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