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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:17:56 PM   
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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

You can't suck on the G spot. Are you mental?


He must be some kinda sucker to pull that one off!


It's misunderstandings like this of the female anatomy that make me weep. lol.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:22:07 PM   
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Oh, and I'm not a fan or receiving oral. Never have been. Not sure why it's the holy grail of female pleasure either.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:24:12 PM   
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Maybe there is a toy out there somewhere that can do that but not with your tongue lol yeah.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:30:31 PM   
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I haven't heard anyone say this yet but isn't it also important to get her in the mood too and not just rushing for the sex asap? From what I heard what a girl is feeling and thinking during sex is sometimes just as important if not more important than the sex itself to get her to orgasm. For example, if a girl is thinking about how messy the house is, worrying if she's going to be able to find another job after being fired, worrying about a test she's taking tomorrow, etc. while you are fucking her it will be much harder for her to get horny and orgasm.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:35:36 PM   
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In some women, the internal clitoris is close to the vagina and therefore can be stimulated by intercourse. But that's not true of the majority of women.

Some women find that stimulation of the external clitoris is too strong to be pleasurable but this is not the case for most women.

Op, if you're going to have sex with women, I strongly suggest you need education on women's anatomy.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:37:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl


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ORIGINAL: Chaska


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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

You can't suck on the G spot. Are you mental?


He must be some kinda sucker to pull that one off!


It's misunderstandings like this of the female anatomy that make me weep. lol.





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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 7:39:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl


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most woman like to have that thing licked an suck on the G spot an thy cum like that

You can't suck on the G spot. Are you mental?


He must be some kinda sucker to pull that one off!


It's misunderstandings like this of the female anatomy that make me weep. lol.




Well I'm not an obgyn, but I have poked around the female anatomy a bit.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 9/30/2016 8:21:00 PM   
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I haven't heard anyone say this yet but isn't it also important to get her in the mood too and not just rushing for the sex asap? From what I heard what a girl is feeling and thinking during sex is sometimes just as important if not more important than the sex itself to get her to orgasm. For example, if a girl is thinking about how messy the house is, worrying if she's going to be able to find another job after being fired, worrying about a test she's taking tomorrow, etc. while you are fucking her it will be much harder for her to get horny and orgasm.

Not me. I hate foreplay. If I want to fuck I don't need to build up to it. I'm ready when I'm ready

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 3:05:53 AM   
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Thought I would post this here.I need serious feedback from other s types.

My sub of over 2 yrs now has had an issue with orgasms.She can only do so with clit stimulation.I thought it would change over time but it hasn't and I am at a loss.Is there any fixing this or??

Thanks in advance..

Leers
Who fucking cares if she has an orgasm.

As long as I got mine, fuck the bitch.

Seriously.

She's getting something out of the deal, otherwise she wouldn't keep, ahem, coming back.

Here's the straight deal. Some sluts have trouble cumming. Some can't with a guy. Some need a particular thing like a hitachi. Others just can't do it.
Not with a dom. Not ever.
It's quaint and nice and cute and all that you care, but the reality is often that this has zip to do with the dom, that he can do whatever and however, up to and including using seriously crazy shit like back-hoes, but there's a large probability she won't ever come with and for and/or because of the dom.

There's an even larger possibility that the thing this really hurts isn't her, but rather his ego.

Which is all on him.



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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 4:04:41 AM   
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penis/vagina sex doesn't turn me on at all, however I have multitude of orgasms during a wonderful BDSM session.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 5:25:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aliendragun

Thought I would post this here.I need serious feedback from other s types.

My sub of over 2 yrs now has had an issue with orgasms.She can only do so with clit stimulation.I thought it would change over time but it hasn't and I am at a loss.Is there any fixing this or??

Thanks in advance..

Leers
Who fucking cares if she has an orgasm.

As long as I got mine, fuck the bitch.

Seriously.

She's getting something out of the deal, otherwise she wouldn't keep, ahem, coming back.

Here's the straight deal. Some sluts have trouble cumming. Some can't with a guy. Some need a particular thing like a hitachi. Others just can't do it.
Not with a dom. Not ever.
It's quaint and nice and cute and all that you care, but the reality is often that this has zip to do with the dom, that he can do whatever and however, up to and including using seriously crazy shit like back-hoes, but there's a large probability she won't ever come with and for and/or because of the dom.

There's an even larger possibility that the thing this really hurts isn't her, but rather his ego.

Which is all on him.




He cares because he's not a self centered ass, doesn't think of his sub as a slut or bitch, and isn't you.

Seriously, that was a disgusting read. I hope the women you play with know upfront how you really feel about them. Domination and selfishness do not have to co exist

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 7:44:20 AM   
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Ooooooh flark off.
You know nothing about me or what I do or how I do it little Ms judgemental on zero freaking facts.
But you just told me everything I need to know about your shallow empty vapid self.

Here's the deal.
Slaves/subs get something out of service. Something more than orgasms.
Lots of women have trouble cumming. Some can't with a partner. Some will never be able to.
But that's not what they, and most subs, primarily get from serving. They get the endorphin rush that comes with hard play, the joy of serving another, the solidity n knowing they are owned, a million and one things that are all internal and have nothing to do with orgasms.
In fact, for most women I've known, these internal things, these intangibles, are far far more important than cumming.
I recognize this. I understand it.
Fuck, I even encourage it.

This is simple crap. People do things because they like the results.
Negative results and they stop doing them. Positive and they come back for more.
So if she keeps returning, she is getting something from the experience.
Which means I am giving her something that strikes a chord inside of her, fills a need within.

This ain't selfish. It ain't self serving. Its simply recognizing a critical component of the paradox that is BDSM, in serving, she is rewarded and in giving, she also receives.
And it's also recognizing a basic fact of human nature as well as one other minor fact-that in focusing so much on an orgasm that may or may not be achievable, and with all to often fragile male egos involved, trying to give her/make her have something she may not be capable of having may result in all the ficus on what isn't perfect and result in ignoring the oh so much that is going well.

Besides which, WTFF-the slave is there to please and satisfy me. That's her fucking purpose and role in my life.
It ain't the other fucking way around.
I give what I give and if she likes it, great. And if she doesn't, oh fucking well. The one thing America does better than anything else is produce prime pussy. More is literally being born as I speak.
If she can't satisfy me, she ain't staying. And if I'm not satisfying her, WTF would she bother to keep calling? It ain't like I have the only cock in the neighborhood or that a girl needs anything more than last call to find a guy to sleep with.
Fuck.

I hate presumptive jackasses.
I tell ya, lazy thinking is going to be the end of us all.

As for what I call my slaves, what the fuck business of yours is it if the slutcuntbitchthingcockmeat likes it, then it ain't none of your nosy ass, whining, fucking affairs now, is it?
So really, fuck off.
Take your fucking disgust and judgement and wing it at someone who truly gives a fuck.
Because I don't.
I think its fucking funny making dumb ass monkeys dance..
I'm a sadist. I'm a provocateur. I like to yank peoples chains and watch how they react. It reveals so much about their true character.
Doesn't it now?
Doesn't it?





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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 11:45:55 AM   
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Oh Mr. Domly Pants, I'm shaking in my widdle boots. You sure showed me. Such a great guy, those ungrateful bitches are so lucky.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 11:47:38 AM   
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And if you didn't "give a fuck" you would have ignored my comment and not felt the need to accost me with a wall of text. Chill out. If you think you are right you wouldn't get so defensive.

And of you paid attention to anything but the echo chamber in your empty head, you would have read the OP called his lady a sub, not a slave. He cares about her. Don't project your careless version of disposable slut slaves on his 2 yr committed relationship.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 11:59:57 AM   
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And if you didn't "give a fuck" you would have ignored my comment and not felt the need to accost me with a wall of text. Chill out. If you think you are right you wouldn't get so defensive.

And of you paid attention to anything but the echo chamber in your empty head, you would have read the OP called his lady a sub, not a slave. He cares about her. Don't project your careless version of disposable slut slaves on his 2 yr committed relationship.



You're way way way out of line here.

You don't know Kana and you certainly don't know Mouse. So, you should probably just erase those posts while you can.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 12:07:29 PM   
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And if you didn't "give a fuck" you would have ignored my comment and not felt the need to accost me with a wall of text. Chill out. If you think you are right you wouldn't get so defensive.

And of you paid attention to anything but the echo chamber in your empty head, you would have read the OP called his lady a sub, not a slave. He cares about her. Don't project your careless version of disposable slut slaves on his 2 yr committed relationship.



You're way way way out of line here.

You don't know Kana and you certainly don't know Mouse. So, you should probably just erase those posts while you can.

I'm not going to.
He mischaracterized the OP'S relationship by comparing it to his own version.

If that wasn't his intention and I misread it, then my mistake. But I'm not sorry for what I said. The OP obviously cares if his sub gets off, even if Kana personally feels it isn't important.

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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 12:12:12 PM   
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Well, you clearly know everything about him.....so whatever.



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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 12:27:25 PM   
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I'm a sadist. I'm a provocateur. I like to yank peoples chains and watch how they react. It reveals so much about their true character.
Doesn't it now?
Doesn't it?

Heeheeheehee

Is like internet ju jitsu-Sometimes the argument makes itself!


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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 12:34:02 PM   
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I'm a sadist. I'm a provocateur. I like to yank peoples chains and watch how they react. It reveals so much about their true character.
Doesn't it now?
Doesn't it?

Heeheeheehee

Is like internet ju jitsu-Sometimes the argument makes itself!


At least it's always entertaining.



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RE: Orgasm only? - 10/1/2016 3:31:38 PM   
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I've only been here since Jan but yeah GLBG misinterpreted what someone else said again.

and Kana I know exactly what you mean I get my satisfaction from serving the Dominants I'm involved with, however they choose. Sometimes I may not like what they choose and other times I do but that's part of the package.

today my owner took me out for breakfast, he chose what he wanted me to eat and then he chose to drive into the country for a BDSM session. I'm a shy submissive, having a BDSM session in all my glory in the open country air kinda stressed me a bit but I aim to serve him and for that I'm rewarded many times in different ways.

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