RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female

Join Our Community

Collarchat.com

Home Login Search

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Introductions] >> Introduce yourself >> RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female

Page: << < prev 1 2 [3]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:27:23 PM

LadyPact

Posts: 32566
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
And I'm the asshole? lol. Not one person on here who continually attacks has been able to prove me wrong. You continue to call me lazy and a liar, yet when i asked for your help you come up empty handed.

I've done my search, I've casted my net, you should just mind your own business if you don't have anything constructive to add.

Actually, I did. You just didn't catch it.

As of this post, the "Women Rule" group on Fet has 834 members. Of those members that actually attend the WR parties, you are going to find members from MD, DC, and VA. The reason you see the widespread membership is because of the lack of other public clubs in various areas.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to username12345)

Profile

Post #: 41

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:30:29 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
Wow, you're a fucking idiot. LOL. Again....I got the same search. None are groups, ALL are individuals and NONE have my interests. SMH. Do yourself a favor and shut the fuck up. You're making yourself look like an asshole.

Ok numbnuts...
Here you are saying you want GROUPS.
Several people have pointed some out to you.
Most have EXACTLY what you have in your profile.

Your profile states: I am hoping to find a local mistress/goddess/princess for me to serve.

I gave you a whole damned list and directory of exactly that.
You didn't even fucking bother to check them out.
I know you didn't because you didn't have the time before you came back at me.

Who's the self-opinionated lazy asshole here?? YOU!!
Sorry douchebag, fuck off back to the hole you crawled out from.
I'm done.

Damn, so much for hoping you ignored me.

#1 You said you've seen me do nothing but insult people and berate them? I've seen you do nothing but the same and starting right off the bat calling me lazy and a lair. You're a child. I get that.

#2 They have pointed out groups, I can point out groups too. But none of the groups that were pointed out have what I'm looking for. Which I have reiterated, that you may not have read. So, either you don't know what I'm looking for or you didn't read where I explained why they aren't what I'm looking for or you just like to yell and scream and argue because you have nothing better to do. I'm not sure which. But I think it's evident that you are childish.

#3 We have gone over the list and directory already. I've explained to you before that you were confused between individuals and groups. Those were individuals. I hope you can recall that brief conversation. Of those individuals, they do not address what I'm looking for. I'll tell you this over and over again until you're able to comprehend it. As of now, I've told you three times and it doesn't seem to be sinking in so I'm not sure if it will ever.

#4 So, you assume that I'm lazy because you've found groups and individuals. That's easy and simple to do. Anyone can do it, you've done it. I've done it. Everyone has done it. But what you're failing to take into consideration are my interests. That's where you start looking foolish. I'm sorry, but your childish rantings are cheap at best. Again, I think you are just on here to argue and not to provide any actual assistant.

Which, by the way, I wasn't asking for anyone's help since this was an "Introduction" thread. But for some reason all of you felt the need to attack me for absolutely no reason. I think it would be more constructive if you just said "Hi" or "Good luck in your search". Rather than getting all upset and attacking me.

I hope you find what you are looking for, it seem you have some inferiority complex and feel compelled to take it out on me. Good luck with that! I wish you the best!

(in reply to freedomdwarf1)

Profile

Post #: 42

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:34:56 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: cloverodella

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345

Here I am, coming on here putting my interests out there, casting my web and I get nothing but fucking assholes who have nothing better to do with their time.

What do you expect to happen? That you'd set up a shit profile that says nothing about you or what you're looking for, make 1 post saying 'hey, ladies, I'm here", and that that would attract Dommes?

Your sense of entitlement is one for the ages.

You seemed to have a convoluted concept of what entitlement means. Entitlement means "the belief that one is inherently deserving of privileges or special treatment.". So, I don't see how you think I feel that I'm deserving of any privileges or special treatment merely from introducing myself from the established guidelines.

Furthermore, I feel that my profile is succinct and direct. Giving all the necessary information a person would need to contact me should they so be inclined.

Your anger towards me is both puzzling and unfounded. I think you could use a dose of love and affection in your life instead of harboring all the pent up anger and lashing out on a person that you have no justification to do so.

I wish you the bet of luck!

(in reply to cloverodella)

Profile

Post #: 43

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:38:09 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

I don't need your help. I never asked for it dear. You have mistaken this section for something that it isn't. This is an introduction section. That's all I did.

You felt compelled to attack for not justifiable reason other than me introducing myself. So, if that's your thing then so be it.

But you know I'm right and you have only proven me right.

< Message edited by username12345 -- 9/28/2016 2:47:24 PM >

(in reply to MissKatya)

Profile

Post #: 44

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:40:45 PM

Alecta

Posts: 1355
Joined: 1/19/2010
Status: offline

So, after all that, when are you getting around to actually revealing these interests that aren't turning up in any searches?

(in reply to username12345)

Profile

Post #: 45

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:41:53 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Alecta

So, after all that, when are you getting around to actually revealing these interests that aren't turning up in any searches?

FYI......there's a profile for that. :-)

(in reply to Alecta)

Profile

Post #: 46

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:44:19 PM

Alecta

Posts: 1355
Joined: 1/19/2010
Status: offline

I know. I caught your typo last week, remember?
It's just incredible to think that... wait, do you mean Findom and Femdom or Findomme and FemDomme?

(in reply to username12345)

Profile

Post #: 47

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:53:06 PM

freedomdwarf1

Posts: 6845
Joined: 10/23/2012
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
Damn, so much for hoping you ignored me.

#1 You said you've seen me do nothing but insult people and berate them? I've seen you do nothing but the same and starting right off the bat calling me lazy and a lair. You're a child. I get that.

Actually, you were the first to start slinging the shit on this thread starting at post#19.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
#2 They have pointed out groups, I can point out groups too. But none of the groups that were pointed out have what I'm looking for. Which I have reiterated, that you may not have read. So, either you don't know what I'm looking for or you didn't read where I explained why they aren't what I'm looking for or you just like to yell and scream and argue because you have nothing better to do. I'm not sure which. But I think it's evident that you are childish.

Childish? Really???

Read your own profile.
Read your opening post.
YOU ARE LOOKING FOR INDIVIDUALS.

The first entry I got from Google gave a directory of dominatrix women.
The very first page of that one site had over 20 women on it - ALL in the DC area (it was a site for dominatrix in DC after all).
More than half on that page catered for your fetish/kink.
There were many more pages to look through.
And there were MANY other sites to check.
You didn't bother - that was blatantly obvious.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
#3 We have gone over the list and directory already. I've explained to you before that you were confused between individuals and groups. Those were individuals. I hope you can recall that brief conversation. Of those individuals, they do not address what I'm looking for. I'll tell you this over and over again until you're able to comprehend it. As of now, I've told you three times and it doesn't seem to be sinking in so I'm not sure if it will ever.

And I looked at just THREE from the first site from my Google list.
They ALL catered for what you are seeking - according to your profile.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
#4 So, you assume that I'm lazy because you've found groups and individuals. That's easy and simple to do. Anyone can do it, you've done it. I've done it. Everyone has done it. But what you're failing to take into consideration are my interests.

I checked your profile.
I read your opening post.
And yes, everyone I looked at catered EXACTLY for your interests.
And they were ALL in the DC area.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
That's where you start looking foolish. I'm sorry, but your childish rantings are cheap at best. Again, I think you are just on here to argue and not to provide any actual assistant.

I'm not the one who's ranting.
Perhaps you need to go back to kindergarden and learn some English.
And many have actually provided you with what you seek; both from the standpoint of your opening post and your profile.
That is actual assistance.
If you don't want it.... fine. That's not our problem.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
Which, by the way, I wasn't asking for anyone's help since this was an "Introduction" thread. But for some reason all of you felt the need to attack me for absolutely no reason. I think it would be more constructive if you just said "Hi" or "Good luck in your search". Rather than getting all upset and attacking me.

We didn't start attacking until you starting throwing the shit tantrum worthy of a two year old.

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345
I hope you find what you are looking for, it seem you have some inferiority complex and feel compelled to take it out on me. Good luck with that! I wish you the best!

I think it is you with the complex, not me.

_____________________________

“If liberty means anything at all, it means the right to tell people what they do not want to hear.”

George Orwell, 1903-1950

(in reply to username12345)

Profile

Post #: 48

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 2:57:10 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14414
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

We didn't start attacking until you starting throwing the shit tantrum worthy of a two year old.

It's like I always say: some people you wonder why they're single....others not so much.

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to freedomdwarf1)

Profile

Post #: 49

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 3:09:33 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

I don't know why you keep doing this, you making yourself look so foolish.

#1 Scroll above #19......can you see where they were calling me lazy and eluding to me being a liar? Please, please, please do me a favor and read these things before you post so I don't have to point out the obvious. In your first post to me, you called me lazy. Did you not? Yeah, that's the pot calling the kettle black.

#2 Yes, you are childish. It's very evident. Yes, I am looking for individuals. That's what my profile states. Dude, I don't know how else to get this through to you. This is where your childish behavior clouds your ability to reason. I'm looking for individuals with the interests that I have. Do me a favor, now what you have found these individuals, go on their websites. Look at what they provide. You'll see they don't mention what I'm asking for. You are just trying to make things up to support your argument which is based on not actually doing the research. I hate to say this again but, it's childish the way you argue.

#3 No, all three do not cater to what i'm looking for. That is a blatant lie. I'm not going to post their information on this thread as it's not my place to do so. But you should actually read their websites. That's where the information is. Thanks.

#4 You are ranting. That's all of what you've been doing. In this post that I'm responding to and since you started on this thread. That's the definition of ranting. I din't ask for assistance. This thread is merely for introduction. You took it upon yourself to tell me that I'm lazy, did you not?

Now it's a "we", lol. Divide and concur, lol. YOU attacked me on your very first post. You can't deny that, it's there for everyone to read. YOU chose to be hostile towards me. YOU to respond. I didn't ask for your opinion, nor did I invite it. This was an introduction to the people of the site of who I am and what my interests were. So for you to attack me like you're a child on the playground is....well.....childish.

No, it's you. See, your anger towards me is manifesting itself through an anonymous medium. I mean, you're so afraid an cowardly that you won't even put a picture of yourself your profile. Which tells me that you are afraid, insecure and have a low self worth. You are pushed around in "real life" by other people and you take this opportunity to lash out at others that can't confront you physically. Again, childish.

I wish you the best of luck. You need it.

(in reply to freedomdwarf1)

Profile

Post #: 50

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 3:11:44 PM

username12345

Posts: 22
Joined: 9/15/2016
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

quote:

ORIGINAL: freedomdwarf1

We didn't start attacking until you starting throwing the shit tantrum worthy of a two year old.

It's like I always say: some people you wonder why they're single....others not so much.

my dear, you attacked me from the beginning. It's all in black and white. You called me lazy and eluded to me being a liar. I think that's grounds for defending myself. But, to each their own.

(in reply to OsideGirl)

Profile

Post #: 51

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 3:40:56 PM

BitaTruble

Posts: 9779
Joined: 1/12/2006
From: Texas
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: username12345

Hi all,

I work and live in the Washington DC area. Single, no kids. 42 yo. If you're close, let's connect.

I'm a sub male seeking dominant female.

Thanks!

Okay, first of all..welcome to the forums.

I have read the thread and rest assured, I am objective and know exactly what happened but I am more concerned about what got lost which was your best advice. Volunteer as staff. Now, that does not mean you are going to be at a venue that caters to exactly what you seek and you already know that so set that aside. The point is not to find what you seek but rather to network to increase your chances to find what you seek.

Friends of friends, co-workers of kinky people..all that sort of thing. Now, it may not work but you already have a glitchy game and what you have sought with your approach so far has not worked. At worst..you may have some fun volunteering for something that blows your mind (volunteering as a human pin cushion did that for me!)

Feel free to ignore this..I am well aware you did not come here asking for such advice but I did want you to consider that altruism nor self-interest need be required to volunteer. Network is a valid motive, too.

Good luck.

_____________________________

"Oh, so it's just like
Rock, paper, scissors."

He laughed. "You are the wisest woman I know."

(in reply to username12345)

Profile

Post #: 52

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 3:43:34 PM

OsideGirl

Posts: 14414
Joined: 7/1/2005
From: United States
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Volunteer as staff. Now, that does not mean you are going to be at a venue that caters to exactly what you seek and you already know that so set that aside. The point is not to find what you seek but rather to network to increase your chances to find what you seek.

That was exactly my point.

< Message edited by OsideGirl -- 9/28/2016 3:51:22 PM >

_____________________________

Give a girl the right shoes and she will conquer the world. ~ Marilyn Monroe

The Accelerated Velocity of Terminological Inexactitude

(in reply to BitaTruble)

Profile

Post #: 53

RE: new Sub male seeking local Dom female - 9/28/2016 4:23:31 PM

TieMeInKnottss

Posts: 1944
Joined: 9/6/2012
Status: offline

Here. This event is over but I think it is monthly
DC Dinner with Dommes September 13
by dcsubclub 18 days ago
Ever wanted to meet professional dominatrixes and lifestyle mistresses in a casual setting, outside of a play party or studio dungeon? Dinner with Dommes is an opportunity for submissives to do just that - over drinks, dinner, and decadent discussions.

The next Dinner with Dommes takes place on September 13 at UNOs restaurant in DC’s Union Station, centrally located to DC, Virginia and Maryland, accessible by Metro, bus, train, bicycle and car. Meet and greet happy hour starts at 6 pm and we sit down for dinner around 7:15 pm. You can find us in our own semi-private area at UNOs, around the corner from the bar in the back.

Usually between 20 and 30 kinksters show up, including several dominatrixes and mistresses; submissives of all genders, ages, backgrounds, and interests; and the curious, newbies and out-of-towners are always welcome.

(in reply to LadyPact)

Profile

Post #: 54