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Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 6:58:14 AM

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Ladies,

The use of ED drugs like Viagra has been mentioned here and there in online articles about Femdom relationships, to enhance the sex even when ED is not an issue.

Does anyone have experience with using such drugs? Is there any particular benefit of one over another? More importantly, is there any particular drawback of one or another?

I am asking you ladies, because my concern is with your experience, not things like drug side effects, etc.

I have never had ED. But I have been stone cold single for over 6 years. I assume there will be some control issues once I return to having sex.

Finally, I am about to start dating a woman eager exploit my lifelong but hereto before closeted spanking fetish as leverage in my first real life experiences with a DF/sm sex life, with the potential of it eventually moving beyond the bedroom and into toward a full-fledged FLR.

I am about to go get the prerequisite STD/STI tests. If and when the dating gets to where she asks about such things, I want to be able to tell her I already have been tested with her in mind.

So on the same trip, I thought I would ask for a prescription to one of these drugs (I am low risk for any cardiac stuff etc.) So, if she brings up the idea of using such a drug for her benefit, I want to say I already got a prescription with her in mind.

But I am wondering if one of these drugs is better than the others for practical reasons when used for a woman's benefit within an intimate relationship.

Thank you

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 12:50:44 PM

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First of all, doctors are not in the habit of handing out pills like Halloween candy if there is no medical benefit.

Secondly, I would never demand that my sub take drugs that he does not need. It's my responsibility to keep him safe.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 1:26:05 PM

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I am about to go get the prerequisite STD/STI tests. If and when the dating gets to where she asks about such things, I want to be able to tell her I already have been tested with her in mind.

I wouldn't trust an STD test that was done X-time before it became relevant. I'd insist on getting a new one done.

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So on the same trip, I thought I would ask for a prescription to one of these drugs (I am low risk for any cardiac stuff etc.) So, if she brings up the idea of using such a drug for her benefit, I want to say I already got a prescription with her in mind.

You best make sure that SHE is indeed the one bringing it up, without you dropping 'hints' offering 'suggestions' etc if you want to play it of as having been done 'for her'.
I personally don't take to kindly to subs making arrangements to fulfill their own fantasies and then trying to spin the situation (by hints, suggestions, etc) as if it's 'for me' that they're willing to do whatever it is they find to be a hot fantasy.

Fantasies are fine, and it's perfectly alright we me to go: "Mistress I would really like to take Viagra because I'm worried about my performance, would you permit this?".
But not alright -with me- to go: "Perhaps Mistress would like me to take Viagra so I can serve her better?".

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 1:33:13 PM

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But I am wondering if one of these drugs is better than the others for practical reasons when used for a woman's benefit within an intimate relationship.

Thank you

Apart from the others have said.....
My housemate used to take Viagra for his ED.

I don't suffer such an infliction but I did try it a few times just for the hell of it to see if it made any difference.
All it did was give me a headache a few hours after taking it.
It didn't make any difference to my performance or longevity.

I seriously wouldn't bother.
If you don't need it, don't take it.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 3:44:39 PM

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Thanks for trying. Although none of you addressed my query are completely mistaken on all counts.

1) Since I have been single and without sexual relations for over 6 years, the test will certainly be relevant to ME and to whomever is the first person I have sexual relations with, should that happen. I am in the lowest risk group imaginable without being a complete virgin, I will not be having sexual relations with anyone else, and such infections do not just magically come from nowhere.

2) My old doctor had no issue with prescribing me Viagra, when I was in a similar situation, after years of no girlfriend. But instead, she gave me free samples. However I never used them because it became clear I did not need them and they were thrown away.

But that was many years ago.

My current doctor has also asked me about whether I thought I needed or wanted such drugs, without my bringing it up, He was my new doctor on my new insurance and we were going over a complete medical history.

He will write me the prescription at my request, which I intend to do.

I will also ask over at Fetlife, where there are several threads and people are not so preachy and clueless.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 4:03:46 PM

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I assume there will be some control issues once I return to having sex.

None of those drugs will help with self control. The only thing they will provide is an erection. They may also give you the ability to go for round two. But, they're not going to help premature ejaculation.

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But I am wondering if one of these drugs is better than the others for practical reasons when used for a woman's benefit within an intimate relationship.

So, other than an erection, what benefits do you think they would provide for a woman?

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 4:07:15 PM

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Has she indicated that an constantly erect penis is what she is looking for? Is it her expectation or your desire ?
Personally I would be pissed if someone anticipated what I want to focus on.
Sometimes I want an erect one and a flaccid one within minutes.
Without medication, that is easy to accomplish.
Just my thoughts on it...
PS I understand that cialis lasts a longer time than viagra and levitra

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 4:28:18 PM

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1) Since I have been single and without sexual relations for over 6 years, the test will certainly be relevant to ME and to whomever is the first person I have sexual relations with, should that happen. I am in the lowest risk group imaginable without being a complete virgin, I will not be having sexual relations with anyone else, and such infections do not just magically come from nowhere.

Yeah, because men never lie about that stuff.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 6:06:38 PM

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Someone said this in a different thread that I thought very clever: don't sell your fetishes as services. It rarely goes down well with the Dominant women.

From what I know,
- Performance drugs will not improve your control. Desensitising creams might, but that, from experience, is also quite hit and miss. What works for others may not work for you so you'll have to experiment.
- Cialis works differently from Viagra. One "enhances" erections, ie it helps further your natural erection, whereas the other induces erections by "encouraging" blood flow.
- Viagra works on women too.
- If you have a history of migraines, both have the middling possibility of inducing them.
- There is no actual evidence to support the myth that either improves the experience in men without ED. It is more likely psychosomatic.
- Viagra is prescribed as heart medication to widen blood vessels and improve circulation.
- Abusing Viagra (frequent and indiscriminate use) can cause ED.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 8:43:37 PM

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all the ED drugs are blood pressure meds that are marketed for their primary side effect in men. if you have ed then you should find out the cause. if you dont have ed taking them may cause changes in blood pressure

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/10/2016 9:06:23 PM

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I think that being locked in a secure, reliable, long term chastity device is the way to go. Never mind the drugs, let the dominant woman do what she does best.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/11/2016 3:28:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: whitebottomboy
But I am wondering if one of these drugs is better than the others for practical reasons when used for a woman's benefit within an intimate relationship.

Thank you

Apart from the others have said.....
My housemate used to take Viagra for his ED.

I don't suffer such an infliction but I did try it a few times just for the hell of it to see if it made any difference.
All it did was give me a headache a few hours after taking it.
It didn't make any difference to my performance or longevity.

I seriously wouldn't bother.
If you don't need it, don't take it.

Interesting side note on that, since you're diabetic, it seems Viagra isn't quite as effective, however it oddly seems to help male diabetics and enhances their life-span.

Recently translated an endocrinology study about it for an international conference. Thought it might be interesting for you.

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RE: Viagra, Cialis, Levitra in Femdom FLR? - 10/11/2016 9:22:00 AM

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I think that being locked in a secure, reliable, long term chastity device is the way to go. Never mind the drugs, let the dominant woman do what she does best.

How nice of you to decide what his relationship should be.

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