HoneyBears
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Joined: 11/5/2013 From: Pennsylvania Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Greatlilbabygirl If a guy calls himself gay but occasionally engages in sexual behavior with females, you nor I can't tell him he isn't gay. He identifies as gay, he's gay. Why does that bother you? Nothing personal. On a Need-to-Know Basis, it is not much different than: - Identifying as a monogamist while you (plural) fuck around on your primary partner, with or without his or her knowledge or explicit consent.... - Calling polyfuckery the misnomer of polyamory. At the very least, if there are no love attachments involved with multiple sexual partners, call it what it is -- which is polysexuality.... - Identifying as a slave when you are a BDSM bottom or fantasy fetishist who would not know submission if it came and bit you (plural) in the arse.... - Identifying as a dominant when you (plural) are primarily out to get kinky sex on demand, and/or are just service Topping to gain unfettered access to touching nekkid [usually] female body parts.... - Professing to seeking an LTR commitment (such as D/s ownership), when all you (plural) are really out for are casual hook-ups or a fuckbuddy-playbuddy arrangement.... Why would any of the above NOT be bothersome or troubling to anybody who holds respecting personal boundaries as sacrosact in not misrepresenting oneself to others, and therefore worthy of not blurring, of not potentially violating their trust? -- Lisa
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