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fluffygiggler -> little in south bay area of California looking for her Daddy (9/22/2016 1:23:21 PM)
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I'm a 26 year old sub in the south bay area of California. I am single and unattached in any way, and I am looking for a Daddy.
I am fat, but working on improving myself. I am wanting to lose weight, and I'm looking for someone to encourage me to continue on my path to a healthier and happier me.
I consider myself poly. But what that means for me is I have a primary relationship, (D/s relationship, I'm the sub), and then play partners. Whether or not I would have sex with the play partners is something that would be discussed between whoever is my Dom, myself, and the other person I'm considering having sex with.
I'm looking for someone who wants the same things I do. Is mature and knows what they want out of a relationship. I'm wanting to have a mostly vanilla life with whoever is my Dom. Going grocery shopping, going out to movies, going on walks, playing video/board/card games with, talk about nonsense with. That's not to say the relationship won't be D/s, because it will.
What D/s means to me is that both the Dom and submissive earn trust and respect for each other. After trust and respect is there, then the Dom should be the submissive's rock. He should be there for her when she fails, but also encourage her to be better. The submissive should please her Dom by taking care of herself, and by always thinking how she can please her Dom. Whether that's by pleasing him sexually, emotionally, mentally...she should have her Dom's happiness ranked just as high as her need to take care of herself. A sub or Dom is not perfect, and both will fail, but communication is what is key to make sure that the mistakes don't happen again.
I would appreciate it if I could find someone in my area, but I'm not closed off to the idea of a long distance relationship.
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