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Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/12/2016 7:34:22 PM

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Might not be a new question. :)

I have to admit, I see a lot of hot guys on here and I've been tempting myself with writing a few and starting conversations.

But as I'm a bigger woman, I'm reluctant to do more than chat. I can't help feeling some I chat with (so far nice and say they are interested in me) may want something from me?

That's a weird thing to say. But I guess part of me that is interested in bringing in a slave, part of me wonders if it isn't a ploy for a green card in some way and may just disappear after? Not all I talk to are out of the states, but a couple of men I've been chatting with are super hot and I am wondering why me. :)

How does a mistress establish interest in someone living so far away? I'm going to assume if a slave wants to be here with me, he'd pay for and take care of everything to be here. If I then want him here for longer as I get to know him, I don't mind helping out in some way of course from that point on.

RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/12/2016 9:27:51 PM

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I think BBWs should lock sub. males in chastity.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 12:08:01 AM

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Here's a preliminary step. Use tineye on those hot pictures. There's a chance that those pics are of professional models, and your chat buddies just stole them.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 3:12:12 AM

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Might not be a new question. :)

I have to admit, I see a lot of hot guys on here and I've been tempting myself with writing a few and starting conversations.

But as I'm a bigger woman, I'm reluctant to do more than chat. I can't help feeling some I chat with (so far nice and say they are interested in me) may want something from me?

That's a weird thing to say. But I guess part of me that is interested in bringing in a slave, part of me wonders if it isn't a ploy for a green card in some way and may just disappear after? Not all I talk to are out of the states, but a couple of men I've been chatting with are super hot and I am wondering why me. :)

How does a mistress establish interest in someone living so far away? I'm going to assume if a slave wants to be here with me, he'd pay for and take care of everything to be here. If I then want him here for longer as I get to know him, I don't mind helping out in some way of course from that point on.

Getting a Green Card isn't all that easy, it takes a bit more than just wanting to be with somebody, if they can afford to come and just meet you, travel costs, hotel, etc. chances are that they are having a good job and the qualifications to earn well at home, why would they give that up just to live in the US and with somebody, unless you have a business that can offer them a Green Card.

I'm fairly regularly in the US, for long stretches of time, love the weather in LA, brilliant, however you have quite high costs of living, I'm always amazed that most Americans think that the whole world wants to live in the US...

International phone calls are fairly cheap, there is also always Skype, I'd check them out and if you still want to meet them, let them come to you, or maybe offer to visit them and check out how they live?

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 5:13:01 AM

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I think BBWs should lock sub. males in chastity.

Thanks for being 0% helpful and 100% useless.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 5:39:52 AM

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I have to admit, I see a lot of hot guys on here and I've been tempting myself with writing a few and starting conversations.

But as I'm a bigger woman, I'm reluctant to do more than chat. I can't help feeling some I chat with (so far nice and say they are interested in me) may want something from me?

That's a weird thing to say. But I guess part of me that is interested in bringing in a slave, part of me wonders if it isn't a ploy for a green card in some way and may just disappear after? Not all I talk to are out of the states, but a couple of men I've been chatting with are super hot and I am wondering why me. :)

Why you?

It's natural to be suspicious and there are people who use borrowed pictures on their profiles, or looking to make money or find someone to pay for their lifestyle.

These people exist and you are right to be wary, but there are still very good reasons why "hot" men would want to speak to you.

Plenty of men are attracted to "bigger" women, sometimes far more than they are attracted to "skinny" women. I certainly know submissive men who specifically find larger women attractive and wouldn't consider submitting to a smaller woman. You only have to look at the number of pro-dommes around who are larger ladies and they make a living because men choose them because that is what they prefer.

As for bringing someone into your country from abroad, that is fraught with difficulties, as many countries do not even automatically grant a new husband or wife automatic residency. Of course, unless you really fall for someone overseas, there is no reason why, if you reach out in the way that you are doing, that a man you think is "hot" cannot be found far closer to home.

I think you should exactly contact men you think are hot. If you are not what they like, you will lose nothing. Assuming you take all the normal internet precautions, there are lots of men out there who would be more than interested in what you are offering.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 7:02:38 AM

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I'm going to assume if a slave wants to be here with me, he'd pay for and take care of everything to be here. If I then want him here for longer as I get to know him, I don't mind helping out in some way of course from that point on.

On a marriage green card, you'll be required to sign Form I-864 Affidavit of Support stating that you assume full sole responsibility for providing for the immigrant (at 125% the poverty line) until they become a citizen, or have worked in the US for 10 years.
This obligation does not end with divorce.

They could move, get their permanent residency, divorce you, and then legally stay in the US as long as they like, with you being obligated to support them forever.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 7:05:22 AM

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DarkSteven --->then longwayhome said.

What have you got to lose. One cannot lose nothing.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 7:45:08 AM

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I'm going to assume if a slave wants to be here with me, he'd pay for and take care of everything to be here. If I then want him here for longer as I get to know him, I don't mind helping out in some way of course from that point on.

On a marriage green card, you'll be required to sign Form I-864 Affidavit of Support stating that you assume full sole responsibility for providing for the immigrant (at 125% the poverty line) until they become a citizen, or have worked in the US for 10 years.
This obligation does not end with divorce.

They could move, get their permanent residency, divorce you, and then legally stay in the US as long as they like, with you being obligated to support them forever.

Yikes.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 7:54:41 AM

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I think you should exactly contact men you think are hot. If you are not what they like, you will lose nothing. Assuming you take all the normal internet precautions, there are lots of men out there who would be more than interested in what you are offering.

This. Why bother with people you don't think are hot?

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 8:31:00 AM

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NookieNotes Her profile requires work and better "friend"(was a he wasn't it I can always tell).

defining beauty is - another question. It can be easier to simply ask who has been you best/date parnter in ones lifetime?
1 The one with 10/10 looks
or
2. The beautiful creature - this is, and will always be my answer.

But I will still refer Op back to my original answer - which was to refer to two(fuk thats a lot off 2s) other peoples answer on here in conjunction with mine, one cannot lose nothing - however it is possible to lose your soul in another - so I have heard, as i have never loved.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 9:00:14 AM

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NookieNotes Her profile requires work and better "friend"(was a he wasn't it I can always tell).

I didn't look at the profile.

Of course, there are many factors to finding the one (or many) that you want/desire/are attracted to. However, my answer when asked is always, "Win, or fail spectacularly!"

Go for it. If it doesn't work, take stock, improve, try again.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 9:12:17 AM

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The one in the delicious red
I always look at the profile and words before I offer an opinion, or ramble

Our answers, whilst similar, were not the same - observe

1. What have you got to lose. One cannot lose nothing.
2. "Win, or fail spectacularly!" can one fall from the unknown do you think? (she is also poly) - actually I haven't emailed anyone today, well bar one financial dominate asking her if she could bake - arguments can rage am I as guilty - but most of me believes there is simply no-one here for me to mail

Men rarely get mail on here so we would most likely reply - does anyone require a scammers number from Ghana?

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 10:17:25 AM

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1. What have you got to lose. One cannot lose nothing.
2. "Win, or fail spectacularly!" can one fall from the unknown do you think? (she is also poly)

Oh absolutely these are different attitudes, with completely different mindset.

You say, "It's OK. You have nothing to lose."

I say, It's OK if you really go for something and you lose (they are nasty in reply, so you lose self-esteem, for example), because going for it and the possible rewards are worth it.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/13/2016 11:49:30 AM

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A few thoughts:

1. BBWs have their charm too.

2. look up the pics. Girls do not have ultimate domain over fake pics.

2. You said in your profile that you will relocate them, which represents an open door to scammers (at some point they'll ask for relocation fees and never turn up for example). Green-card scammers exist too but that's frankly rarer than a straight-up wire-transfer-kthnxbai.

3. Looking at your profile, the most likely circumstance of fraud you'll meet is ones that just want to talk to you and weave a fantasy of the loving providing Domme. These types may have a far-off passive intention of relocating, although just as likely not, so good luck ever meeting them face to face.

4. Don't relocate anyone you aren't 200% sure about. Triple-check your liability in sponsoring them.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/14/2016 2:23:01 AM

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NookieNotes Her profile requires work and better "friend"(was a he wasn't it I can always tell).

I didn't look at the profile.

Of course, there are many factors to finding the one (or many) that you want/desire/are attracted to. However, my answer when asked is always, "Win, or fail spectacularly!"

Go for it. If it doesn't work, take stock, improve, try again.

In business as in love.

I like your style.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/18/2016 4:25:46 PM

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Might not be a new question. :)

I have to admit, I see a lot of hot guys on here and I've been tempting myself with writing a few and starting conversations.

But as I'm a bigger woman, I'm reluctant to do more than chat. I can't help feeling some I chat with (so far nice and say they are interested in me) may want something from me?

That's a weird thing to say. But I guess part of me that is interested in bringing in a slave, part of me wonders if it isn't a ploy for a green card in some way and may just disappear after? Not all I talk to are out of the states, but a couple of men I've been chatting with are super hot and I am wondering why me. :)

How does a mistress establish interest in someone living so far away? I'm going to assume if a slave wants to be here with me, he'd pay for and take care of everything to be here. If I then want him here for longer as I get to know him, I don't mind helping out in some way of course from that point on.

I am personally looking for a woman who can take care of me in the style I've become accustomed to.

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RE: Hot, Fit International Men With BBW Woman? - 10/19/2016 2:43:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: longwayhome

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ORIGINAL: NookieNotes

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ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

NookieNotes Her profile requires work and better "friend"(was a he wasn't it I can always tell).

I didn't look at the profile.

Of course, there are many factors to finding the one (or many) that you want/desire/are attracted to. However, my answer when asked is always, "Win, or fail spectacularly!"

Go for it. If it doesn't work, take stock, improve, try again.

In business as in love.

I like your style.

*blush*

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