Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: What am I?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What am I? Page: <<   < prev  6 7 [8] 9 10   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 7:13:47 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent
The stalker comment lol you think that applies to you? Well if you feel that way that's on you. I've actually comment regarding same on the same day I changed the signature.

About me? Oh, hell no.

However, I find it irresponsible for anybody with a career in law to use the term in such a frivolous manner.

Save the word "stalker" for the real stalkers.



_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 141
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 7:22:08 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		lol I wish the only experience I had with a stalker was through my LAW experience -- unfortunately I have a very intimate relationship with that concept. Until you know anything about me or its about you -- don't worry about what I put in my personal signature line. If we kept words for "certain" concepts we wouldn't be able to use most of them. Stalker is not a legal definition in and of itself, its a legal term with very specific definition. It also exists outside the legal meaning.. there is a difference.



_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 142
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 7:32:25 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent
lol I wish the only experience I had with a stalker was through my LAW experience -- unfortunately I have a very intimate relationship with that concept. Until you know anything about me or its about you -- don't worry about what I put in my personal signature line. If we kept words for "certain" concepts we wouldn't be able to use most of them. Stalker is not a legal definition in and of itself, its a legal term with very specific definition. It also exists outside the legal meaning.. there is a difference.

Oddly enough, the term "stalker" is very real in the legal definition. Pretty real in the day to day definition, too.

So, if you had the "real time" experience, are you really going to equate *that* with TDC not agreeing with you on the forum?



_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 143
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 7:43:34 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		You do realize that the legal definition of stalker -- and its a LEGAL DEFINITION -- not a legal term if you want to get technical -- its a term within the criminal legal jargon but has a very specific definition - that is much stricter than the basic non-legal definition. I know the criminal definition very intimately, I also know its limitations and the broadness of the actual non-legal definition. So really I don't need a lecture as to what it means or the seriousness.

I am capable of differentiating between the two -- as I said, if we start putting limitations on how words are used -- we couldn't be able to use most of them. Oh NO, someone on the news just used it in the same context with regard to Donald doing something to hilary -- are you going to contact them on how dare they idea?

I also know enough that I cannot let the legal term define my use of the word outside of the LEGAL field. You may want to be held hostage that way -- oh should I not use that word because of the legal seriousness of the actuality, that is fine. However MY personal signature line is just that mine.

Who said I was equating the seriousness of the reality of stalking with being harassed by an idiot online? i am using the same word -- i am not using the same definition one is legal and one is not. I am using it in the context of non-legal terminology. Maybe YOU shouldn't attempt to equate it and worry about something you have no control over and are way overreacting about.

Just out of morbid curiosity -- do you whine about everyone's signature lines?


Its going to remain - I of all people are capable of determining whether or not it can be used in sarcasm or not. Again, I am not seeking your approval- which you seem to imply I must need. Honestly, it boggles my mind you've even brought it up -- what you don't like something I post and call your ass out on so you are going to attack my signature line? Really? Good grief, grow up.

So can we move on now?

< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 7:48:26 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 144
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 7:53:56 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent

You do realize that the legal definition of stalker -- and its a LEGAL DEFINITION -- not a legal term if you want to get technical -- its a term within the criminal legal jargon but has a very specific definition - that is much stricter than the basic non-legal definition. I know the criminal definition very intimately, I also know its limitations and the broadness of the actual non-legal definition. So really I don't need a lecture as to what it means or the seriousness.

I am capable of differentiating between the two -- as I said, if we start putting limitations on how words are used -- we couldn't be able to use most of them. Oh NO, someone on the news just used it in the same context with regard to Donald doing something to hilary -- are you going to contact them on how dare they idea?

I also know enough that I cannot let the legal term define my use of the word outside of the LEGAL field. You may want to be held hostage that way -- oh should I not use that word because of the legal seriousness of the actuality, that is fine. However MY personal signature line is just that mine.

Who said I was equating the seriousness of the reality of stalking with being harassed by an idiot online? i am using the same word -- i am not using the same definition one is legal and one is not. I am using it in the context of non-legal terminology. Maybe YOU shouldn't attempt to equate it and worry about something you have no control over and are way overreacting about.

Just out of morbid curiosity -- do you whine about everyone's signature lines?


Its going to remain - I of all people are capable of determining whether or not it can be used in sarcasm or not. Again, I am not seeking your approval.

Nope. Just yours.

Wait. I take that back. I bitch at other people about it, too.

When you present yourself as a member of the legal profession, and SHOW people how you trivialize the term, YOU are making it worse. How do people know it's not YOU sitting behind the desk?

Let it remain. The sarcasm is sooooo funny.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 145
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 8:05:39 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		Good grief, you seriously need a hobby and no I don't mean bitching and whining about things that have nothing to do with the topic of a thread.

Oh did I make you believe I was considering removing it because you are whining about it. Again, you seem to believe you are some decision maker on these boards as to what should and shouldn't be posted and the like and now you bitch about signature lines.

ITS A WORD! If I allowed every damn fucking WORD that is used to define crimes and the very REAL victimization involved in same -- including murder, killing, mutilation, rape, stalking, aggravated abuse, kidnapping, shootinngs stabbings etc abuse etc -- and yes, I've seen all of that up close and I have been a victim of because people like you think I need to be held hostage by a WORD, you have no fucking clue, i'd never be able to use most words in the English language in general conversation and I would be curled up with my hands over my ears terrified to hear any of them and terrified of life. Sorry but I have spent to damn long getting my life back without a cunt like you telling me I should let a word run my life and I should give it some power over me. Sorry - no not sorry -- but it is not going to happen.

Go try fucking with someone else...



< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 8:06:04 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 146
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 8:12:08 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Go ahead. Tell me how "professional" you are again.

Is "whining" a technical term?

In 2014, you had SIX people killed in your state, because people like you, involved in LAW, got on their high horse.

If I had met somebody like you when I walked into the SHARP office, I'd have turned around and walked away.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 147
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 8:23:12 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		wtf are you talking about now.

Hell do you know how many people have been killed in the name of BDSM? Or let's see what else do you do to your so called subs physically. You do realize much of what you do IS ILLEGAL in terms of the LEGAL DEFINITION nd the crap people have had done to them wherein they have been victims of same -- yet you still use them.

So quit being a hypocrite. I may be using a word that has both a legal and non-legal term -- YOU on the other hand I can bet are actually DOING something to someone that is ILLEGAL and creates victims all over this country and yet you try and justify your use of terms and the like and not only that but your ACTIONS that have legal definitions making what you do actually ILLEGAL-- yeah its called ABUSE. But you still not only do it but act like what you do is no big deal and quantify the terms and that its not used in the legal criminal terms. YOU ACTUALLY DO IT, yes? So I may USE a word, but I don't actually BREAK the law and casually speak about it in discussions.

I GET the difference in the use of the terms and actions of same and motivation behind same -- you obviously are a hypocrite and only attack people based on things YOU don't like seeing.


People like me -- interesting -- you have no fucking clue who I am or what I stand for and the like. All this because I use the word stalker in my signature. Yeah geesh, I am sooooo responsible for all kinds of deaths and the like.


Seriously -- what the fuck are you talking about now? The signature is going to remain. Its that simple. So get over it. Seriously your freak out here is beyond outrageous.

Get over yourself -seriously what the fuck is wrong with you? You seem to be having a break down.

< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 8:27:28 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 148
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 8:38:27 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent

wtf are you talking about now.

Hell do you know how many people have been killed in the name of BDSM? Or let's see what else do you do to your so called subs physically. You do realize much of what you do IS ILLEGAL in terms of the LEGAL DEFINITION nd the crap people have had done to them wherein they have been victims of same -- yet you still use them.

So quit being a hypocrite. I may be using a word that has both a legal and non-legal term -- YOU on the other hand I can bet are actually DOING something to someone that is ILLEGAL and creates victims all over this country and yet you try and justify your use of terms and the like and not only that but your ACTIONS that have legal definitions making what you do actually ILLEGAL-- yeah its called ABUSE. But you still not only do it but act like what you do is no big deal and quantify the terms and that its not used in the legal criminal terms. YOU ACTUALLY DO IT, yes? So I may USE a word, but I don't actually BREAK the law and casually speak about it in discussions.

I GET the difference in the use of the terms and actions of same and motivation behind same -- you obviously are a hypocrite and only attack people based on things YOU don't like seeing.


People like me -- interesting -- you have no fucking clue who I am or what I stand for and the like. All this because I use the word stalker in my signature. Yeah geesh, I am sooooo responsible for all kinds of deaths and the like.


Seriously -- what the fuck are you talking about now? The signature is going to remain. Its that simple. So get over it. Seriously your freak out here is beyond outrageous.

Get over yourself --

Go check the stats.
OH, what's the matter?

Let the signature remain! Dear God, yes! Cause you're just the same.

TDC responded to (something like) three comments of yours.

When she chases you down two thousand miles? THEN she's a stalker.



_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 149
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 8:49:17 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		You win, I am not using the word stalker in the way YOU believe it should be used.


Again, I have no clue what you are talking about. It seems you are having some major melt down and it leads me to as -- what the fuck is wrong with you. Its not the fact I am using a word that has a legal definition and has devastating consequences upon people -- because as I said, words are thrown carelessly all over this message board -- its THIS particular word. So you are a hypocrite.

If you had a PERSONAL reaction to the word -- all you had to do was approach me and explain that instead of being a cunt.

So you are a hypocrite --- and in case you missed it -- I AM PART OF THE NUMBERS THAT MAKE UP THOSE STATS WTH REGARD TO VICTIMS and know damn well what its like to LIVE it.

So again -- are you done? You win, I am using the word in a way you don't like --- and?


So I decided to pull up the legal definition of stalker and came across harassment laws as well -- which I completely forgot about but I digress --
Just out of morbid curiosity -- you do realize that there are also harassment laws -- so I wonder if your meltdown would have occurred if I had used the word harasser. You do realize that part of the stalker statute is Tennessee law as willful conduct involving repeated harassment of someone that causes them to feel terrorized, frightened, intimidated, threatened, harassed or molested. emphasis added.
Its a misdemeanor. It doesn't state how or where. It simply is someone harasses someone and makes them feel harassed IS PART of the definition. So yeah, I kind of was using it in the legal definition.

The fact that "or" is used instead of "and" means that only one of those aspects needs to apply. So despite your freakout -- Someone was harassing me willfully and I was feeling harassed.

So what's your argument now?

< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 9:01:50 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 150
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:06:18 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent

You win, I am not using the word stalker in the way YOU believe it should be used.


Again, I have no clue what you are talking about. It seems you are having some major melt down and it leads me to as -- what the fuck is wrong with you. Its not the fact I am using a word that has a legal definition and has devastating consequences upon people -- because as I said, words are thrown carelessly all over this message board -- its THIS particular word. So you are a hypocrite.

If you had a PERSONAL reaction to the word -- all you had to do was approach me and explain that instead of being a cunt.

So you are a hypocrite --- and in case you missed it -- I AM PART OF THE NUMBERS THAT MAKE UP THOSE STATS WTH REGARD TO VICTIMS and know damn well what its like to LIVE it.

So again -- are you done? You win, I am using the word in a way you don't like --- and?

Feel free to call me hypocrite. Does it make you feel better?

Do you ever realize you share these boards with people who have a much different definition than you?

Is it professional to call people a c^nt?

(Just so you know, I'm not big on people trying to shame others for their sadism.)

I'm not coming "crawling to you" to explain my stalking experience.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 151
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:09:40 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent
So I decided to pull up the legal definition of stalker and came across harassment laws as well -- which I completely forgot about but I digress --
Just out of morbid curiosity -- you do realize that there are also harassment laws -- so I wonder if your meltdown would have occurred if I had used the word harasser. You do realize that part of the stalker statute is Tennessee law as willful conduct involving repeated harassment of someone that causes them to feel terrorized, frightened, intimidated, threatened, harassed or molested. emphasis added.
Its a misdemeanor. It doesn't state how or where. It simply is someone harasses someone and makes them feel harassed IS PART of the definition. So yeah, I kind of was using it in the legal definition.

The fact that "or" is used instead of "and" means that only one of those aspects needs to apply. So despite your freakout -- Someone was harassing me willfully and I was feeling harassed.

So what's your argument now?

Yep. I'm aware.



_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 152
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:18:39 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		I'm not trying to be professional. And cunt fits how you are acting. You've been acting since I started posting so sorry if I couldn't differentiate between your type of attacks.

As I said if you had just been civil, I might have changed it.

It doesn't make me feel anything to call you a hypocrite, it's simply stating a fact as to your hypocritical views of what words are ok and what are not. As for sadism, why would you feel shame? It's a fact. You are probably breaking the law. You are doing things that people suffer horribly from daily. You started this crap. Don't start playing the poor me cry because I'm calling you on your hypocrisy.

I'm not having a melt down on someone because of a word they use in their signature and then try and tell them people are being killed and casual use of a word that many people suffer horribly and devastatingly from. I simply pointed out you can't have it both ways where it's ok for you to not only use words but do actions that many people suffer from and try to tell someone else all that you have here to me because you don't like I used word.

Have some personal responsibility. If you throw crap at people don't whine when your own hypocrisy is thrown back at you.


I never said crawl to me. But come at me like you are sure the fuck doesn't create an environment where I will remove it. You're acting like a bitch. Knock it off.

Let me ask you this - does my use of the word cause you to be uncomfortable or bother you? A simple yes or no will do for an answer.



< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 9:19:43 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 153
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:18:58 PM   
ThatDizzyChick


Posts: 5490
Status: offline 		FR
Wow, somebody is overly sensitive and has a vastly over inflated sense of their importance, eh?

_____________________________

Not your average bimbo.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 154
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:38:48 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent


Let me ask you this - does my use of the word cause you to be uncomfortable or bother you? A simple yes or no will do for an answer.



Yes, it does.

I have no shame in it, either.

I had a stalker for a very long time. Three years worth.

There aren't many people I meet who have their nose so stuck in the air that they have no compassion for that kind of thing.





_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 155
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 9:44:48 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		Then I'll remove it. You've been acting like a bitch towards me since I've started posting. As I said, I can't differentiate your attack so I treat them all the same.


Grins I presume the rest of my signature is acceptable to you?



< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 9:46:07 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 156
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 10:05:01 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: ohthat1percent

I'm not trying to be professional. And cunt fits how you are acting. You've been acting since I started posting so sorry if I couldn't differentiate between your type of attacks.

As I said if you had just been civil, I might have changed it.


Thank GOD I never walked in your office.

Thank God You were not the first person that I came in contact with. I'd have never even felt 'decent'.

The fact you would snicker? Nose stuck in the air? I'd have left. I'd have never come back. I'd have... Never come forward.


With your attitude? It's no wonder WHY people don't come forward.




_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to ohthat1percent)
Profile   Post #: 157
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 10:14:57 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		Oh good grief. Seriously you are going to continue your bitch fest.

I am sure when you came forward you weren't acting like a cunt towards the people. So it's all relevant


And you didn't approach me in my office you started attacking me on a message board about one thing and then switched over to another thing. i guess my organizational skills at keeping what you are bitching about straight has failed me.



< Message edited by ohthat1percent -- 10/9/2016 10:18:26 PM >

_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 158
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 10:18:31 PM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		You may not like it, but I want better things for those in our communities.


_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 159
RE: What am I? - 10/9/2016 10:25:55 PM   
ohthat1percent


Posts: 167
Joined: 9/24/2016
Status: offline 		Then quit acting like a bitch and simply explain. I see words that bother me casually thrown around all the time on here. But I'm not a hypocrite to bitch at people about them while being casually myself about other words.

You aren't making anything better because if I really wanted to be the bitch you were being, I would have left it. It didn't dawn on me what the fuck you were bitching about until I finally asked the question I did. It seems you have missed I also dealt with a stalker. I don't intentionally want to harm people and as words are casually used here I couldn't remotely begin to think the word I used would affect you. Care to provide a list so everyone is clear what words can and can't be used on here because you don't like them?



_____________________________

A dominant man is not a man who is content to simply receive submission; a dominant man is not so obliging.

(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 160
Page:   <<   < prev  6 7 [8] 9 10   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: What am I? Page: <<   < prev  6 7 [8] 9 10   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.109